Jon, is it really necessary for you to be so condescending? Can't we agree without the sarcasm. The name is carking, not Mr. Car Salesman.
I am also 100% gay. I have been married twice. I am not bisexual. I married because that was what was expected in my generation. Being married only reinforced that I am gay.
You could even equate being a member here somewhat to a marriage. You don't marry someone with the intention of changing them. This site is what I bargained for when I became a member. I don't want it to change. If it does, it is not what attracted me in the first place. I don't want to see toe sucking and I certainly don't want to see golden showers. As I have said ad nauseum, there are web sites dedicated to those niches. If that is what you want to see, check them out. I would prefer for
Broke Straight Boys to remain as it is. I've probably stepped in some shit here, but as strongly as I don't want to see toe sucking, I DAMN sure don't want to watch someone use another person as a toilet. That would cause me to take my money and run for the hills.
I don't think I'm missing anything. I have a happy, completely fulfilled love life with my boyfriend. We have amazing sex. We do what we enjoy and like, and are satisfied. Either of us is free to intoduce and discuss new ideas and have great communication. Occasionally, we invite another man into our bed, we have had as many as three additional. We have had some unique and interesting experiences. So, I am open minded. This has nothing to do with that. This has to do with taking a web site which attracted me for its content and then changing it.
It's really a moot point to discuss it, though. I am confident that D&E know what the majority of the members want and like, and they are going to continue to deliver the content most popular to the masses. Some people will tire of the same ole, same ole and look for more elsewhere. I hope that you do not. I find you interesting and like occasionally sparring with you. I hope that you know that it is friendly sparring, and not get put off by it.
By the way, no one has ever told me I look like David Crosby. One person told me that I look like John Malkovich, but most people tell me that I look like Taylor on the Gilmore Girls. It would be nice once in a while to be mistaken for Tom Cruise or Brad Pitt.