carking1
Well-known Member
How can someone who has been married twice, had kids then be 100% gay ? I find that very hard to believe insomuch that I could not even bare to think about having sex with a girl. Then you comment that you and your partner are happy but you introduce others into your sex lives. It may seem to an outsider that maybe because you are not always satisfied (present and past) that you want a bit of everyones pie. Which is surprising considering how tunnel visioned you seem to be on what you want to see on this site.
I know that you are much more senior in years to me and possibly write better English than myself however, you don't half confuse me and this is where you are akin to Mr Crosby who also confuses me with his lyrics and superb but often ghostly and erie tunes.
I don't think you can say you don't like broccoli if you've never tried broccoli. I also think that someone a generation younger than me can't envision what pressures were brought to bear on a young man growing up in the 60's and 70's as to what was expected from them in as far as sexuality is concerned. It was a whole different world then. The United States has always been way behind in the area of sexual freedom and liberal consciousness. It has only been in the last few years that it has been even remotely acceptable in the U. S. to come out. I was 43 when I came out, and even then, I was outed against my wishes. Fortunately for me, the members of my family who were still living have, for the most part, been supportive.
I don't feel that I am tunnel-visioned about what I want to see on this site. I don't know how to make you understand that this is a niche site. What attracts people to this site is the love of twinks and watching them interact with other boys who may or may not be willing to engage in gay sex for pay. That is what this site is. What I am saying is if you want to see foot fethishism, you should go to a foot fetish site. If you want to see golden showers, you can go to a golden showers site. That's not what this site is, and if you are the one advocating change, then you are going to meet with some resistance. Why can't you understand that? If Broke Straight Boys changes what it is about, there would be a mass exodus, not just me, but virtually everyone who joined for the same reason. We joined because of what the site is, not because we want to mold it into something it isn't.
My partner and I are completely happy. We could go the rest of our lives without inviting anyone else into our bed. Yet, on the other hand, even happy couples introduce some variety in their sex life, toys, costumes, lotions, potions, etc. We enjoy having sex with a third or fouth party. We reserve lovemaking for ourselves.
Please don't think that I am telling you to go, or issuing ultimatums. What I am saying is that if Broke Straight Boys no longer fulfills the reasons I joined it in the first place, I would find a site that does. This isn't the first site I joined, but it is the one I have belonged to the longest because it is exactly what I want to see. If that is not the case with you, please understand that it is perfectly OK for you to find what it is that you desire. I just don't think it is fair to the majority who are members to advocate change in the site. We are the ones who are happy with it the way it is. If you aren't, you are the minority, and should seek out a site that gives you what you want.
If I do "write better English" than you do, I can give all the credit to Mrs. Burns, my eighth grade English teacher. She was a drill sargent and a taskmaster, but demanded perfection from her students. She was tough, and when you finished her class, you weren't a graduate, you were a survivor. Yet, I look back and feel that she was the finest educator any child could be honored to have learned from. At her funeral, there were over 2,000 of her former students in attendance, including the minister who gave the eulogy and the funeral director (in a town of 2,500 people).
Jon, I like you. I enjoy our interaction. I don't want this or any other issue to come between us. Please note that I have never addressed you by anything but your name, and never have shown you any disrespect. I just want you to understand that I love this site and this forum, and (perhaps too strongly) defend what it is and what it stands for. Please know that I respect your viewpoint and opinion.
If, during one of the scenes, David gets a little frisky and asks Model A to suck on Model B's toe, I am not going to run screaming and leap off the balcony. If it starts to happen in multiple scenes, I will mention it to David or the forum. If it happens in every scene, then Broke Straight Boys is no longer my site I fell in love with, and I am faced with a choice. I do, however, draw the line at bodlily functions and will throw my computer out a second story window the first time a model pisses anywhere but the appropriate receptacle.
Can we agree to disagree?
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