4 out of 5 experts surveyed...

[lovelumps]

So, what, exactly, determines expert status in the case of something like cock sucking, hmmm???

I know that I have mentioned a time of two that I feel pretty confident about my abilities in this department. However, there is always room for improvement, and I think even an "expert" would admit that they learn new things all the time.

So my question for you is this... what is the one thing (or several things), that either your partner, a past lover or one time fuck, has done to your cock while engaged in fellatio that made your toes curl and you lose control.

(looking to spice things up a little, here...)

 

[slimvintage]

So, what, exactly, determines expert status in the case of something like cock sucking, hmmm???

I know that I have mentioned a time of two that I feel pretty confident about my abilities in this department. However, there is always room for improvement, and I think even an "expert" would admit that they learn new things all the time.

So my question for you is this... what is the one thing (or several things), that either your partner, a past lover or one time fuck, has done to your cock while engaged in fellatio that made your toes curl and you lose control.

(looking to spice things up a little, here...)

Deepthroated and then put his swallow mechanism into play. He had my dickhead in way past his soft palate, his nose all the way up against the public arch, his lips tight around the base, and he started gulping!. LL, you'd need to have a willy to know what that feels like. If you did, I think I would be able to do it to you since I made it a point to practice the technique as often as I could.

 

[lovelumps]

Whew!

Thanks, Slim... I'll certainly have to work on that one! Sounds amazing, even to this willyless girly... I have a good imagination Just the thought has me all worked up!

 

[praise3473]

Praise of Approval!

So, what, exactly, determines expert status in the case of something like cock sucking, hmmm???

I know that I have mentioned a time of two that I feel pretty confident about my abilities in this department. However, there is always room for improvement, and I think even an "expert" would admit that they learn new things all the time.

So my question for you is this... what is the one thing (or several things), that either your partner, a past lover or one time fuck, has done to your cock while engaged in fellatio that made your toes curl and you lose control.

(looking to spice things up a little, here...)

Ms. Lovelumps, I don't believe we've ever been formally introduced. I'm the new kid in town - shy, timid, bashful. You know the type. I happened to be in the neighborhood, and I think I heard someone say something about sucking dick. Out of all the things in the world to talk about... you picked dick sucking?... You're my hero, Ms. Lovelumps! BRAVO! Good choice. If you had sweaty balls, I would kiss you.

Fresh Face, Fresh Voice... that boy PRAISE!

 

[praise3473]

Deepthroated and then put his swallow mechanism into play. He had my dickhead in way past his soft palate, his nose all the way up against the public arch, his lips tight around the base, and he started gulping!. LL, you'd need to have a willy to know what that feels like. If you did, I think I would be able to do it to you since I made it a point to practice the technique as often as I could.

This may be my favorite thread... ever in life as we know it. Shit, you had me at pubic arch. I don't know where this is going, but I know I want to be along for the ride. Realizing that you can deepthroat increases your worth in my book. I think that particular ability is a beautiful thing. Ranks right up there with solving world hunger and coming up with a cure for cancer. Slim, you are truly amazing.

I talk a good game, but In reality I have had very few sexual partners, and have never received a blow job worth jack. I've got to get out more.

Fresh Face, Fresh Voice... that boy PRAISE!

 

[lovelumps]

the pleasure is all mine...

Ms. Lovelumps, I don't believe we've ever been formally introduced. I'm the new kid in town - shy, timid, bashful. You know the type. I happened to be in the neighborhood, and I think I heard someone say something about sucking dick. Out of all the things in the world to talk about... you picked dick sucking?... You're my hero, Ms. Lovelumps! BRAVO! Good choice. If you had sweaty balls, I would kiss you.

Fresh Face, Fresh Voice... that boy PRAISE!

I am very pleased to make your acquaintance, Praise! Welcome to the neighborhood! I have very much enjoyed reading your contributions thus far, and truly hope you are enjoying your forays into forum land....

I know, a lady never speaks of such things as blow jobs, but I've never professed to be a lady. My mother would be horrified! She raised me better than to be so brazen!

I hope I get lots more advice! So far, so good!

Grosses bises!!!

 

[lesit78]

I am very pleased to make your acquaintance, Praise! Welcome to the neighborhood! I have very much enjoyed reading your contributions thus far, and truly hope you are enjoying your forays into forum land....

I know, a lady never speaks of such things as blow jobs, but I've never professed to be a lady. My mother would be horrified! She raised me better than to be so brazen!

I hope I get lots more advice! So far, so good!

Grosses bises!!!

So Love Lumps, since you brought it up, do some girls actually enjoy giving blow jobs? Back in the day (when I was still straight), I found that girls typically would do it mainly cuz they felt they had to. Kind of like how I felt about eating them out. It was a requirement for me prior to entering their quivering little mound of love inside a bun. Seriously though, while I didn't particularly enjoy eating a girl out, I know they loved having it done to them.

And I realized at the time as I do now that I was in the minority of "straight" men who didn't particularly enjoy performing oral sex on women. And I always assumed they felt more or less the same way about performing the same act on guys!

But, once me and my 20 year old best friend started casually messing around on occasion, I discovered that I LOVED sucking his cock! And I soon discovered that not only did I love sucking on his big cock which was always rock hard before I even got it out of his jeans, but I also loved licking his balls, sucking on them, and easing my tongue under his balls and as far under them as I could get!

Of course the fun never lasted long, because he usually accidentally came into my mouth within like 2 minutes of sucking him...or less. Which SUCKED! Pun not originally intended, but now it is intended.

Which I found curious (and to this day I still find curious), because there were plenty of times at parties, or other events, where he would be fucking various girls for LONG periods of time before FINALLY coming out of the bedroom. And there was more than once where I inspected the spent rubber when no one was looking, to verify that he had indeed cum into it. Which he always had. So why did he last so long with those girls, but never more than 2 minutes when I would blow him?

I doubt it was my talent, because at the time he was the first and ONLY guy had blown up until that point. Or was it? I don't know. He never once remarked (positive or negative) whether or not I had done a good job sucking him. However he came every time, way too fast. And he sucked me too, although I never came as fast as he had.

I know I took to his cock like a fly takes to honey, I loved it! It was big, at least it seemed big to me at the time. Probably no more than 7 inches I'd say, but to my virgin mouth, it seemed ENORMOUS!

Abe

 

[lovelumps]

I can't speak for all girls....

So Love Lumps, since you brought it up, do some girls actually enjoy giving blow jobs?

Thanks for sharing that really intimate story, Abe!

I do, indeed LOVE the art of the blow job. It's one of the things I enjoy most about the site, the really great scenes when someone just falls into giving a blow job and seems to get carried away....

But not only do I enjoy watching blow jobs, I love giving them. I can't say that I always did. I always have done it. Sometimes out of obligation, but usually because I wanted to. I was always fascinated with the penis, and enjoyed getting a close up view, and then licking and sucking was always fun, especially because of the reaction the action garnered. But sometimes, guys don't let a girl take it at her own speed.

However, it wasn't until recently, maybe 5 years ago if that can be considered recent, that I started really LOVING giving my husband blow jobs. It's not a quick job. He takes longer to cum with a blow job than he does with traditional sex ( I must have a magical pussy ). Actually, I think it's because I'm in control and proceed from the perspective that I'm in it to have some fun, to see how far I can take him. He is also more receptive to me playing past his balls. So I can lick and suck to my heart's content on his penis, balls and even tongue his perineum and very rarely, his hole.

My motivation is purely selfish, usually. If I want to have an extended night of bed play and decide on an blow job, it usually gets me revved up, but more importantly, gets him revved up, and I have more options. Often, I'll make him cum with my mouth and then he reciprocates. Then after I've gotten off, too, he's all ready to go again, and so am I.... So then I have a hard man who's not on edge to cum, but ready to fuck for a long time

Sometimes, I just know he needs a "quickie" to relieve stress and help him sleep, and the blow job is way more intimate and satisfying to us both than a hand job or quickie sex. It does turn me on to blow him. So, being the generally unselfish person that I am, I don't put demands for reciprocity on him, he goes to sleep and I take care of myself. He knows it's going on, and it doesn't bother him. I like the "no pressure" aspect. It's counterintuitive to the relaxation a good orgasm does for the body for him to feel after a good blow job that he's responsible for me, too. Usually, that's important, for him to be engaged in my pleasure, but not always.

So, I do love giving blow jobs.... Don't all of you come line up at my door.... I've got my hands full here! But do give me suggestions!!!!

 

[carking1]

As has been mentioned before, I think the ability to deep throat adds another dimension to fellatio.

I once had a neighbor boy, eighteen years old, typical high school jock, had all the girls fawning all over him, telling me in a personal discussion that he thought head was highly overrated because he had never had a blow job that was enjoyable. His exact words were, "I get a hell of a lot more from jacking off than any girl has even done giving me head."

I asked him what the problem was and he just said that for some reason, they only sucked on about the first two inches of his dick. I jokingly told him that apparently they were doing it wrong. He knew that I am gay, so he sarcastically said something about my being an expert. I chuckled. We bantered back and forth and finally it became a challenge. I couldn't believe that Mr. Straight Jock challenged me to give him a blow job. It was then that I understood what the problem was. This kid had the biggest white dick I have ever seen, before or since. I know it is cliche, but, honest to God, it was a beer can around and two beer cans long. He didn't even know he was big. He thought everybody was endowed like that. I pride myself that the good Lord hasn't created one that I can't handle, and, though I had tears in my eyes, I soon brought him to a toe-curling, white-knucle, trembling orgasm (yummy!).

Result: this kid was knocking on my door at least once a day wanting to get off. He would come home from a date and bolt across the street to get relief. More than once, I tasted the wares of some wayward lass on his equipment. I ran into him several years later (at a funeral, no less) and he wanted to slip off somewhere, ditch his wife and three kids and get some "of that killer skull." His wife was the one in the corner of the room who walked funny.

Moral of the story: you don't have to be the best in the world. You just have to be better than anyone they have ever been with. And, we all know that practice makes perfect. So go out there and proudly hone your skills. You never know when you are going to land the big one, if that's what you're into. I am not a size queen, but this kid was an Adonis and he LOVED to park his willy in my mouth.

 

[lesit78]

Thanks for sharing that really intimate story, Abe!

I do, indeed LOVE the art of the blow job. It's one of the things I enjoy most about the site, the really great scenes when someone just falls into giving a blow job and seems to get carried away....

But not only do I enjoy watching blow jobs, I love giving them. I can't say that I always did. I always have done it. Sometimes out of obligation, but usually because I wanted to. I was always fascinated with the penis, and enjoyed getting a close up view, and then licking and sucking was always fun, especially because of the reaction the action garnered. But sometimes, guys don't let a girl take it at her own speed.

However, it wasn't until recently, maybe 5 years ago if that can be considered recent, that I started really LOVING giving my husband blow jobs. It's not a quick job. He takes longer to cum with a blow job than he does with traditional sex ( I must have a magical pussy ). Actually, I think it's because I'm in control and proceed from the perspective that I'm in it to have some fun, to see how far I can take him. He is also more receptive to me playing past his balls. So I can lick and suck to my heart's content on his penis, balls and even tongue his perineum and very rarely, his hole.

My motivation is purely selfish, usually. If I want to have an extended night of bed play and decide on an blow job, it usually gets me revved up, but more importantly, gets him revved up, and I have more options. Often, I'll make him cum with my mouth and then he reciprocates. Then after I've gotten off, too, he's all ready to go again, and so am I.... So then I have a hard man who's not on edge to cum, but ready to fuck for a long time

Sometimes, I just know he needs a "quickie" to relieve stress and help him sleep, and the blow job is way more intimate and satisfying to us both than a hand job or quickie sex. It does turn me on to blow him. So, being the generally unselfish person that I am, I don't put demands for reciprocity on him, he goes to sleep and I take care of myself. He knows it's going on, and it doesn't bother him. I like the "no pressure" aspect. It's counterintuitive to the relaxation a good orgasm does for the body for him to feel after a good blow job that he's responsible for me, too. Usually, that's important, for him to be engaged in my pleasure, but not always.

So, I do love giving blow jobs.... Don't all of you come line up at my door.... I've got my hands full here! But do give me suggestions!!!!

That was really hot Love Lumps! I always wondered if guys ever let their girlfriend or wife lick their hole (outside of porn). I'll bet that's hot for you too, especially since it sounds like he doesn't often-times let you do it. I love the intimacy of doing that with a special someone.

Of course once you progress to full on fucking in gay sex, it kind of loses its intimacy...at least to me.

But with a straight couple, I assume that anal play between a man and a woman doesn't happen as often as it does between a gay couple.

Abe

 

[lesit78]

As has been mentioned before, I think the ability to deep throat adds another dimension to fellatio.

I once had a neighbor boy, eighteen years old, typical high school jock, had all the girls fawning all over him, telling me in a personal discussion that he thought head was highly overrated because he had never had a blow job that was enjoyable. His exact words were, "I get a hell of a lot more from jacking off than any girl has even done giving me head."

I asked him what the problem was and he just said that for some reason, they only sucked on about the first two inches of his dick. I jokingly told him that apparently they were doing it wrong. He knew that I am gay, so he sarcastically said something about my being an expert. I chuckled. We bantered back and forth and finally it became a challenge. I couldn't believe that Mr. Straight Jock challenged me to give him a blow job. It was then that I understood what the problem was. This kid had the biggest white dick I have ever seen, before or since. I know it is cliche, but, honest to God, it was a beer can around and two beer cans long. He didn't even know he was big. He thought everybody was endowed like that. I pride myself that the good Lord hasn't created one that I can't handle, and, though I had tears in my eyes, I soon brought him to a toe-curling, white-knucle, trembling orgasm (yummy!).

Result: this kid was knocking on my door at least once a day wanting to get off. He would come home from a date and bolt across the street to get relief. More than once, I tasted the wares of some wayward lass on his equipment. I ran into him several years later (at a funeral, no less) and he wanted to slip off somewhere, ditch his wife and three kids and get some "of that killer skull." His wife was the one in the corner of the room who walked funny.

Moral of the story: you don't have to be the best in the world. You just have to be better than anyone they have ever been with. And, we all know that practice makes perfect. So go out there and proudly hone your skills. You never know when you are going to land the big one, if that's what you're into. I am not a size queen, but this kid was an Adonis and he LOVED to park his willy in my mouth.

Very hot Carking, how long ago did all this take place? Also, did you suck his cock after he was married and had the 3 kids...if so...hopefully you didn't do this right there in the funeral home!!!!!

Abe

 

[mikeyank]

I once had a neighbor boy, eighteen years old, typical high school jock, had all the girls fawning all over him, telling me in a personal discussion that he thought head was highly overrated because he had never had a blow job that was enjoyable..........................

Wow Carking. You sure believe in the old adage of "going out with a bang". As you told us that you have not renewed your membership here, I appreciate that you are telling us some stories just as hot as the ones you told about previously, giving head to similar aged young men.

That must have been an incredible rush, having this 18 year old straight kid coming to you once a day for a blowjob. Talk about heaven on earth. Wow!!!

 

[lovelumps]

As has been mentioned before, I think the ability to deep throat adds another dimension to fellatio.

I once had a neighbor boy, eighteen years old, typical high school jock, had all the girls fawning all over him, telling me in a personal discussion that he thought head was highly overrated because he had never had a blow job that was enjoyable. His exact words were, "I get a hell of a lot more from jacking off than any girl has even done giving me head."

I asked him what the problem was and he just said that for some reason, they only sucked on about the first two inches of his dick. I jokingly told him that apparently they were doing it wrong. He knew that I am gay, so he sarcastically said something about my being an expert. I chuckled. We bantered back and forth and finally it became a challenge. I couldn't believe that Mr. Straight Jock challenged me to give him a blow job. It was then that I understood what the problem was. This kid had the biggest white dick I have ever seen, before or since. I know it is cliche, but, honest to God, it was a beer can around and two beer cans long. He didn't even know he was big. He thought everybody was endowed like that. I pride myself that the good Lord hasn't created one that I can't handle, and, though I had tears in my eyes, I soon brought him to a toe-curling, white-knucle, trembling orgasm (yummy!).

Result: this kid was knocking on my door at least once a day wanting to get off. He would come home from a date and bolt across the street to get relief. More than once, I tasted the wares of some wayward lass on his equipment. I ran into him several years later (at a funeral, no less) and he wanted to slip off somewhere, ditch his wife and three kids and get some "of that killer skull." His wife was the one in the corner of the room who walked funny.

Moral of the story: you don't have to be the best in the world. You just have to be better than anyone they have ever been with. And, we all know that practice makes perfect. So go out there and proudly hone your skills. You never know when you are going to land the big one, if that's what you're into. I am not a size queen, but this kid was an Adonis and he LOVED to park his willy in my mouth.

Wow, Carking! That is a hot story! What a lucky kid!

 

[SGVBOB]

expert?????

In MY opinion, an 'expert' cocksucker, is one who: does not just give a bj, but rather, goes back and forth among THAT, as well sucking/licking the sack. Then, maybe, moves up to the nipples, and licks/bites them for a few, working up2 the neck, then kissing the mouth, and goes doen the other side, going back onto the cock, AND NOT FORGETTING THE BALLS! (Repeat as desired/necessary!)

So, what, exactly, determines expert status in the case of something like cock sucking, hmmm???

I know that I have mentioned a time of two that I feel pretty confident about my abilities in this department. However, there is always room for improvement, and I think even an "expert" would admit that they learn new things all the time.

So my question for you is this... what is the one thing (or several things), that either your partner, a past lover or one time fuck, has done to your cock while engaged in fellatio that made your toes curl and you lose control.

(looking to spice things up a little, here...)

 

[SGVBOB]

expert?????

In MY opinion, an 'expert' cocksucker, is one who: does not just give a bj, but rather, goes back and forth among THAT, as well sucking/licking the sack. Then, maybe, moves up to the nipples, and licks/bites them for a few, working up2 the neck, then kissing the mouth, and goes doen the other side, going back onto the cock, AND NOT FORGETTING THE BALLS! (Repeat as desired/necessary!)

On the EMOTIONAL side of it.....it can be a pretty intense internal tingly feeling, an 'internal orgasm', if you will. To the point where you you literally cannot control yourself, because of what is 'being done to you'``in a GOOD WAY, of course.

So, what, exactly, determines expert status in the case of something like cock sucking, hmmm???

I know that I have mentioned a time of two that I feel pretty confident about my abilities in this department. However, there is always room for improvement, and I think even an "expert" would admit that they learn new things all the time.

So my question for you is this... what is the one thing (or several things), that either your partner, a past lover or one time fuck, has done to your cock while engaged in fellatio that made your toes curl and you lose control.

(looking to spice things up a little, here...)

 

[carking1]

Very hot Carking, how long ago did all this take place? Also, did you suck his cock after he was married and had the 3 kids...if so...hopefully you didn't do this right there in the funeral home!!!!!

Abe

The original liasons happened in the late 1990's. I ran into him about two years ago, at the funeral home. I told him that I was flattered, but he was married and had a responsibility to his wife and his children. It was one of the most difficult things I have ever done, but it was the right thing.

 

[rickster96056]

Dear lovelumps..........If I could find a woman like you I just might consider marrying one again! There'd only be one more thing you'd have to willing to do and that would be to use a strap-on, on me once in awhile! LOL!

 

[lovelumps]

interesting proposition

Dear lovelumps..........If I could find a woman like you I just might consider marrying one again! There'd only be one more thing you'd have to willing to do and that would be to use a strap-on, on me once in awhile! LOL!

Well, I'm so happy you find my interest in oral sex switch-worthy! I think I'd willingly use a strap on, but I think it's a poor excuse for a penis.

I'm still waiting for advice, though.... Care to share a favorite trick?

 

[rickster96056]

Dear Love
I think it has more to do with being into what you're doing than technique. I've been told many times I give really great head. I don't have any idea what I do that others don't. What ever it is I'm gald I do it.
I do have one thought. I believe one should always swallow. I believe in finishing what I start and think most guys would agree having their cum swallowed is the best way to end a BJ.

 

[lovelumps]

Dear Love
I think it has more to do with being into what you're doing than technique. I've been told many times I give really great head. I don't have any idea what I do that others don't. What ever it is I'm gald I do it.
I do have one thought. I believe one should always swallow. I believe in finishing what I start and think most guys would agree having their cum swallowed is the best way to end a BJ.

Thanks Rickster! I do love to swallow!