kaalaaupuni
Well-known Member
Good post Kaalaa. In the real world we will not always be able to get only the straightest of the straight on here. As long as they are not especially effeminate then we can still go along with the fantasy that they are straight.
Like you I also would like to think that the truly straight models who come through here may still get married, have kids, yet also have an appreciation for the joys of gay sex. And hopefully they will raise their families with respect for gay people and other minorities. If any good is to come from having straight guys doing gay for pay, I would hope it would be that.
Ideally I would like to see the straight models be able to look back on this experience as just a curious itch they scratched in their youth. They tried it...it was enjoyable....they were grateful for the experience and the chance to experiment...but ultimately it was not for them in the long term.
Well said, Tampa, you are indeed a voice of reason! I am constantly amazed by the constricted boxes people like to use. Back when I lived in the Bay area, I was amazed at how often gays in the Castro wanted to assume other celebrities just "had to be gay." I assumed it was because of both the desire to fantasize about their object of affection, as well as hold onto the hope that they were part of the 'family.'
I often see teens going through phases--don't we all. They claim to be straight, then declare themselves gay, then decide they must be bi because they are ok with either sex. Thank heavens for straights having kids, and even more so for today's kids who tend to be far more accepting of the spectrum of sexual interests. We have a ways to go, as evidenced by the Ravi behavior and the need for the It Gets Better site, but as blacks can tell you, revolution/evolution can take a long time. After all, extreme positions in both the conservative and liberal mindset prevails throughout the country, and our country has millions of people unable to accept a contrary opinion or position. [please don't hijack this thread and digress to political discussions/debates...]