Change is never easy for most people... We have all gone through it at work and our home life. And it seems like nothing is ever going to settle down. Change and evolution is just part of the universe. These things are just tests of our initiation as well as the. See the below Universal Laws.
Basic Universal Laws: (Drs. Milanovich and McCune in, The Light Shall Set You Free (1998))
1. The Law of Divine Oneness:
The Law of Divine Oneness helps us to understand that we live in a world where everything is connected to everything else. Everything we do, say, think and believe affects others and the universe around us.
2. The Law of Vibration:
This Universal Law states that everything in the Universe moves, vibrates, and travels in circular patterns. The same principles of vibration in the physical world apply to our thoughts, feelings, desires, and wills in the Etheric world. Each sound, thing, and even thought has its own vibrational frequency, unique unto itself.
3. The Law of Action:
The Law of Action must be applied in order for us to manifest things on earth. Therefore, we must engage in actions that support our thoughts, dreams, emotions and words.
4. The Law of Correspondence:
This Universal Law states that the principles or laws of physics that explain the physical world – energy, Light, vibration, and motion – have their corresponding principles in the etheric or universe. “As above, so below.”
5. The Law of Cause and Effect:
This Universal Law states that nothing happens by chance or outside the Universal Laws. Every action has a reaction or consequence and we “reap what we have sown.”
6. The Law of Compensation:
This Universal Law is the Law of Cause and Effect applied to blessings and abundance that are provided for us. The visible effects of our deeds are given to us in gifts, money, inheritances, friendships, and blessings.
7. The Law of Attraction:
This Universal Law demonstrates how we create the things, events, and people that come into our lives. Our thoughts, feelings, words, and actions produce energies which, in turn, attract like energies. Negative energies attract negative energies and positive energies attract positive energies.
8. The Law of Perpetual Transmutation of Energy:
This Universal Law states that all persons have within them the power to change the conditions in their lives. Higher vibrations consume and transform lower ones; thus, each of us can change the energies in our lives by understanding the Universal Laws and applying the principles in such a way as to effect change.
9. The Law of Relativity:
This Universal Law states that each person will receive a series of problems (Tests of Initiation) for the purpose of strengthening the Light within. We must consider each of these tests to be a challenge and remain connected to our hearts when proceeding to solve the problems. This law also teaches us to compare our problems to others’ problems and put everything into its proper perspective. No matter how bad we perceive our situation to be, there is always someone who is in a worse position. It is all relative.
10. The Law of Polarity:
This Universal Law states that everything is on a continuum and has an opposite. We can suppress and transform undesirable thoughts by concentrating on the opposite pole. It is the law of mental vibrations.
11. The Law of Rhythm:
This Universal Law states that everything vibrates and moves to certain rhythms. These rhythms establish seasons, cycles, stages of development, and patterns. Each cycle reflects the regularity of God’s universe. Masters know how to rise above negative parts of a cycle by never getting too excited or allowing negative things to penetrate their consciousness.
12. The Law of Gender:
This Universal Law states that everything has its masculine (yang) and feminine (yin) principles, and that these are the basis for all creation. The spiritual Initiate must balance the masculine and feminine energies within herself or himself to become a Master and a true co-creator with God.
BSB provides something for all of our sexual appetites. As far as the new format goes, I think that they are getting a feel for what will and will not work on BSB in general. The producers have had some great ideas and story lines that they have tried to bring to life for us that have not been done on this site before. I give them a lot of credit there. Nothing ventured nothing gained... Many straight guys don't look like twinks and Abercrombee and Fitch models and most straight guys tend to hesitate or bulk at various aspects if not all aspects of homosexual sex. However; I think Rocko is kind of cute and he has a pretty genuine nature about him. He reminds me of some friends I have had occasional sex with growing up. And I kind of like the two guys that are coming up this evening strictly from a looks appeal perspective. If the sex does not turn me on particularly I try not to be critical. I realize it is not always going to be something that gets me all hot and bothered. I try to think before I write or post to the Forum as much as I can. I think that maybe some models or film producers may be reading or watching. I am not on here to hurt peoples feelings. If I see something I like I comment on it. If not I do my best to either avoid commenting on it or find a constructive way to say what I think or feel. Besides, we have access to a huge array of additional porn and the Forum if today's menu is not sexually appetizing enough.
Getting stuck in negative and critical thought pasterns only weakens us as people. GLBT folks have enough to endure in the real world; as Ms. Diedra posted earlier in the week... Back biting and criticism doesn't solve problems. It just creates more problems. The negativity generated can be very infectious if given enough time and the right circumstances. The Forum is like a safe haven or refuge for many Forumites and serves as a place for friendships to foster and grow. It provides a useful communication tool to engage others in like or not so like minded conversation. More over, I think it serves as a tool to remind us that regardless where we live many of us live through the same circumstances and situations. Our common bond is that we were all attracted to this site for what ever reason. Sometimes we need to focus on our similarities and less about our differences.
I do believe that sometimes people just need to vent. More times than not our frustration comes from not being in control of situations in our own lives in small ways. So, we sometimes feel a need to take control where we can to help build our self-esteem. In my opinion the new format is not what I am used to. However; It does have some interesting scenes so far. I thought it was pretty funny when the guys started trying to play let's make a deal with the camera man or whoever was bartering. The other day I saw my first foot job on film. That was too funny... It wasn't a huge turn on sexually but it really gave me the feeling that these guys were squeamish about gay sex. It reminded me of a few awkward moments approaching a straight man about sex the first time or two. Anyway, to conclude my point; It doesn't matter what brought you here only what you leave here with.
Some days I come here bummed out and leave with a smile. Sometimes I come here and find that someone needs a prayer or some emotional support. Some days I come here and I read all the negative comments and feel worse than when I came in. Most times I come in have a laugh or two, watch some interesting porn, and socialize with my friends that are like an extension of my family. At least for the moment I know I am safe and in a GLBT friendly environment and I can just be free. I ma not sure a price can be put on safety and freedom...
Bless your hearts and thank you for letting me share these thoughts...