4 out of 5 experts surveyed...

[Jayman01]

I think that the most important aspect of any good blow job is their desire, passion, and willingness to just do their best each time they suck your cock because they care enough to try to do their best. If they lack those aspects they are probably just going through the motions and it ruins the whole experience.

 

[lovelumps]

I think that the most important aspect of any good blow job is their desire, passion, and willingness to just do their best each time they suck your cock because they care enough to try to do their best. If they lack those aspects they are probably just going through the motions and it ruins the whole experience.

Thanks, Jayman! I appreciate your perspective. I think you are absolutely correct. I've felt the same way on the reciprocal side of this coin. However, there is still that element of "over the top" happiness that I guess is elusive, which is what I'm looking for ideas about....

 

[Jayman01]

Thanks, Jayman! I appreciate your perspective. I think you are absolutely correct. I've felt the same way on the reciprocal side of this coin. However, there is still that element of "over the top" happiness that I guess is elusive, which is what I'm looking for ideas about....

OK, I think I understand better now. I think you are referring to the nirvana moment of the experience. I think that usually comes with spontaneity, trust, and timing. When our energies merge collectively as one that is where the nirvana moment happens. I see why you have this thread going because I think that it is very different for everyone and their comfort level.

I.e. Sometimes a taboo moment makes the experience more erotic for me. Like when a friend and I had sex on the river bank in broad day light where anyone walking by could watch. We got totally naked and just went for it. Then their was one time another friend and I 69'd right before he took his wedding vows in the room right next to the Bride's dressing room. (Hey, it was his idea and it helped calm his nerves.) Then there was the time I got a BJ on the catwalk of the bridge on the US GUAM/LPH-9. It is amazing how dark those catwalks are at night. I talked to a Lt. for almost 3 min. while getting a BJ and they did not appear to be the wiser. LOL Then there was the time I had sex with this straight guy on the 5th or 6th floor balcony at the Santa Anna In Palma (I had to throw that one in there for Slim.) I also had a friend who loved to give head with beer in his mouth. That was a wild experience that put me over the top a time or two. (OK, I better stop that is getting to be too much info. LOL) In all of those moments each of my partners gave it their all to make the experience extra special and I felt their desire, passion, and willingness to do their best and that brought out the best in me too..​

So, I guess for me doing something with a friend that is straight publicly always seemed to add to the intensity of the moment.

 

[tampa24]

As has been mentioned before, I think the ability to deep throat adds another dimension to fellatio.

I once had a neighbor boy, eighteen years old, typical high school jock, had all the girls fawning all over him, telling me in a personal discussion that he thought head was highly overrated because he had never had a blow job that was enjoyable. His exact words were, "I get a hell of a lot more from jacking off than any girl has even done giving me head."

I asked him what the problem was and he just said that for some reason, they only sucked on about the first two inches of his dick. I jokingly told him that apparently they were doing it wrong. He knew that I am gay, so he sarcastically said something about my being an expert. I chuckled. We bantered back and forth and finally it became a challenge. I couldn't believe that Mr. Straight Jock challenged me to give him a blow job. It was then that I understood what the problem was. This kid had the biggest white dick I have ever seen, before or since. I know it is cliche, but, honest to God, it was a beer can around and two beer cans long. He didn't even know he was big. He thought everybody was endowed like that. I pride myself that the good Lord hasn't created one that I can't handle, and, though I had tears in my eyes, I soon brought him to a toe-curling, white-knucle, trembling orgasm (yummy!).

Result: this kid was knocking on my door at least once a day wanting to get off. He would come home from a date and bolt across the street to get relief. More than once, I tasted the wares of some wayward lass on his equipment. I ran into him several years later (at a funeral, no less) and he wanted to slip off somewhere, ditch his wife and three kids and get some "of that killer skull." His wife was the one in the corner of the room who walked funny.

Moral of the story: you don't have to be the best in the world. You just have to be better than anyone they have ever been with. And, we all know that practice makes perfect. So go out there and proudly hone your skills. You never know when you are going to land the big one, if that's what you're into. I am not a size queen, but this kid was an Adonis and he LOVED to park his willy in my mouth.

Hi Carking,

You had me rolling on the floor with that one. LOL And I can only imagine how thrilling it was to have a hot, hung 18 y/o kid knocking on your door and begging for relief. From other people I might have questioned the veracity of such an outlandish claim. But I know you're telling the truth.

Congratulations on reeling in a BIG one. lol And my compliments on your skills in knowing how to handle it once you landed it.

 

[tampa24]

I'm still waiting for advice, though.... Care to share a favorite trick?

Hey LL,

You make me feel almost shy about sharing this with a woman. lol But here goes. While these 2 tricks are not specifically useful for only a blowjob they can (with some imagination) be incorporated into one.

One thing is that I found an erogenous spot I didn't know I had, quite by accident. I had rested the bottom pages of a small paperback erotica magazine on the underside of the scrotum. With an erection I accidentally rubbed it in a back to front motion. It sent a jolt of electricity through me. The roughness of the tightly bound pages rubbing back and forth from back to front was quite pleasurable. Just a thought....

One other thing since you both seem to enjoy a little bit of rimming. For a man with an erection, the anus becomes super sensitive under water. Whether it's in a bathtub, hot tub or swimming pool.

Side note: Many men have difficulty maintaining an erection in very hot water.

The lubrication of water allows the fingers to lightly dance across the hole in a whole new way. Don't be surprised if it results in a contraction around the hole, a moan, a contorted facial expression, and perhaps a slight buckling of the knees. If one is lucky enough to be standing at the time. haha And this probably is true of females as well.

 

[lovelumps]

Hey LL,

You make me feel almost shy about sharing this with a woman. lol But here goes. While these 2 tricks are not specifically useful for only a blowjob they can (with some imagination) be incorporated into one.

One thing is that I found an erogenous spot I didn't know I had, quite by accident. I had rested the bottom pages of a small paperback erotica magazine on the underside of the scrotum. With an erection I accidentally rubbed it in a back to front motion. It sent a jolt of electricity through me. The roughness of the tightly bound pages rubbing back and forth from back to front was quite pleasurable. Just a thought....

One other thing since you both seem to enjoy a little bit of rimming. For a man with an erection, the anus becomes super sensitive under water. Whether it's in a bathtub, hot tub or swimming pool.

Side note: Many men have difficulty maintaining an erection in very hot water.

The lubrication of water allows the fingers to lightly dance across the hole in a whole new way. Don't be surprised if it results in a contraction around the hole, a moan, a contorted facial expression, and perhaps a slight buckling of the knees. If one is lucky enough to be standing at the time. haha And this probably is true of females as well.

Thanks, Tampa! Hubby's not a bath man, but he does love to shower! I think it's time to test the hot water tank!

 

[underwear fun]

Cock sucking

Lovelumps,

These guys seem to appreciate a great guy blow job. Some even willing to swap 'girlfriends' over because they enjoyed it so much!

http://www.ungloryhole.com/t1/home.htm

Funny concept.

Undie

 

[cumrag27]

What he didn't tell you...and 12 URGENT but unanswered questions!

Hey LL,

You make me feel almost shy about sharing this with a woman. lol But here goes. While these 2 tricks are not specifically useful for only a blowjob they can (with some imagination) be incorporated into one.

One thing is that I found an erogenous spot I didn't know I had, quite by accident. I had rested the bottom pages of a small paperback erotica magazine on the underside of the scrotum. With an erection I accidentally rubbed it in a back to front motion. It sent a jolt of electricity through me. The roughness of the tightly bound pages rubbing back and forth from back to front was quite pleasurable. Just a thought....

One other thing since you both seem to enjoy a little bit of rimming. For a man with an erection, the anus becomes super sensitive under water. Whether it's in a bathtub, hot tub or swimming pool.

Side note: Many men have difficulty maintaining an erection in very hot water.

The lubrication of water allows the fingers to lightly dance across the hole in a whole new way. Don't be surprised if it results in a contraction around the hole, a moan, a contorted facial expression, and perhaps a slight buckling of the knees. If one is lucky enough to be standing at the time. haha And this probably is true of females as well.

Dear Tampa24,

I too was impressed with your disclosure of you newest discovery on how to fully appreciate a small erotica paperback with only the underside of your scrotum. I guess this works whether you are wearing your reading glasses or not. Excellent when in the tub and your glasses are no longer in easy reach or the water temperature has them so steamed up they are rendered useless.

I felt your scientific discovery, even if discovered by some fateful accident, deserves replication to see if the claim is valid or not, scientifically speaking. I then proceeded feverishly to my "wedding chest of lost dreams", trying to locate such a sufficiently erotic paperback where the pages were not stuck together or otherwise spoiled by creams and oils and/or food products only to locate the perfect..."bottom pages of a small erotica paperback"... manufactured expressly for..."the underside of your scrotum". What amazing scanning properties we guys possess. I proceeded to lower myself into the bathtub applying only the bottom pages forthwith and as recommended.

What you failed to supply was the following information, Dr. Tampa, in your home owners user's guide:

01.) What precisely do you recommend addressing any medical needs resulting from the occasional paper cut?
02.) Should one precede directly to the ER upon continuing bleeding or should one merely hope for the best?
03.) How should you explain to the intake person upon entry to the ER about the causation of this injury? Work-related or accidental?
04.) Should one attempt to have this filed with their health care provided as a much needed second circumcision attempt gone wrong?
05.) Can this medical expense be considered "educational expenses" on your 1040 Tax Form?
06.) Should you seek the care of a specialist in attempting to bring the now separating two continents back together again?
07.) Will this ensuing new hole make it less likely to be featured in the new Broke Straight Boys as a "new model", or more realistically as a "slightly used model" at a discounted fee, instead?
08.) Will this increase my chances of being "type-cast" exclusively for "prision scene" episodes?
09.) Does this mean I now qualify for DP episodes automatically?
10.) Do the "DP actors" receive twice the pay automatically according to porn-actors scale?
11.) Am I technically considered as a tranny without the "boob job"?
12.) Are their any precautions I will need to follow wearing the skimpiest of thongs and their interaction with my latest entry point or am I to totally foresake all previously acquired thongs to Goodwill for only a tax receipt and report directly to some convent to live my life in total solitude?

I can only take being hoisted into the air, inverted, and with both legs spread-eagled so long! It seems all the blood in one head has now drained into my other head. I truly anticipate your answer, Dr. Tampa, with all due haste as your medical exchange is now completely backed up!

You have my full attention, trust me!

Cumrag27, aka Stimpy

 

[underwear fun]

Sunday Morning

I thought I'd tell a story....well brag a bit really....just for fun (of course).

I've spoken before about how much and how far I cum but its a bit difficult to believe until you see me in action.

Well my bf has left me for Thanksgiving and Christmas to go back to his parents he hasn't seen in a while. So we are apart for about six weeks now. I said it wasn't fair. What was I expected to do to relieve my horniness? We discussed it a bit and come up with me being able to meet professional guys for massage and jacking off but no penetrative sex. Ok then.

Well I did some searching with my bf and to my surprise I found a beautiful twink massuer. In fact he is one of the best known international gay twink porn stars and one of my favorites. So I later phoned him up, left a message and he later called me back when I was shopping in the supermarket. Bit funny arranging a massage in a busy supermarket.

Anyway, he came over this morning (he has one beautiful smooth boy body) and gave me a wonderful massage with his soft warm hands. At the end of the session he got to work on my cock, I held off as long as I could but in the end I erupted shooting cum on my stomach, shoulders, face and on floor past my head. He burts out laughing and actually said "oh my god". Yes him the porn star! He continued laughing running to the bathroom to get some toilet paper to mop me and the floor up. He was so amazed he actually asked me when I last came I told him it was about 4 or 5 days. He said that I came so high like a fountain, still giggling.

It is kinda fun seeing a porn star u have jacked off to many times come around to your apartment and get u off. That was my Sunday morning. mmmmmm. I feel relaxed and temporarily satisfied and can't wait to tell my lovely bf all about the massage.

Undie (I do so love surprising people with my cum shooting, hehe)

 

[lovelumps]

Oh, Undie! That's quite a story! That must be something to see!

I've been seeing the same massage therapist every month for the last year. She is wonderful at what she does! The first couple of times I saw her, I tried to take the advice of an MT from years ago, and just shut up and relax and breathe so I'd get the full benefit of the relaxation process. I know.... That lasted 2 sessions. I couldn't stand it anymore. So, I started talking to her about life, my life, her life....

Anyway, it seems massage therapy and talk therapy go hand in hand, only while she's working her magic on my body, getting rid of all the tension, kinks, aches and pains and making me feel like a puddle of goo, I'm listening to her tell me about her life with her boyfriend, her colleagues, her family. So, it's become therapeutic for both of us, a win-win!

We've become comfortable enough that there isn't much we don't discuss. This summer we discussed the erotica I like to read. She was struggling with feeling sexual toward her bf. The next massage we took that further, and discussed sex toys. The next time, she was having trouble with her bf's behavior and needed to vent, so I listened.

This time, yesterday, we discussed sex, again. Surprise, surprise! I mentioned Broke Straight Boys She thought it sounded really hot! I told her it certainly can be. I mentioned the forum, the friendships, the drama, the fascinating discussions. This forum certainly offers a lot in the way of entertainment and thought provoking discussion. Anyway, she mentioned a same sex relationship she had several years ago. We talked about that quite a bit. I mentioned my one and only experience making out with a girl. We laughed about how we prefer cock

My massage ran over this time. I left feeling completely satisfied; back pain gone, heart lighter from a great chat session. Although, I was feeling a little peckish for some hot, hard man meat! So, I guess completely satisfied isn't right... but I wonder, is a good chat session with a girlfriend similarly satisfying to a woman as an orgasm from a hot porn star is to man???

Inquiring minds, and all....

 

[SGVBOB]

part 2: What determines an 'expert cocksucker'? when the cocksucker can make the suckee cum in less than 1 minute! :-D

 

[SGVBOB]

part 3:when the suckee get s that internal 'shivver' just from the way he is being given head!