absolute turn-offs

[reeseyboy]

I was just wondering what are people's turn offs or deal breakers. I do ask people be tactful tho' as you never know if the person reading your comments would fall in that category.

For me, I get turned off by smoking. I can take the person who smokes rarely but those guys are rare themselves. Also people who are messy or keep dirty/unclean living spaces, like we could fuck at my place but we could never ever date.

 

[Ms. Kianna]

I can agree with you on the smoking, it is a big turn-off for me. I am also immediately turned off by bad teeth, and I mean bad teeth, not just a little crooked.

 

[Frontier]

People who talk about nothing but them selves, poor dental care, people who don't bathe daily, and when meeting the first time make the decisions of what and where to go, I think a gentleman would give his date the preference.

 

[scorpio]

I actually like to kiss a guy who just smoked. I don't know why but it doesn't bother me at all. Crooked tooth doesn't bother as long as it's only one lol I do have one myself (exactly like Jewel the singer) so I'd be a hypocrite saying that it bothers me. Anyway, my number 1 turnoff is the type of guys who know they're hot and say it out loud. Total turnoff for me. It's one thing that you know you're handsome, it's another to say it out loud to people. It's so not attractive that it even repulses me. So yeah, that's my turn off

 

[cumrag27]

Deal Breaker: Having the wrong genitalia, despite their masculine appearance/demeanor

To whom it may concern:

When it gets down to brass tax in the Romance Department, I really would find the absence of "male genitalia" to be more than a little bit off-putting. Therefore, even with prior advance warning, I would find the...

"missing bone-of-contention"
OR the addition of a...
"reasonable facsimile"
to be pretty much that often misused phrase known as a...
"Deal Breaker",
as far my personal opinion is concerned.​

While we all should strive to be "inclusive" , we all have our personal limits, too!


Sincerely "specialized",



Stimpy

 

[grace17]

Physical turn offs for me would be the usual things regarding poor personal hygienic, and my big personality turn off is people who have a mean streak. Mr. Mean and Nasty is definitely out, but even less obvious meanness such as putting other people down in front of others, even if it's only an occasional lapse, I'd be outta there!

 

[cumrag27]

Let's just clear the air...

Dear Scorpio,

Very well said, and I would have to agree with you totally, other than your..."liking to kiss a guy who just smoked" part. Not being a smoker myself, but growing up around as cigar-smoking father till I was 15, was enough to cure me permanently of this smoking possibility. Oh well, I don't intend to say this as any personal criticism, rather just to acknowledge our differences is all! Actually, when all is said and done, I much preferred your way of expressing your preferences over my own earlier tongue-n-cheek posting above.


Sincerely,



Stimpy

 

[rrhill]

Expect the worst Stephane!

I actually like to kiss a guy who just smoked. Crooked tooth are welcome. I'd be a hypocrite saying that it bothers me.

Fungus? Pubic lice? Small handicap? A sweet humble Nelly boy? A fanatic nail biter? Your new love hangs clothes in your closet. Moves your memorabilia into a carton box.

 

[erikthbod]

Trun Off : An obnoxious drunk... or a crying drunk... ah hell anyone who is too drunk.

Turn On : Scorpio

 

[reeseyboy]

I love so many of these! I know one of my deal breakers are people who are allergic to cats (I have one, Titania, and I want to get another one, a boy and I'll name him Osiris) and people who are just mean to animals in general. Oh stupidity is a major turn off; I am not asking that you know all the things I know or speak rather proper like I do but I do need a man to intelligent, know your field, know about the world, be able to have a philosophical conversation or two. Capricorns, cancers, and dear god I should stay away from Taurus boys (but the keep pulling me in)

Zodiac turn ons: Other Aquarius people, Aries, Scorpios, Libras, Leos, Sagittarius

 

[lovelumps]

I have an issue with noisy people. I was brought up to be quiet physically. Mouth breathing, sniffles, fidgeting, toe taping, throat clearing... Any personal noises were unladylike. Well, that being said, I went and fell in love with a snerky sound making mouth breather who fidgets. Ugg!!! Drives me nuts. There is a reason why we don't notice these things about our life partners before its too late! I'd be a lonely childless single middle aged horny bitch!!!

 

[Frontier]

Physical turn offs for me would be the usual things regarding poor personal hygienic, and my big personality turn off is people who have a mean streak. Mr. Mean and Nasty is definitely out, but even less obvious meanness such as putting other people down in front of others, even if it's only an occasional lapse, I'd be outta there!

I like that and agree. Respect for all.

 

[peterh6308]

Biggest pet peeve is needy people (you know "I'm the victim) type. I don't like bad feet! I would take a mediocre looking guy with nice feet over a hot one with bad looking feet. People who are unsure about anything drive me nuts also. I love sincere people, the kind that are sweet and kind without trying are my favorite to be around. I'm a giver so a only taker is out!

 

[JLipps4u]

My biggest turn offs are nelly boys and big build guy (body builders). I prefer a young man who is lean, but muscled.

The other thing that I just have no patience for is drunks! Can't stand to be around people who can't hold their liquor. The other thing is, besides being obnoxious, you can taste beer and liquor in men's sperm! Hate to taste that! You can also taste nicotine, caffeine, and garlic, yuck!

 

[peterh6308]

My biggest turn offs are nelly boys and big build guy (body builders). I prefer a young man who is lean, but muscled.

The other thing that I just have no patience for is drunks! Can't stand to be around people who can't hold their liquor. The other thing is, besides being obnoxious, you can taste beer and liquor in men's sperm! Hate to taste that! You can also taste nicotine, caffeine, and garlic, yuck!

Sounds like your looking for young, lean mormon boy! hahaha

 

[JLipps4u]

Sounds like your looking for young, lean mormon boy! hahaha

Well, yes, they do fit the bill! Have had a few already. I should write about 1 or 2 of them.

 

[Buckeye1]

Sounds like your looking for young, lean mormon boy! hahaha

Perhaps one of Mitt's sons?

 

[JLipps4u]

Perhaps one of Mitt's sons?

That would be too high profile for me, lol.

 

[MissDeidra]

My biggest turn-off is a bad tipper. Some others are racists, homophobes, ageists, misogynists and people that wear fur. Also if you are on a date with someone and they use bathroom humor. Big turn off.

 

[Markymark]

Sounds like your looking for young, lean mormon boy! hahaha

We suppose it depends which way the boy lean (s)?

and.... YES! jlipps, you should write about them! MMMMMMM!