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Jason Matthews, Over the Hernia and Under the Knife!

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To all my adoring fans that have been with me through the years. United beside the new fans that I continue to develop as my career pushes forwards. As most of you are aware I have an epigastral hernia that needs some fixin.

Its not a major issue.. it causes no pain problems or discomfort. It generally goes relativly unnoticed. My primary concern was with the scarring. In consideration of those who care for me, I was approcahed by many people and adivsed to recieve a second opinion. So I did. Actually I got 2 additional opinions. The injury is not life threatening and had did not bother me so immediate action is not necessary. However its something that needs fixed eventually and doing it while young aides in the recovery process dramatically. So to maximize the potential of minimizing long term damge I decided to go ahead with it and get it over with!

This morning they put me down, cut me up and sewed me shut. The hernia is officially gone and the road to recovery begins ! I woke up fine from anesthesia. So far so good. Very minor pain. No nausea (yet) I feel like any other day. Just thought I would keep you all updated and I will continue to do so !
Until Next Time,
Jason Matthews
 
Also ... I have done some minimal research on scarring .. If anyone knows how to prevent the scar or treat the scar or minimize the scar .. any suggestions or remedies are much appreciated !
 
Jason,

I know nothing about scarring, but I am really happy that the operation is over and that you are well on your way to a full recovery. For me personally, scarring is just a badge of courage in life that you care about yourself enough to do the right thing to stay healthy. Besides, how big can it be. You're much bigger than a little scar.

Continue to take care of yourself and I look forward to seeing you again soon.

Love you, man.
 
It is good to hear that your surgery went well. There is nothing more important than your health. I will keep your quick recovery in my prayers. As for scarring, the surgeon has a lot of control based on how small and how close he places the outer stitches. Where you have control is to let the wound heal without large scabs. When I had facial surgery some years ago my doctor had me use vasaline to keep the area moist while healing.

Please do not overdue as it will just slow down the healing process and may cause some unneeded pain.

For the long term, scar or no scar, your best asset is your warm personality and generous attitude. Your willingnes to take time out of your recover to keep us updated and aware of your personal health is actually beyond generous. You are obviously a very giving person. I wish you all the best. God bless.
 
So glad to hear you are doing fine.

just as cum2me01 says, you should not overdo..
I often see that the 2 or 3 day is the worst day for those newely operated.. they kind of "surfe" on the anestetic the first day, and the discomfort sets in as the anestetic let go.. hope it does not happen to you though.
No idea about the scar, but i can always do some resarch at work, always fun to learn something new..
 
dude, let me run a few things by you.
you might want to ask your doctor if kelo-cote is right for you.
silicone gels help in scar reductions management.
invicible scars claims that in 12 weeks of starting treatment you won't be sure you had a scar.
check this out!
http://www.inviciblescars.com/before-and-after-photos.html

there are those who strongly suggest that the use of aloe vera in scar reductions management worked just as well. they would add vitamin c, lots of water on the inside and a little petroleum on the outside.

off topic: with luck your surgeon had the skill to saw like a master carpenter and sew with an equal skill. that way all their work can stay inside with no need to show signs of the work on the outside.

the city digs up the street, when they are done the hope is the street will not be left looking dug up!

i wish you speedy recovery!
 
i was reading, you should be able to do just about anything in five weeks, except you shouldn' try to lift cars. by lift i don't mean pinch, i mean elevate. not steal, but raise.
 
strong positive thought however it is manifested to you also seems to speed healing.
 
and remember to laugh!
laughing is a smile that burst.
it affects everything close.
 
and remember to laugh!
laughing is a smile that burst.
it affects everything close.

That's a sweet thought, but I'd hold off on laughing too hard for a while. Many moons ago - back when I was 15 - I had my appendix out. It was a tiny incision. The first night I was home from the hospital, my parents thought it would be a good idea to watch Meatballs. Laughing never hurt so bad. Damn that Bill Murray! :)

In all seriousness, if it was a laproscopic surgery, it may not be a big deal. But laughing CAN be kind of painful after abdominal surgery - and not very good for the stitches either.
 
I really don't know about scaring, but you may not want to read all these posts until you feel better, I think they are hilarious; you guys have a great sense of humor. Anyway, rest and take care of yourself and don't watch any Bill Murray! hehehe
 
not wanting to slow healing, i'd suggest smiling hard until you can feel it deep within you.
i understood that after 2 weeks, even sex is ok as long as it is comfortable. laughing, maybe quietly to himself at first, then progressing.
it fools the brain into a feel good phase, the chemicals produced in the body help the healing process.
either that or just a fool who thinks laughing makes me feel good.

doctor is hurts when i do this.
then don't do that.

it only hurts when i laugh.

laugh clown, laugh!

laugh and the whole world laughs with you.

laugh! yes, the joke is on you

live long, love much and laugh often.

jason, ask your doctor if it safe for you to laugh and engage in other activities. :blushing:
 
The worst is over. Good days around the corner...

Dearest Jason,

Trust that you are indeed loved on the forum for the beautiful person you are and that will not be diminished one iota over an inconsequential minute surgerical scar. The last episode you were in, I noticed how truly beautiful you are, both inside and out, and your wonderful glowing smile.:biggrin: You are much greater than the sum of your parts, no matter how appealing that may already be. Your life experiences have resulted in the work of art you represent. What a privilege it is to have you grace our site.:001_rolleyes:

Jason, get well soon as you are definitely loved and among friends.:smiley-sex022:


Sincerely,


Stimpy
 
Jason, I am so glad to hear everything went good. That's excellent news. As for the scar.... it just adds some personality to your bod. My scar is rather large and when people ask me about it, I tell them how close I came to death and they always say man you are really lucky. I have a friend who is a plastic surgeon. I asked him what I could do about the scar and he said, " Be Grateful." And today I am so very grateful.
Love ya and hope your up and about soon, Erik
 
Jason,

So glad to hear everything went well with your surgery. Take it easy and get better soon.

Dracythis
 
Dearest Jason,

Trust that you are indeed loved on the forum for the beautiful person you are and that will not be diminished one iota over an inconsequential minute surgical scar. The last episode you were in, I noticed how truly beautiful you are, both inside and out, and your wonderful glowing smile.:biggrin: You are much greater than the sum of your parts, no matter how appealing that may already be. Your life experiences have resulted in the work of art you represent. What a privilege it is to have you grace our site.:001_rolleyes:

Jason, get well soon as you are definitely loved and among friends.:smiley-sex022:


Sincerely,


Stimpy

Hear, hear Stimpy. :)

Jason please know that I am sending you very positive thoughts and keeping you in the light. I'm so pleased that the surgery has gone well. Please do not overdo out of any sense of macho bravado or peer pressure. Other people don't have to live in your body. You do. So please take it easy. Do as much as you can comfortably but not more. If something hurts, stop it immediately. Do not try to "work through it" or "grin and bear it", or "soldier on" or anything of that nature.

As others have said already, the thinking on wound care and surgical sites has gone more and more in the direction of keeping wounds moist instead of letting them scab over. I don't know if that would be the case with incisions so I would talk to the doctor's nurses at his office if you are unclear on what they suggest based on your discharge instructions. I'm wondering if you are still in the hospital or if it was one day surgery.

In any case though Stimpy is right. A scar is not going to diminish you in our eyes nor dim our luv for you . You are a perfect and holy child of God.

Best wishes on a speedy recovery. :wink:

Big hugs!
 
Glad everything went well. As for scarring you usually don't want to put anything on right away. There is usually a period of time where you just let it heal naturally. After that you need to put scarring ointment on it or something like that constantly and keep it moist. I would try to ask your doctor or a dermatologist about that though. :P
 
the literature speaks to starting scar reduction management after 2 week. during the first 2 weeks the body as a whole will be working on feeling better. pain management will be number 1 on the list. here is where strong positive thoughts and happy thoughts come into play.
after 2 weeks you should be back to something approaching your normal (what ever that is).
the mind will return to any scarring, in due time.
a few words with the doctor/nurse/health care provider should include whether silicone, aloe vera, or petroleum gel might be a good choice in reducing the appearance of any scarring.

warning: act upon advice of a professionals known to you or you have reason to believe is qualified to provide such advice.
 
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