Stop all this jacking off to get an orgasm, although mutual mastubation is fine, especially when it leads all the way to orgasm. That silent monotonous masturbation can get boring sitting through a 25 minute episode when 18 minutes is watching a guy jack his own dick. Yes, cum in the rubber and cum in the mouth. And YES definately tell these guys to make some noise! The silence is deafening! Tell them to groan, say how good it feels, talk dirty, talk to each other for God's sake.