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Hey everyone! Ian Dempsey Here!

I've watched a few programmes about American college life and am so jealous. My favourite film of all time of course is National Lampoons Animal House - the original - which my dad had bought a long time back. It was so old it was on VHS tape but I managed to get a copy on DVD. If that is what really happens at college then I'll get my toga outfit ready.

Hahaha, that is a classic movie! I do want to make a few things clear however. First, I'm not sure how the grade levels work in England, but all of that stuff happened in high school, not college. I don't know if you guys have "high school" or if it's called something different. lol. And secondly, and I apologize for not making it more clear, but we only wore togas for one day. We have a homecoming dance every fall, and the week leading up to the dance is called Spirit Week. So every day of that week there would be different themes to dress to for the day. Like Monday would be 70's day, Tuesday would be Celebrity Look-Alike day, so on and so forth. Well it's tradition at our school that on the Friday of Spirit Week, it's class colors day. Freshmen wear white, sophomores wear green, juniors wear blue, and seniors wear togas. So thats where the toga bit came from. Theres no way in hell they would let us wear togas every day, administration might die. hahaha.
 
Oh Beth... :) I could never tell you to fuck off... that would be rude! SO RUDE!! I am a man of peace, and I welcome and encourage all of your questions. I like the "what if" questions specifically. They will make for an interesting upcoming Tuesday. ;) You stay golden, Beth, and questions, will so become answers.
 
Hey Ian,

This isn't so much a question as it is a few comments on some of the topics mentioned in your video. We actually see eye-to-eye on a couple things. For instance, I really like the fact that Broke Straight Boys has amateur models who are not professional gay porn models. Watching the progression of straight guys who are nervous and awkward in the beginning and then become really good at it, is part of the fun. Having said that, (and I know it may sound contradictory) I get annoyed with some models who play the straight card and don't try to get much better. A straight model who has had 10 scenes and still looks like he hates doing anything and everything asked of him onscreen, and gets all pissy about doing the work, is not going to be one of my favorites.

I've spoken at length in the past about my preference for liking models with good work ethics. (Regardless of how very straight they may be.) After all, any model who applies knows very well what he's signing up for here. Nobody is forcibly conscripted off the street under false pretenses. The models know they aren't being offered this kind of money to sell Girl Scout cookies. lol So it bothers me when they want the viewers to cut them all kinds of slack with mediocre effort scenes and to not expect too much of them because they're straight. Even though they still expect to be paid top dollar (all from the viewers' money) regardless of how much effort they put into their work. I fully understand that as unique individuals from various backgrounds and life experiences, that the gay-for-pay work will come more easily to some straight models than to others.

Still... While being awkward and reluctant in the beginning is kind of cute...and actually very entertaining, it quickly becomes time to put up or shut up. Go big or go home. If a job's worth doing, it's worth doing right. Right? haha

It was music to my ears when you were talking about how you perceived and approached the work. You were like, (And forgive me for paraphrasing you here. x) "Hey. I'm being paid a lot of money here. I knew what I was signing up for. If I'm told to kiss for instance, I'm not gonna do it half-ass. If it's something the viewers want, I'm gonna give them a good show."

You also explained some things I wondered about you that I hadn't even formulated into questions yet. Here on Broke Straight Boys we place a high emphasis on straight models who are new and inexperienced. From the moment you arrived your performances looked very polished and almost professional. So that kind of threw me for a loop. Normally when that has happened in the past it's meant that the model was actually gay. But then you advised us that you had actually been hired and trained to be a College Dudes model first. So by the time you filmed your first scene with another model on Broke Straight Boys, you already had 3 scenes under your belt. You had already had the chance to work through some of the first-timer jitters. With that in mind, things made a whole lot more sense.

I really liked the way you explained in your blog how for you personally you don't like pretending to be an amateur. Given that you have had experience acting in high school, now I can see where you're coming from. You don't like to be told to look awkward and fumbling on stage. You see that as an insult to your skills and ability to entertain an audience. I can imagine that if a director of a high school play told you that the audience would expect amateur performances and that you should purposely flub a few of your lines or drop one of the props, so you don't intimidate or outshine the other underclassmen actors...that you'd look at him like he was crazy. lol

I can imagine your thinking process would be something along the lines of: "Hey. I'm not going to embarrass myself and look like I can't handle the job. When I go out there, I'm gonna give it my best. To do any less would be an insult to my talent and abilities. I'll encourage my fellow actors. I'll be a team player of course. But I'll lead them by example if my performance is better. But what I won't do is dumb down my own performance...and make myself look bad...just to make them look a little better in comparison."

Did I get that last part in particular fairly right Ian? lol :)
 
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My overwhelming sense of Ian, having followed this thread and read his posts, is one of a very competitive young man. And I think his greatest competition is usually the set of high expectations he has for himself; he’s not happy unless he feels that he met or exceeded them.
 
Hahaha, that is a classic movie! I do want to make a few things clear however. First, I'm not sure how the grade levels work in England, but all of that stuff happened in high school, not college. I don't know if you guys have "high school" or if it's called something different. lol. And secondly, and I apologize for not making it more clear, but we only wore togas for one day. We have a homecoming dance every fall, and the week leading up to the dance is called Spirit Week. So every day of that week there would be different themes to dress to for the day. Like Monday would be 70's day, Tuesday would be Celebrity Look-Alike day, so on and so forth. Well it's tradition at our school that on the Friday of Spirit Week, it's class colors day. Freshmen wear white, sophomores wear green, juniors wear blue, and seniors wear togas. So thats where the toga bit came from. Theres no way in hell they would let us wear togas every day, administration might die. hahaha.

Ha ha Ian, I was referring to the toga party on the film I quoted. Here is a brief explanation of the uk national schooling system works

Junior school until aged 11
Senior school from 11-16. At age 16 you take your chosen subjects state examinations (GCSE)

You then have the option to leave school or stay on to get what we call A Levels - A for advanced. You need A levels to get to University which is the next step on the educational path. University fees are around £9000 per annum in all the UK countries apart from Scotland where it is free as long as you are Scottish. At university you study for what we call a degree - the course is normally 3 or 4 years in duration. Hope this helps
 
Might want to let Ian know that there's another meaning associated with the term, "A Levels" in the UK that doesn't have anything to do with taking examinations...I'm just sayin'...
 
Might want to let Ian know that there's another meaning associated with the term, "A Levels" in the UK that doesn't have anything to do with taking examinations...I'm just sayin'...

Well do explain; AND, don't forget to include photos!:wtf:
 
Questions:

1. What's your favorite photo that you've personally taken?

2. What's your favorite photo that someone else has taken?

3. What does someone wear to the Oscars of gay porn (if anything)?
 
What does someone wear to the Oscars of gay porn (if anything)?

I suggest that Mark or Shannon commission a weaver to create the Broke Straight Boys official tartan and then to have it sewn into kilts for the boys. Ian "swimmer's body" Dempsey and Paul "sexy little legs" Canon in red, black and white kilts?!?!? Ggggggggggrowl!!! We know Paul's a musician; surely he'd be able to master the bagpipe in time for the awards ceremony.
 
Hey Ian, :biggrin:

I realize that Tuesday is fast approaching so I wanted to give you a few questions so you have time to think them over and put them in your blog if you wish. Please keep in mind though that we know you have other things going on in your life. If you can't post a video blog entry every single week...please know that we will understand. We are grateful that you choose to interact with us at all. Thank you again for doing these blogs in the first place. :)

Also please know that we do not expect you to answer every single question. Some may be too personal, too awkward or there may just be more questions than you have time to respond to.

1. Do you have any brothers or sisters? If so, do they know about the Broke Straight Boys work?

2. Being straight, what mental gymnastics do you have to do to prepare for your scenes? Is it like flipping a switch when you have to go into gay sex mode and try to keep a hardon and achieve an orgasm?

3. How does gay sex compare to straight sex for you as far as how pleasurable it is for you? I'm not fishing for you to say that gay sex is more pleasurable, like it's a contest or something. I imagine that a straight guy will say that straight sex is better and by the same reasoning, gay guys and gay women will say that gay sex is best. But is the gay sex better, worse or about the same as what you thought it would be?

Okay. Softball question.... lol

4. What are some of the things you most enjoy doing when you come over to the house for a social visit?
 
Here's a question for you, Ian.
Porn star/crossover guy of the moment, James Deen, has web series called "James Deen Loves Food"

Fill in the blanks. The title of your web series would be "Ian Dempsey ____________'s _____________"*

*Can be anything as long as it has legs; "Ian Dempsey Goes Swimming" might lose viewers after a few weeks.
 
Questions:
- What draw you to photography?
- Do you have any role model in photography?
- If you could get a year long internship with a photographer, who would it be and why?
- Do you have any other artistic talent? (Drawing, music ..)
 
That's a beautiful photograph, man, and a heartbreaking story.
 
Thank you Ian for another great video. Your generosity of time and work in putting these blog postings out means more to your fans than you may ever fully know. The photograph and the story behind it were indeed very inspiring and heartbreaking. For the sake of art alone the photograph is exceptional. Given the context and the tragic ending, the photo will still stand as a testament to the love and good in human nature.


I respect you and appreciate you very much as a human being Ian. I would never presume to ask you if you had told a 13 y/o sibling about the video work. The answer would be an obvious no. Or at the very least, a none of our business. If you had told us you had one or more older brothers or sisters...then that question would not have seemed to be so out of bounds. I apologize if that question upset you or seemed over-the-top.
 
Thank you for answering our questions; your openness and willingness to share from your perspective is very wonderful. I will add some other questions for you later. Thanks, Beth
 
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