Go public or Remain low key?

[BSBZenoKostas]

So i am having a dilemma guys. Since starting with Broke Straight Boys i have chosen not to open a Zeno Kostas Twitter or Instagram. I did this to help remain low key & off the radar as much as possible.
Recently i have had a lot of people asking how they could find me on social media? Only to be given the answer that they couldn't.
I've given it some thought and think i might go ahead and do it, but wanted some feedback before hand to help with my final decision.
What do you all think? Should i open myself up to it OR keep to myself and lay low key?

 

[BSBDrakeTyler]

So i am having a dilemma guys. Since starting with Broke Straight Boys i have chosen not to open a Zeno Kostas Twitter or Instagram. I did this to help remain low key & off the radar as much as possible.
Recently i have had a lot of people asking how they could find me on social media? Only to be given the answer that they couldn't.
I've given it some thought and think i might go ahead and do it, but wanted some feedback before hand to help with my final decision.
What do you all think? Should i open myself up to it OR keep to myself and lay low key?

I have been doing the twitter thing for a little while now.. Havent really gotten anything good or bad from it.. It takes a long time to get your followers up.

 

[BSBDrakeTyler]

Really Zeno Kostas, You just have to ask yourself if you have the extra time to put into the social media aspect of your porn carreer.

 

[gardenboy]

Just be aware of risks for porn workers to post on facebook or other media sites. There are still a lot of crazies on the world and I would hate to see you hurt

 

[alydreams45]

It's up to you if you wanna join twitter/instagram. I would be happy to follow you, but if you want to remain low key, that's fine too. Maybe consult with some other Broke Straight Boys models who are on twitter like Gage Owens, Danny, John, David, etc.

 

[Buckeye1]

So, how have a lot of people been asking you if you are so low key? Just curious.

 

[Beth]

It really depends on what your future plans are. If you are going to continue in the industry and need contacts, social media is for you. If you are going to be here just for some fun (and money) before moving on, I'd stay "off the grid."

 

[peterh6308]

So, how have a lot of people been asking you if you are so low key? Just curious.

Hum!!!

 

[louis33705]

Zeno Kostas, I value you a lot and have a lot of respect for you. You have your porn career here and we are all connected to you in one form or another be it through the forum or private messages on your forum profile page. On the other hand you do have a private life. The question is, how much of your private life do you want exposed? It was mentioned above, that exposing yourself and revealing your profession could lead to many ramifications.

Let me give you an example of what I am saying. Johnny Rapid is probably one of the most popular porn stars around today. He has kept his true identity a secret until recently. His real name was recently leaked and exposed. In doing so, there is now all sorts of media coverage of Johnny having been in jail earlier this year for domestic violence against his girlfriend. While it may not have any effect on his porn career, I am sure it has impacted his private life.

Zeno Kostas, there are good people out there who love and appreciate you. There are also bad people who are just jumping at the chance to bring you down.

Again, I ask you. What is more important? Your job or your personal life?

I have been a big fan of yours since you entered our lives and I have confidence you will make the right decision.

Peace,
Louis

 

[betudidntknow]

Upon the suggestion of a fellow forumite, I established two FB accounts and keep my contact information very separate. I only use Twitter for "pleasure" if you will so, I don't "cross pollinate" my social media communications. I find this helps provide some discretion. Those who know me, know who I am. Those who don't need to know information, just have to work harder to find it!

 

[BSBJohnHenry]

Upon the suggestion of a fellow forumite, I established two FB accounts and keep my contact information very separate. I only use Twitter for "pleasure" if you will so, I don't "cross pollinate" my social media communications. I find this helps provide some discretion. Those who know me, know who I am. Those who don't need to know information, just have to work harder to find it!

thats a good way to put it betu!!! i do the same

 

[BSBJohnHenry]

Zeno Kostas, I value you a lot and have a lot of respect for you. You have your porn career here and we are all connected to you in one form or another be it through the forum or private messages on your forum profile page. On the other hand you do have a private life. The question is, how much of your private life do you want exposed? It was mentioned above, that exposing yourself and revealing your profession could lead to many ramifications.

Let me give you an example of what I am saying. Johnny Rapid is probably one of the most popular porn stars around today. He has kept his true identity a secret until recently. His real name was recently leaked and exposed. In doing so, there is now all sorts of media coverage of Johnny having been in jail earlier this year for domestic violence against his girlfriend. While it may not have any effect on his porn career, I am sure it has impacted his private life.

Zeno Kostas, there are good people out there who love and appreciate you. There are also bad people who are just jumping at the chance to bring you down.

Again, I ask you. What is more important? Your job or your personal life?

I have been a big fan of yours since you entered our lives and I have confidence you will make the right decision.

Peace,
Louis

very interesting louis!! i hate that for him;(

 

[BSBJohnHenry]

So i am having a dilemma guys. Since starting with Broke Straight Boys i have chosen not to open a Zeno Kostas Twitter or Instagram. I did this to help remain low key & off the radar as much as possible.
Recently i have had a lot of people asking how they could find me on social media? Only to be given the answer that they couldn't.
I've given it some thought and think i might go ahead and do it, but wanted some feedback before hand to help with my final decision.
What do you all think? Should i open myself up to it OR keep to myself and lay low key?

ill follow u buddy!! text me if u need help

 

[johnny]

So i am having a dilemma guys. Since starting with Broke Straight Boys i have chosen not to open a Zeno Kostas Twitter or Instagram. I did this to help remain low key & off the radar as much as possible.
Recently i have had a lot of people asking how they could find me on social media? Only to be given the answer that they couldn't.
I've given it some thought and think i might go ahead and do it, but wanted some feedback before hand to help with my final decision.
What do you all think? Should i open myself up to it OR keep to myself and lay low key?

Keep it under the radar. We know you and Love you. A little mystery is cool.Sometimes you get to know the models so well it can be a turn off.
Your Beautiful We don't need to know everything. And if I had the chance I would make Love to your
Beautiful Nipples.LOL (That's just me just what I feel )

 

[tampa24]

Zeno Kostas, there are good people out there who love and appreciate you. There are also bad people who are just jumping at the chance to bring you down.

Again, I ask you. What is more important? Your job or your personal life?

I have been a big fan of yours since you entered our lives and I have confidence you will make the right decision.

Peace,
Louis

Hi Zeno Kostas,

I'm very appreciative to the models who have many social media access points. However it's a mixed bag. There are downsides to them also. For instance while there are plenty of fans out there (like myself) who would to just want to offer you compliments, advice and support...there are also potential stalkers out there who might try to find you in real life by any clues or breadcrumbs you leave online. So I agree that it's not an easy decision. Would many of your very well intentioned fans like it if you had more than one or two ways to communicate with them? Sure! lol I would not object though if you played it safe. But of course you must weigh the pros and cons for yourself.

 

[stowe1]

It really depends on what your future plans are. If you are going to continue in the industry and need contacts, social media is for you. If you are going to be here just for some fun (and money) before moving on, I'd stay "off the grid."

Zeno Kostas - Beth is right. Follow her advice!!!

 

[Stripe222]

I hate social media and don't use it. Remember, once somethings out in cyberspace, it's out there forever...

 

[betudidntknow]

Keep it under the radar. We know you and Love you. A little mystery is cool.Sometimes you get to know the models so well it can be a turn off.
Your Beautiful We don't need to know everything. And if I had the chance I would make Love to your
Beautiful Nipples.LOL (That's just me just what I feel )

I can relate to what you're saying here! I do enjoy the intrigue and mystery. Some times the saying "Less is more".....less is more" means that sometimes the less you say has more impact and meaning than trying to say or do more to get the message understood by way da lone: ...

 

[elyot1]

Low key, by all means. Beth, Johnny and Betu are all right.

 

[nitefly]

Low key! Chat with your fans on this forum.