Please give some advice

[Mediarahan]

So i've been talking to Rep about some guys and one of them ask me on a date (he said meeting to know each other better).

Since i have bad experiences on this kind of things, what should i do? We're planning to got not so fancy all you can eat restaurant. Should i order an alcohol beverages? Should i dress fancy? I need some advices...

 

[Observer]

stay in your comfort zone. meet in a public place like you planned. have no expectations other than talking and eating. No matter how charming he may be do not go home with him, do not take him back to your place. Meeting some guy takes on different paths. Some guys want a quick fuck, and use apps like grindr and tinder. Others want a friend and a relationship. So decide what you want. If you want a friend then think of all that you do as if you were hanging with a friend. For us guys that squirmy guy between our legs tends to think for us. Just hope that your big head is in charge and just be you hanging with a friend.

 

[Jaybifla]

Observer has given great advice. I would also add not to let too much alcohol get involved. If you want to have a glass of wine or cocktail with your dinner, that is one thing. But if he orders 3 or 4 cocktails with that dinner, RUN! There’s nothing worse than babysitting a drunk on a date.

 

[Repareur]

Observer has given great advice. I would also add not to let too much alcohol get involved. If you want to have a glass of wine or cocktail with your dinner, that is one thing. But if he orders 3 or 4 cocktails with that dinner, RUN! There’s nothing worse than babysitting a drunk on a date.

Jay, do you know something about this? Lol. I do.

I’m a slut although a retired one. Lol. I told Med, to be careful but don’t take too long to check them out in the bedroom. in my experience gay guys fuck first and if that was good they decide to get to know each other. I used to say that was the difference between straight couple and gay couples but I think straight ones have caught on.

That being said he is just meeting for dinner. They will decide to get back together later if that goes well. I wish him all the best for a safe and fun date. And hopefully an exciting hook up down the road.

 

[Mediarahan]

Jay, do you know something about this? Lol. I do.

I’m a slut although a retired one. Lol. I told Med, to be careful but don’t take too long to check them out in the bedroom. in my experience gay guys fuck first and if that was good they decide to get to know each other. I used to say that was the difference between straight couple and gay couples but I think straight ones have caught on.

That being said he is just meeting for dinner. They will decide to get back together later if that goes well. I wish him all the best for a safe and fun date. And hopefully an exciting hook up down the road.

Yeah you told me that...but i don't know how will it goes ahaha

Should i just be myself? Should i be more enganging?

 

[Repareur]

Yeah you told me that...but i don't know how will it goes ahaha

Should i just be myself? Should i be more enganging?

You want to be the best you. So that he will see your personality and who you are.

 

[Mediarahan]

Well yeah if he confirm it for tomorrow