Howdy Peeps,
I don't know what all to say. I 53, been in a monogamous relationship for 21 years and am a very curious person. I realize that for the men on this site, it is a job that pays well. I have to give all of you props for your willingness to look past whatever stigma has been attached to gay sex over the years and hope that even though it isn't your preferred gender, you can see that there are similar feelings involved. I have been married to a woman for 8 years and if she hadn't turned into a person I would refuse to hang around with let alone sleep with, I would still have been with her. I have never been interested in the gender of the person but the heart of the person. Some would say that is bisexual, some would say it is a closet gay. I prefer not to label it because quite frankly who is in my bed at night isn't a reflection of who I am as a person. The same issues that happen in a heterosexual relationship happen in a homosexual one. If you don't believe me, just ask. The upside is of course, neither of us can get pregnant. It's fun to try LOL.