I couldn’t sleep tonight, so per your request Ms. K, here are 10 random things about me:
1). I am a second generation native Floridian. I was born and raised in Central Florida, as was my Mother. I have never lived permanently anywhere but Florida. My ancestry is Dutch/German (Dad’s side) and Scottish/English (Mom’s side), but if you saw me, you would say I am all American. My family (my Mother’s side) was extremely wealthy until my Grandfather lost all of his money in the bank crash of 1929. He had to sell off all of his non-essential real estate holdings to keep his family going. From that time forward, my family has been the typical hardworking middle class American family.
2). I am the fourth of five children and was raised in an almost “Norman Rockwell painting” sort of environment. I have a brother and three sisters, (but if you ask my smart-assed brother, he will say he has four sisters). When we depart from each other, whether in person or on the phone, the last thing we say is, “I love you”. It is said every time without fail and we mean it!
3). I have lived with a straight woman for about 28 years. At times, there have been more than just the two of us, but now it’s just us and we love it this way. We know each others hot buttons and avoid them. We have built two homes together. I trust her more than almost anyone else in my life, outside of my biological family. We live together, but have completely separate lives. We both travel quite a bit. Her career travel takes her out of our home 50 – 60% of the year, on average. I love my time at home alone and I am never lonely.
4). My occupation is creative and it’s one of my passions. Primarily, I transform empty spaces into 3-dimensional, immersive, themed environments. I am one of the very best at what I do, I make a really good living doing it and I am very proud of my work!
5). I am 100% gay, but I love women! I always have and I always will! I have had strong female figures that have helped to guide me all my life, both personally and professionally. I experimented sexually with women in my late teens, but always felt that something was missing. Then I found out what it was. I have never looked back!
6). Physically, my favorite type of man is smooth, dark and Latin. I find dark features on a man absolutely beautiful. I like masculine men with some meat on their bones and am not the least bit interested (sexually) in thin, effeminate men. Although there is nothing like a good natured, gossipy queen to make me laugh! I love passionate kissing. It is one of my favorite things in the world. I also really like lying in bed and talking, especially on rainy mornings. I have experimented with light B&D and like it… quite a lot. I also like wrestling and have a serious fetish about doctors. I can only assume the doctor fetish stems from an experience I had in a doctor’s office when I was 16 y/o. Details aside, it actually played out just like many of the scenes on
College Boy Physicals. If I described it in detail, I guarantee it would be a
College Boy Physicals scene. It’s still one of my fondest sexual memories to this day.
7). I threw away and turned my back on my first, and really only, one true love 30 years ago. Drugs will do that to you. I will regret that decision for the rest of my life! I am horrible at committed relationships. I get bored easily, and get into trouble, so to be fair to all, I just don’t do it anymore. A few years ago I accidentally fell in love with a young man half my age. Not being ‘boyfriends’ and doing who and what we wanted to was supposed to set us up for success and a lifelong friendship. That, most assuredly, is not what happened! It lasted about a year and I haven’t seen or talked to him in two and a half years. His Mother, (same age as me), still contacts me occasionally and holds out the last great hope that one day I will come back into his life, sweep him off his feet and we will live happily ever after. *(Ironically, and I am not making this up, he called me tonight, while I was writing this. He called to offer his condolences for the loss of my Mother. He said he felt he had to put everything between us aside and let me know that he cared about me, was sorry for my loss and wanted to know if I needed anything, he would always be a phone call away. We talked for a half hour. He’s going to be in this area next week and we are going to try and get together. God help me. I may need some serious
Broke Straight Boys forum therapy after this Ms.K).
8). I love country music, (actually, most all music), football, (college, pro and arena, in that order), cooking, cars, boating, camping and travel. I feel the most at peace when I am by or on the water. My favorite places on earth are all on islands. My top 2 are Frenchman’s Cove outside Port Antonio, Jamaica, and Anini Beach, on the North shore of Kauai, Hawaii, near Princeville. (It used to be named Wanini Beach, but the ‘W’ fell off the sign, so they changed the name of the beach. What’s not to love about that mind set)? I love both islands, (or island and archipelago, respectfully), and their people. Oh, and I love porn, and feel it is as noble a profession as any other, perhaps more so. As an adult performer you put yourself into a very vulnerable situation to be judged by others and quite honestly, too many people are opinionated assholes. You will never hear a negative opinion about a performer from me on this forum, only positive thoughts, posts and vibes. If I don’t like someone or something, I just avoid them/it. There are already enough douche bags on this rock and I refuse to join their rank and file.
9). One of my very best friends is a married straight man. If he were gay, he would likely be the love of my life. He knows this and is flattered. I would give my life for him. Over the years, I have enjoyed, and taken advantage of having sex with straight men, when ever the situation presented itself, (drunkenness, curiosity, just got out of boot camp and couldn’t wait another minute, etc.). I have been fortunate that this has happened quite a lot in my life, cuz I love me some straight boys. However, I would never take advantage of this man, regardless of the opportunity. I value his love and friendship too much to ever risk losing it. I told him this… He thanked me!
10). I am liberal in my thinking and politics, but I am registered as an independent, because I truly think that dividing our country between two primary parties has completely destroyed our government. The optimist in me hopes that one day this will get better. The realist in me knows that our two party political structure was not designed properly to stand the test of time. It simply cannot adapt to today’s standard of business in the District of Columbia. While I truly believe there are some good and just politicians, the vast majority will simply be obstinate to anything outside of party lines. This is no way to represent your country and I find it appalling. In my lifetime, I truly believe that Bill Clinton was a great economist and statesman, and one of the best Presidents of our time. Conversely, I feel that George W. Bush is a bigoted, good ol boy who can’t speak proper English, and should never have been allowed to become President. I also feel that he is largely responsible for much of what we are still trying to clean up today. I do, however, thank him for making such a big deal about same sex marriage. Had he not done so, individual states would probably not have been so determined to allow and embrace it for their residents. It’s not something I would want to do personally, but I would like the same opportunity as anyone else, should I change my mind. So if anyone runs into former President Duh, please express to him my sincere appreciation!
11). Mick rocks!
So there you go folks. There’s my Random Top 10 + 1, (who didn't see that last one coming?) as requested, and a pretty fair snapshot of who I am. Not unlike the onion, there are many more layers to me than this. But this gives you a pretty good glimpse into the Magic that is Me! There’s a lot of ammo up there, so start firing and bring your best!
Happy Friday!
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