So what is it that truly fits best for Broke Straight Boys? I enjoy seeing it a Lil hard and rough but I dislike when it gets to where it looks like the person can't truly enjoy it or it gets degrading vocally. I have never been the greatest at slow and making loving. I need a little more otherwise I feel like you lose that true passion. I like the passion of when it gets aggressive and you can really tell they are into it and crave more. What are your thoughts?