Dear Lubetube,
Your words express exactly the same emotions many of us here in forum experienced on hearing (and seeing) about Dustin, and the manner of his death. Because of this forum, we were able to comfort one another and collectively focus our anger. We were also able to share a small part of the incredible pain Dustin's family went thru. Please don't apologize for being a caring person. We welcome that here. Perhaps it will help to remember that both Dustin and Mike R were productive young men, and we should celebrate their lives, and not focus on their passing.
Mike, as well as Dustin touched our lives, shared some of themselves with us, and even made us laugh. We would be foolish and disrespectful, if we chose to focus on the pain and ignore the joy they shared with us.