Tell us 10 facts about you. I'll start.
10. I can't stand nelly guys.
Your turn
OK, what is a nelly guy?
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10 random facts about you.
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OK, what is a nelly guy?
mikey99338
Virgin
10 Random Things about Me
I'm Mostly Sicilian with a little Dutch & German
I'm lucky to have good Sicilian blood
I usually have to prove to people that I'm 39
I have no appreciation for money
I'm searching for my best friend
Believes in Fate
I'm shy
I've never had it in the butt
Believes nice guys finish last
I'm in love
I'm Mostly Sicilian with a little Dutch & German
I'm lucky to have good Sicilian blood
I usually have to prove to people that I'm 39
I have no appreciation for money
I'm searching for my best friend
Believes in Fate
I'm shy
I've never had it in the butt
Believes nice guys finish last
I'm in love
slimvintage
BSB Addict
Hornet's Nest
Someone effeminate. The blond kid in the trio with Torin and Steve is an example. There's been a certain amount of polemic on the forum about how OK it is, or not, for gay guys to voice their dislike of kids like him who aren't straight-acting.
Someone effeminate. The blond kid in the trio with Torin and Steve is an example. There's been a certain amount of polemic on the forum about how OK it is, or not, for gay guys to voice their dislike of kids like him who aren't straight-acting.
mikeyank
Long time forumite
I don't believe that "dislike" is the correct word to use. Speaking for myself, I have no dislike for "nelly" guys. I've had some really fun times, and have had genuine affection for effeminate gay men. However when it comes to my sexual desires, I am not turned on by "nelly" guys, and I prefer to have sex with masculine guys. But that is a matter of sexual desire, as I'm not turned on by females either.
I believe that the previous contentious debate on the forum on this issue, confused prejudice with sexual attraction. They are actually very separate issues.
slimvintage
BSB Addict
Yeah, probably you're right. I was just using the term "dislike" more or less to describe one of scorpio's 10 responses to my question asking him to tell us a little something about himself (which he did by initiating the Random Facts thread). His list included a bullet point that read something like "I can't stand nelly guys". Do you think "dislike" is too strong? What would you suggest instead? I don't think scorpio meant only that he wasn't turned on by effeminate guys, but that they irritated him at the very least, and that, more or less, he disliked being around them and/or actively disliked them as people in a general kind of way. No blame attaches to scorpio for that, just that it's ironic to me that one whole segment of the gay population permits itself to dislike another whole segment of it, when there are so many Sarah Palins out there who can't stand any of us.
The idea of gay solidarity in most of it's forms triggers my own personal gag mechanism for that matter so that's not where I am on this at all. And I'm actually surprised that that anodyne and pretty neutral little answer I gave to his question even merited a quibble. There's been a lot of "not being able to stomach nelly guys" on this forum. Check out the early 10 Random lists, echoing scorpio's OP. For whatever reason, insecurity, embarrassment at being lumped with queens felt by someone doing his shaky best to seem straight-acting, internal homophobia, you name it, a lot of people gay and straight, don't like nelly guys.
To be my usual crude self: I like it when someone's amusing. If that person is an effeminate boy, is cute and loving the attention his little drama is attracting (camp guys can be really funny), and aims some of the flirting at me, my dick gets stiff. Not to generalize, but these guys are often totally hot in bed. And they're brave little dudes in the face of my very dear friends' not being able to stand them. I make it a point not to react when a kid like that betrays himself with a girlish gesture or a breathy giggle. And it makes me sad to see the grateful look you get when they twig to your being cool with the way they are: in many respects a lot realer than the boys who constantly monitor themselves, to make sure their straight act is keeping the population fooled.
I didn't mean to go on and on. What happened to casper? did he post something so OTT that it was untenable keeping him on, or was it just the whole history of thrust and retreat that got the management terminally fed up? I'm 98.7% sure I solved the casper mystery weeks ago; just a little internet sleuthing where everything fell into place. Interesting phenomenon is casper, impossible before the internet made it commonplace.
mikeyank
Long time forumite
I was really curious to read your comments about Casper, Slim, and I found them on the "nelly" thread, but he mentioned that you and David were the only two people on the forum that he gave his phone number to. Would you want to give us the results of your internet sleuthing, Sherlock? I'd sure like to solve the riddle of the "Casper Caper".
slimvintage
BSB Addict
I was really curious to read your comments about Casper, Slim, and I found them on the "nelly" thread, but he mentioned that you and David were the only two people on the forum that he gave his phone number to. Would you want to give us the results of your internet sleuthing, Sherlock? I'd sure like to solve the riddle of the "Casper Caper".
Mikeyank, dear man, I'll try to delete some of my favorite PMs to clear out my inbox (and outbox) in order to PM you about it. I feel really sorry for casper. On the other hand he seems to be terrifically resilient, so my concern is actually probably misplaced.
I'm able to get in here much less often because of a new project that I'm working on, 45 minutes from home, 10 hours a day. But I must say that the forum has got interestingly rowdy while I've been away. Wish I could be here to do some cannonballs into the pool myself.
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1. I'm mostly Scotch/Irish, with a little Cherokee and Spanish.
2. I'm a Virgo.
3. I'm a slob.
4. I'm a big science fiction and fantasy reader.
5. I also read a lot of military history especially about the causes of WWI.
6. I like avocados and coca-cola.
7. I like to salt watermelon and put salt and pepper on cantaloupe.
8. My favorite TV show is "The Big Bang Theory".
9. My favorite book is Fowler's Modern English Usage"(1926).
10. I drive a 1992 Crown-Victoria.
2. I'm a Virgo.
3. I'm a slob.
4. I'm a big science fiction and fantasy reader.
5. I also read a lot of military history especially about the causes of WWI.
6. I like avocados and coca-cola.
7. I like to salt watermelon and put salt and pepper on cantaloupe.
8. My favorite TV show is "The Big Bang Theory".
9. My favorite book is Fowler's Modern English Usage"(1926).
10. I drive a 1992 Crown-Victoria.
About my comments, even though it means what it means. I dislike/cannot stand "queens", effeminate guys that talk like girls, move like girls, scream like girls... I'm gay, doesn't mean I have to like all gay people. It's like saying all black people like thugs
PS: Thanks Slim
PS: Thanks Slim
1. Born in the heart of America
2. Dad came out to us, family, when I was 14
3. Work at an Aldi's.
4. Didn't have sex til I was 28
5. Love horror and sci fi flicks
6. Have never seen Bambi
7. Hate vomit more then blood
8. Favorite eatery : Olive Garden
9. Drive an Escape!
10. Favorite actor/director combo: Johnny Depp/Tim Burton.
2. Dad came out to us, family, when I was 14
3. Work at an Aldi's.
4. Didn't have sex til I was 28
5. Love horror and sci fi flicks
6. Have never seen Bambi
7. Hate vomit more then blood
8. Favorite eatery : Olive Garden
9. Drive an Escape!
10. Favorite actor/director combo: Johnny Depp/Tim Burton.
slimvintage
BSB Addict
qwerty30 it was about time you posted your Randoms! I'm a gay dad and am curious about how his coming out to you affected you personally...not so much your relationship with him but whether you went through bad stuff because of finding out about his homosexuality...for instance whether your late blooming had anything to do with being put off sex because of him. Don't mean to pry, but this whole subject has remained one of my inner demons over the years.
slimvintage
BSB Addict
About my comments, even though it means what it means. I dislike/cannot stand "queens", effeminate guys that talk like girls, move like girls, scream like girls... I'm gay, doesn't mean I have to like all gay people. It's like saying all black people like thugs
PS: Thanks Slim
You're welcome hottie
. But just to be clear, you're not saying that only blacks can be thugs are you babe?
I`m bored in school right now [and I still can`t believe I can access this site from school lol] I`ll write my random 10 facts
＊I cannot stand people who cannot spell or at least attempt to write in proper English or people who uses short forms excessively
＊I am most comfortable watching porn while I`m munching on something
＊I don`t use my real name 90% of the time and I get agitated when people who are not close to me refer to me by my real name
＊I love piercings and tattoos and I wish I could date someone who has them but my parents would kill me [yes, I still live with my parents]
＊I am turned off by most guys my race. I`m alright with mostly Japanese, Korean or White guys
＊I write a lot of my own fictitious stories and I adore all the characters I come up with
＊Growing up in a conservative country, I assume everyone around me is homophobic unless they tell me otherwise
＊I am pretty religious except I think piercings, smoking, homosexuality are okay <3
＊I was sexually abused when I was a teenager and I still haven`t gotten over it
＊I am not male ; I feel like a gay guy stuck in a female body which actually makes me straight but I am not. Confused? Me too LOL
＊I cannot stand people who cannot spell or at least attempt to write in proper English or people who uses short forms excessively
＊I am most comfortable watching porn while I`m munching on something
＊I don`t use my real name 90% of the time and I get agitated when people who are not close to me refer to me by my real name
＊I love piercings and tattoos and I wish I could date someone who has them but my parents would kill me [yes, I still live with my parents]
＊I am turned off by most guys my race. I`m alright with mostly Japanese, Korean or White guys
＊I write a lot of my own fictitious stories and I adore all the characters I come up with
＊Growing up in a conservative country, I assume everyone around me is homophobic unless they tell me otherwise
＊I am pretty religious except I think piercings, smoking, homosexuality are okay <3
＊I was sexually abused when I was a teenager and I still haven`t gotten over it
＊I am not male ; I feel like a gay guy stuck in a female body
which actually makes me straight but I am not. Confused? Me too LOL
MissDeidra
Senior Member
Randomness...
1. I am and have been a vegetarian since I read the book Fast Food Nation 5 years ago. I am borderline vegan because I don't eat eggs or drink milk. My only weakness is cheese.
2. My favorite book is Pillars of the Earth by Ken Follett, but a close second place is The Cider House Rules by John Irving.
3. I graduated from high school when I was 14 years old.
4. In college I took place in a human brain mapping study on sexuality. The conclusion was that my brain was dominantly homosexual male.
5. I have never been able to pick which is my favorite movie, either Beautiful Thing or The Sum of Us.
6. My celebrity crush is Chiwetel Ejiofor.
7. I was together with my first love for 7 years. He is gay.
8. I did roller derby for 8 years before completely blowing out my knees. My derby name was Lizzy B Vicious. I was a blocker.
9. I have about 40 % of my body adorned in tattoos.
10. I am a workaholic. I put in roughly 60-80 hours a week as a multi store manager for Blockbuster Video.
-Deidra
1. I am and have been a vegetarian since I read the book Fast Food Nation 5 years ago. I am borderline vegan because I don't eat eggs or drink milk. My only weakness is cheese.
2. My favorite book is Pillars of the Earth by Ken Follett, but a close second place is The Cider House Rules by John Irving.
3. I graduated from high school when I was 14 years old.
4. In college I took place in a human brain mapping study on sexuality. The conclusion was that my brain was dominantly homosexual male.
5. I have never been able to pick which is my favorite movie, either Beautiful Thing or The Sum of Us.
6. My celebrity crush is Chiwetel Ejiofor.
7. I was together with my first love for 7 years. He is gay.
8. I did roller derby for 8 years before completely blowing out my knees. My derby name was Lizzy B Vicious. I was a blocker.
9. I have about 40 % of my body adorned in tattoos.
10. I am a workaholic. I put in roughly 60-80 hours a week as a multi store manager for Blockbuster Video.
-Deidra
smoore29
Well-known Member
10 random facts about me
1. i'm 19
2. i'm an Aquarius
3. i love music and love to dance
4. straight but curious
5. lost virginity at 15
6. i want to be a bartender or a stripper or both
7. my dream car is a mercedes slk 550 with black on black interior and wheels
8. i out drink my friends lol
9. i go to a party school
10. i want to move to someplace warm when i'm older
1. i'm 19
2. i'm an Aquarius
3. i love music and love to dance
4. straight but curious
5. lost virginity at 15
6. i want to be a bartender or a stripper or both
7. my dream car is a mercedes slk 550 with black on black interior and wheels
8. i out drink my friends lol
9. i go to a party school
10. i want to move to someplace warm when i'm older
slimvintage
BSB Addict
1. i'm 19
2. i'm an Aquarius
3. i love music and love to dance
4. straight but curious
5. lost virginity at 15
6. i want to be a bartender or a stripper or both
7. my dream car is a mercedes slk 550 with black on black interior and wheels
8. i out drink my friends lol
9. i go to a party school
10. i want to move to someplace warm when i'm older
You know one place that's warm, dontcha mister...the island next door to Ibiza
smoore29
Well-known Member
hahahahahahaha you'd like that Slim wouldn't you??You know one place that's warm, dontcha mister...the island next door to Ibiza
i wanna stay in the states though...Florida or Cali
Markymark
BSB Addict
HMMM. Well, I"ve been gone awhile so here's 10 more.
1. I am learning to scuba dive.
2. I am learning to eat healthy, no red meat, lots of dark green veggies, and water.
3. I am finally out of the closet to everyone I know. I AM FREE!
4. My son Erik is giving me voice lessons.
5. I have rediscovered God in my life.
6. I have begun collecting historical movies.
7. I find I miss Dustin/Andrew.
8. I spend too much money on porn, and yet,
9. I would pay to see Tyler and Austin in an all out flip flop session.
10. I need new glasses, the print in this message is too small.
1. I am learning to scuba dive.
2. I am learning to eat healthy, no red meat, lots of dark green veggies, and water.
3. I am finally out of the closet to everyone I know. I AM FREE!
4. My son Erik is giving me voice lessons.
5. I have rediscovered God in my life.
6. I have begun collecting historical movies.
7. I find I miss Dustin/Andrew.
8. I spend too much money on porn, and yet,
9. I would pay to see Tyler and Austin in an all out flip flop session.
10. I need new glasses, the print in this message is too small.
Markymark
BSB Addict
California is very warm. Hint hint.
smoore29
Well-known Member
hahaha yes i know, i'd probably take Florida though....i just wanna live in Miami. it'd be awesome
