That is good to know that he was sincere and would not accept financial help from you. Sadly one friend of mine gave a lot of money to his younger boyfriend in another country who was abused by his caretakers. He spoke of his young boyfriend as the love of his life, yet they never met in person. And it was large sums of money to help him with medical assistance, supposedly.
The younger guys I gave money to were always for sexual favors. Although one guy who worked for me at my thirty year plus job asked me to “loan” him $50 after he stopped working for me, to get a license to be a lifeguard one summer. I sure would have loved to see him on the beach in the lifeguard chair. He was hot. We never talked about my sexuality but it was obvious to him and other people at work how infatuated I was with him. The loan came the same year I took him to the mall after work on his 19th birthday to buy him a present. It was a game boy that he wanted. He was so hot, a biracial kid whose dad was Puerto Rican and his mom Caucasian. His dad was in prision when I knew him. I was definitely in love with him, yet as the Frankie Vali song goes, “My eyes adored you but I never laid a hand on you”. lol.
Guys like him are what attracted me to
Broke Straight Boys Seeing young straight guys getting naked and having gay sex fulfilled my fantasies with guys who reminded me of the guys who worked for me and I became emotionally attached to.
Wow. I sure went off on a tangent laying here in bed early on a Saturday morning tapping away on my iPad keyboard. lol