What, exactly, did Damien say about it? I will accept that neither of you looked at it the way some of us perceived it, but I don't think you quite understand the situation here if you think my problem with the scene is that Damien "got a littlllee load." I WANT to hear the reactions of the bottom--this is the reason I typically don't like three-way scenes. My issue was that Damien sounded as if he found the entire thing painful, and it LOOKED unpleasant, so I have to believe it WAS unpleasant. It didn't need to be. All you had to do was slow down a bit and THINK about what might feel good to someone getting fucked. It isn't that difficult. Yes, maybe he could have practiced with some toys beforehand, but to put the responsibility of a pleasurable sexual experience all on the bottom is, to use a word I have used frequently to describe the behavior of some of the models here, utterly selfish. There are TWO people involved. When you stated in your response to joninliverton above that "i think, had we eased into it, this scene could easily have been a lot more enjoyable for some members...just watch it without the volume on," it is again showing that you don't understand the situation. I am going to assume that you meant this as a joke (since others keep saying you have a good sense of humor), but honestly, Paul, sometimes it simply isn't appropriate to joke. Paying customers are indicating some disappointment here, and it really isn't a good idea to just make light of what they are saying.
To the directors/producers/site admins...look, I mostly like this site, but if you guys insist on doing scenes where you don't seem to have any concern for how the experience is for the bottom, could you AT LEAST put a note on the video saying "WARNING: UTTERLY SELFISH FUCKING" or something like that to warn those of us that aren't interested? That's all I ask. I'm not asking for you to make "lovemaking" scenes. I just want to avoid being subjected to infliction of pain. As I said before, I had been waiting patiently for Damien to bottom, and I was really looking forward to seeing it, but this video was an extreme disappointment. I'm getting tired of being disappointed here.
Now, I fully expect that certain posters are going to respond to this by heaping more praise on Paul, as they don't want to actually deal with real issues, and feel that any kind of criticism of the models is unacceptable as it might bruise their fragile egos, so they have to counter it with praise. It's silly, but fine...go for it. I've tried to be as polite to Paul as I can be on this, but somebody needs to listen to criticism and take it to heart. If not the models, then the management.
To the directors/producers/site admins...look, I mostly like this site, but if you guys insist on doing scenes where you don't seem to have any concern for how the experience is for the bottom, could you AT LEAST put a note on the video saying "WARNING: UTTERLY SELFISH FUCKING" or something like that to warn those of us that aren't interested? That's all I ask. I'm not asking for you to make "lovemaking" scenes. I just want to avoid being subjected to infliction of pain. As I said before, I had been waiting patiently for Damien to bottom, and I was really looking forward to seeing it, but this video was an extreme disappointment. I'm getting tired of being disappointed here.
Now, I fully expect that certain posters are going to respond to this by heaping more praise on Paul, as they don't want to actually deal with real issues, and feel that any kind of criticism of the models is unacceptable as it might bruise their fragile egos, so they have to counter it with praise. It's silly, but fine...go for it. I've tried to be as polite to Paul as I can be on this, but somebody needs to listen to criticism and take it to heart. If not the models, then the management.
