Dearest Blake,
I am very happy that you are back doing videos with us again. It is always a joy to see you. I hope you will get back to posting with us very soon. You've been missed! xo
I do want to bring up the issue of BB with you. I'm not thrilled that you are doing it. But I also will not put you down for it. All I will try to do is to is tell you that I will still love your work if you or your partner are wearing a condom. And I also hope that you won't feel pressured to go BB either topping or bottoming in order to keep your fans happy. Since I can only speak for myself, I will be very happy for any scene you are in where a condom is in use.
Please please don't get the idea that since you have already gotten used to doing BB onscreen...and nothing bad has happened to you...(or at least not yet) that you can safely do the same thing with either a girl or a guy out in the real world. BB sex is not 100% safe in the confines of the studio. It's far less safe than that out in the real world. Please don't fall for some person's lying b.s. that they "forgot" to bring a condom...when their real intent all along is not to wear a condom at all because they don't "believe" in using them. Don't fall for the girl who says she's clean and on the pill...so there's no need for you to use a condom. Always carry condoms with you so you are not relying on someone else to provide one.
One of the reasons that drugs and alcohol are so dangerous sexually is because people are willing to take more risks when under the influence. They are much more inclined to go with the flow in the heat of the moment and not be safe. There are also some selfish sick people out there who are HIV+ and know they are. Yet they will lie and say whatever they have to say to get someone in bed. And with unprotected sex, at that! There are some who will put on a condom for show, and then secretly take it off. They don't care if they infect someone else and ruin their life, as long as they get their own "needs" met in a one night stand or even an LTR. And if you get sick, they have the attitude of: Well, that's
your problem. Not theirs. There really
are people out there like that. And they can come across as beautiful, nice and charming. Beware!
Also of course there are others who honestly don't know they are positive and incorrectly tell a potential partner that they are clean and safe to have sex with. If saying no to BB with a one night stand means they'll refuse to have sex with you...then be prepared to walk away. There are plenty of other very good looking fish in the sea.
I've told you this before. But I'll repeat it again here just to show you the depth of my affection. Even though we have not met in person I feel blessed to know that you and I are walking the earth at the same time. To know that there are people like you in the world Blake...just warms my heart and brings a smile to my face.
While I am a person of faith and I believe that heaven is much better than the life we here... Can you imagine how devastated I and many many others would be, if anything bad happened to you? Please be very careful with your health Blake. We love you and we care. xooo