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The one that got away

dear diary, today i met a guy who told me he wanted to see me again.
when i told him i was at the beginning of a new relationship, he said, couldn't we just be friend?
when it rains it pours!
i know i am not special, but why do new people come up to me now when i am trying to sort things out with my new friend?

I know exactly what you mean! LOL Isn't life grand?
 
I know exactly what you mean! LOL Isn't life grand?

yes, life is grand!
but sometimes i find myself expecting a bumps or the worst and when then when things go smoothly, i am perversely disappointed.

in paradise, i would wonder why so few harps.
 
perversely disappointed in paradise.
6 months ago when i started this thread, i was near depression.
i wonder what to do. wishing to meet in person my favorite model and finding that things are not as easy as i would want, i remembered a boy i met who gave me his number. i wondered whether i should make contact or not! the be end of it all is that i did make contact.
i valued the input i got from loving forumites. the advice and experiences shared with me helped to shape my course of action.
the past 6 months have been the happiest time of my life.
i taped a behind the scenes interview with two of my favorite models/performers/people! blake and jason
i bet on horses, won money (and lost money), watched concerts, went to movies, watched football (american), got drunk, had great cookout, learned i had a form of blood cancer, watched friends rise to high office, spent time with the most wonder person i have ever met.

i want to thank all those whose words make it possible for me to be here able to say, thank you!


jason mentioned that when we met in san diego i seemed to be floating high. it was a combination of making connect with my friend and seeing sha, jason and blake again. of course, it was just another day in paradise. visiting angels and the promise of even better is the life in paradise.


perversely disappointed, the mayan were misinterpeted!


having had the best 6 months of my life could it get any better!?
 
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I'm so happy that you have found such happiness in the last year Another1. Plenty of us are hoping for the same now ourselves. haha
 
I'm so happy that you have found such happiness in the last year Another1. Plenty of us are hoping for the same now ourselves. haha

i have learned that when it comes to LOVE, the more you give, the more there is. may you be filled with the love i share with you.
my wish for you is this:
May you always be as happy as i am now!
 
i have learned that when it comes to LOVE, the more you give, the more there is. may you be filled with the love i share with you.
my wish for you is this:
May you always be as happy as i am now!

Sometimes tasting the sour makes the sweet tingle on your tongue and taste that much more delightful...

I'm so very glad to hear how happy you are.
 
i have learned that when it comes to LOVE, the more you give, the more there is. may you be filled with the love i share with you.
my wish for you is this:
May you always be as happy as i am now!

Aww... Thanks! :blush:
 
Damnation!!!!!!!! Did one get away??

you know how the sun goes away and it gets dark? my new friend is somewhere in the middle of the left ocean. unable to touch him with my hands, i let my fingers do the walking and do the talking. phone calls and text messages.
in the dark, i light a candle and wait for the sun to return.
 
i think i blew it! i need help!
the other day my friend walked into the room and saw my Broke Straight Boys episodes page.
nothing was said, but i feel a freeze.
i was talking to a gay friend who said i should find a nice gay boy and stop farting around with straight boys.
my dear straight friend says that i like chasing the deer i never hope to catch. if the deer stopped to be caught, i would soil myself.
the gay friend is someone i have lusted after for a short period of time. he gave me a big kiss and said, think about what i said. then he left!
a door closes and a window opens!
sorry, still don't have a diary!
 
i think i blew it! i need help!
the other day my friend walked into the room and saw my Broke Straight Boys episodes page.
nothing was said, but i feel a freeze.
i was talking to a gay friend who said i should find a nice gay boy and stop farting around with straight boys.
my dear straight friend says that i like chasing the deer i never hope to catch. if the deer stopped to be caught, i would soil myself.
the gay friend is someone i have lusted after for a short period of time. he gave me a big kiss and said, think about what i said. then he left!
a door closes and a window opens!
sorry, still don't have a diary!

I always say, "God gives you what you need, not always what you want."
I was dating two guys: one hot, sexy and gorgeous. The other was a computer nerd with thick glasses.
I ended up with the nerd; he gave me what I needed.
That was 30 years ago; we celebrated our silver wedding anniversary Valentine's Day.
Go for what you need. Most times the want is just a passing fad.
 
i think i blew it! i need help!
the other day my friend walked into the room and saw my Broke Straight Boys episodes page.
nothing was said, but i feel a freeze.
i was talking to a gay friend who said i should find a nice gay boy and stop farting around with straight boys.
my dear straight friend says that i like chasing the deer i never hope to catch. if the deer stopped to be caught, i would soil myself.
the gay friend is someone i have lusted after for a short period of time. he gave me a big kiss and said, think about what i said. then he left!
a door closes and a window opens!
sorry, still don't have a diary!

Another1, you don't need a diary you have us.

I believe qualilty communication is an essential part of making a relationship successful, along with the comfort of being yourself while respecting the other person's feelings.

Talk to the one you've invested your time and emotion in and listen to what he has to say before you make any big decisions...
 
after two years, I return to listen to my new favorite new band. my friend reminds a source of confusion are still at that I am not gay and the friendship ends at intimacy. he thinks guys should not have sex with guys and I think guys should not have sex with friends. he seems more concerned I like him too much and I am concerned that when it comes to sex, friends are off limits. I want to be friends, not sex partners. trying to overcome my limitations and the realities of the world. can a gay man be friends with a straight man?
 
after two years, I return to listen to my new favorite new band. my friend reminds a source of confusion are still at that I am not gay and the friendship ends at intimacy. he thinks guys should not have sex with guys and I think guys should not have sex with friends. he seems more concerned I like him too much and I am concerned that when it comes to sex, friends are off limits. I want to be friends, not sex partners. trying to overcome my limitations and the realities of the world. can a gay man be friends with a straight man?

Of course you can be friends, unless you follow the advice of Davey Wavey. Just be yourself and see what happens; you may also want to invite he and a couple of other guys along, so he feels better "in a group." (Stop, I didn't say "orgy!):w00t:
 
after two years, I return to listen to my new favorite new band. my friend reminds a source of confusion are still at that I am not gay and the friendship ends at intimacy. he thinks guys should not have sex with guys and I think guys should not have sex with friends. he seems more concerned I like him too much and I am concerned that when it comes to sex, friends are off limits. I want to be friends, not sex partners. trying to overcome my limitations and the realities of the world. can a gay man be friends with a straight man?

I'm sorry it hasn't worked out the way you might have hoped Another1.
 
Me too. I have a gay friend that was real close to William and I, but now I rarely see him. All my social friends are straight, except the queers on here!!! lol
Why thank you Peter. I am honored to be one of your "queer friends". I always love your political correctness. :001_rolleyes:
 
after two years, I return to listen to my new favorite new band. my friend reminds a source of confusion are still at that I am gay and the friendship ends at intimacy. he thinks guys should not have sex with guys and I think guys should not have sex with friends. he seems more concerned I like him too much and I am concerned that when it comes to sex, friends are off limits. I want to be friends, not sex partners. trying to overcome my limitations and the realities of the world. can a gay man be friends with a straight man?


Another1; I have the distinct pleasure of having all of these things in one person. It's over 20 years now! It is rare....but, it can happen.
 
after two years, I return to listen to my new favorite new band. my friend reminds a source of confusion are still at that I am not gay and the friendship ends at intimacy. he thinks guys should not have sex with guys and I think guys should not have sex with friends. he seems more concerned I like him too much and I am concerned that when it comes to sex, friends are off limits. I want to be friends, not sex partners. trying to overcome my limitations and the realities of the world. can a gay man be friends with a straight man?

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Another1 - Sure they can. I am blessed to have many wonderful straight male friends, many of whom are beautiful, and know that I appreciate their beauty. (That sort of rapport, of course, just depends on the straight friend, in question - and one must always respect one's straight friends AS straight. Some of them are more sensitive about receiving kindly affection, than others.)

"A" XOXOXOXOXO

P.S. As far as my life goes - they ALL got away, except for Mr. K. - but he's the one who really matters. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SYoc8h75KVM
 
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