Hi Beth:
Thank you for saying hello and your support of my time in the Corps! You are very welcome!
#2- A day in my life while I was serving. I just got back from Afghanistan so I will use that. You never knew sand could get in so many places in your body. It was semi controlled chaos every day. You sleep by the minutes, not hours. We truly are a band of brothers that watch each others back. I am lucky to have been on every tour with the guy I bunked with since basic training "
Drew". We are truly brothers and have been though so much. He is straight BTW. Being gay was never an issue for me and you don't have time for anything like that anyway.
Drew does know but he is the only one. He actually was just here in Texas for a visit with Rick and me last week.
Being there was very rewarding, VERY frustrating. The part I enjoyed the most was protecting the little kids and teaching them to play baseball, sing, dance, learn some English. I adopted a dog to look after in every town I was in. The kids loved me and I loved them. Then in an instant, they were gone in an attack on them by their own people. I have never endured so much heartache. The reasons behind it by their own people are so stupid, so crewel. This has to stop but given a 2000 year history of them fighting each other over there. It won't
4. I do get hit on a LOT!!! 97% girls, 3% guys!
6. As far as the incident at Rick's dive center where he worked. I like all of those that worked there, the cops and others think it was fine. Rick didn't explain all of the trouble that guy had been causing. When he went over the limits, Rick did what he had to do to protect himself and others. I saw the hate in that guys eyes and it doesn't come from just being a homophobe. He has some real issues inside. I suspect he may really be gay himself and had something happen to him to turn him into a madman. I feel bad for him and hope he gets the help he needs.
8. I am leaving
active duty to become a Reservist as I decided to finish college, not re-up again. My commitment is over in 9 months and I made all proud who know me and that I serve with. Including myself. Time for me now.
9. I am not sure yet. I do see same sex marriage coming here in the not too distant future. It will be a battle but I think it will happen.
Rick and I will pick a state and a date. Hell I haven't asked him yet. He may say no way!! LOL
10. The forum is OK I guess.
I haven't been on it much but I do know there are some great people on here like you and also people I wish to never speak with. Case in point I had a "Private Message" this morning when I logged on. It was from some A-hole telling me he was offended by my avatar photo of me in Afghanistan holding my rifle. He told me to take it down. That WILL not happen!
Ya'all have a great day!
Brad
Hey Brad,
Thanks for adding your info to the forum...the more the merrier! Congratulations on such a long relationship...when you know, you know. As for your 1-10:
2. Thank you for serving! Without giving away any military secrets, can you share a "day in the life" of serving while on tour?
4. Ah, the elusive masculine gay guy; do you get hit on a lot by guys and girls?
6. Rick has told us about the horrible incident where he worked. I am sure you read the comments; how do you feel about what was written?
8. Why are you getting out of the Marines? What do you plan to do next?
9. I love Texas, been here since I was 18, but I do not see the legalization of same-sex marriage anytime soon (unfortunate). Do you and Rick plan to marry in another state, where?
10. Please add your thoughts to the forum; you are as important as anyone else here.