juanjo
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Fortunately no one but no one cares what your opinion is which is probably why you insist on posting nasty vicious comments.
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Hey everyone! Ian Dempsey Here!
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Fortunately no one but no one cares what your opinion is which is probably why you insist on posting nasty vicious comments.
juanjo
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Ian - I finally managed to watch your BTS video. It was a great video and you have a great future ahead in what ever it is you decide to do. I have always enjoyed your work here and even more so enjoyed reading your comments and interactions with the people here. Stay classy and may your future always be bright.
mikeyank
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If you check any of his posts now Juanjo, you will see the word "banned" under his name, so we have heard the last from that
"gentleman".
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He wasn't the nicest of members that's for sure. Lol, it caught me off guard when I saw how new he was and just how nasty he was out of the gate.
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juanjo
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Ian - unfortunately there is a small group of people out there who simply live to make caustic comments and stir up trouble. They are the worst sort of trolls who I tend to see as living in a really old dilapidated, singlewide in a trailer park that most people would not willingly live in. In fact I know that is not completely accurate - in fact it is unfair to people who do live in trailer parks.
The truth is that wherever you go and no matter what you do in your life, you will run into people like this from time to time. There is no getting around that fact. You handled the matter with class and wit. Kevin Smith actually had fun with people like this in his movie "Jay & Silent Bob Strike Back" at the end where Jay and Bob travel cross country and track down the trolls and beat them up.
But forget him and get on to being the hot guy you are. Do well in school and proceed on into the great life you deserve to have and are building for yourself.
juanjo
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If you check any of his posts now Juanjo, you will see the word "banned" under his name, so we have heard the last from that
Could not happen to a nicer person. ;^p I was beginning to get to the point where I was going to unleash all guns on him. I did not like it when I get like that. But some people just bring out the worst in me.
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I want to get questions going again, it was fun to see what was on everyones mind. A lot has happened since my last posts in November. I started school, got a tattoo, went to parties galore, and am getting ready for a birthday in a few weeks. So just drop a question, or if you're Beth, drop like 9 or 10 questions lol. I'll just answer as we go.
lol. I'll just answer as we go.
Ian!
It's so good to see you are back with us again. Big hugs man!
I was on vacation for a while and I'm trying to get caught up. I watched your latest BTS and I want to thank you for sharing all that with us. It's not often we get such a nice person who is willing to share so much with us. I found many interesting tidbits in the interview that I either wanted to comment on or ask follow-up questions. Here's one that I will start with.
I regards to your mom's warnings about being involved in the industry, I think you can see where she would have every right as a responsible parent to be concerned. It shows that she loves you and cares about you. BluMedia and Broke Straight Boys have always appeared to me to be the exceptions to the rule. They treat the models like guests and family. They feed them well. They give them a decent place to stay. They transport them around. It may be adult entertainment, but they treat their models respectfully like human beings.
Having said that, your mother's concerns about the industry are valid. As I say, your experiences with Broke Straight Boys are unique and not the norm. Your mom is not "out of the loop" or "clueless" as to how things are in the real world. Many other studios out there are exactly as she says and fears. In other studios the models are treated like a commodity that can be easily replaced. Other studios will just use the models up for what they can get out of them and spit them out when they are done. . There are some studios where hardcore drug use is not only overlooked, but actively encouraged. Some studios will play fast and loose with exposing models to others who they know are HIV+. There are real dangers out there in the industry from both a physical and emotional standpoint.
If you ever, ever entertain the idea of going to another studio in the future...please keep all of those warnings in mind. We fans love you and care for your wellbeing also. xo
It's so good to see you are back with us again. Big hugs man!
I was on vacation for a while and I'm trying to get caught up. I watched your latest BTS and I want to thank you for sharing all that with us. It's not often we get such a nice person who is willing to share so much with us. I found many interesting tidbits in the interview that I either wanted to comment on or ask follow-up questions. Here's one that I will start with.
I regards to your mom's warnings about being involved in the industry, I think you can see where she would have every right as a responsible parent to be concerned. It shows that she loves you and cares about you. BluMedia and Broke Straight Boys have always appeared to me to be the exceptions to the rule. They treat the models like guests and family. They feed them well. They give them a decent place to stay. They transport them around. It may be adult entertainment, but they treat their models respectfully like human beings.
Having said that, your mother's concerns about the industry are valid. As I say, your experiences with Broke Straight Boys are unique and not the norm. Your mom is not "out of the loop" or "clueless" as to how things are in the real world. Many other studios out there are exactly as she says and fears. In other studios the models are treated like a commodity that can be easily replaced. Other studios will just use the models up for what they can get out of them and spit them out when they are done. . There are some studios where hardcore drug use is not only overlooked, but actively encouraged. Some studios will play fast and loose with exposing models to others who they know are HIV+. There are real dangers out there in the industry from both a physical and emotional standpoint.
If you ever, ever entertain the idea of going to another studio in the future...please keep all of those warnings in mind. We fans love you and care for your wellbeing also. xo
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Always the tease!
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You wouldn't make us wait until your first video with the tattoo to find out what it is, would you? I think I'd die of suspense.
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Lol I'm not that mean. I decided to get my tattoo the day after my best friend had a Christmas party before he left for Indiana. Don't worry though, it wasn't a drunken decision tattoo. As you all know, all my friends found out about the porn the day after Halloween. So at this point I had talked to most of my friends about it and they were all okay with it, they didn't see me any differently. But there was one "friend" I wasn't too sure about. He is my friend Kaylas boyfriend. Now she had told me he found out from my ex, and that he was mad and didn't like me. And I was okay with that because I always knew he didn't much care for me in the first place. Now, we're all at this party, and he was gonna be there, I knew that. And I told myself that it wasn't gonna be a big deal, that I didn't have to talk to him and it would be alright. There was drinking at this party. Not a lot, no one got belligerently drunk. But I had had a few drinks and due to my light weight-ness, was feeling pretty good. I was stilling down by the air hockey table when he came downstairs. I still don't know how to really explain how I felt when he came down, I wasn't mad at him, but at myself. I've always been the person to think that everyone likes me. I mean what's not to like? lol. And it bothers me when I know that someone doesn't like me, and it really didn't help that I had a few drinks on top of that. So I became very emotional and I got really quiet. For some reason I felt I let him down because I did porn. I ended up going out to my car.
I DID NOT TRY TO DRIVE!!! I DIDN'T EVEN HAVE MY KEYS!!! I JUST SAT IN THE PASSENGER SEAT!!!
I just wanted to make sure you guys knew that. I had no intentions of driving, I just wanted to go somewhere quiet and by myself. I sat there for a while, just thinking. I kept getting more and more mad, and I had no idea why. Now I don't actually remember this next part, but the next thing I knew my feet were up on the dash and my calves hurt. I was a little confused as to what might have just happened, so I sat up a little. Then I saw something on my windshield I hadn't seen before. After further inspection I realized I must have kicked my windshield because there was a huge spider crack that went from the top of the glass all the way to the bottom. After realizing that I calmed down quite a bit and the ager was replaced with disappointment. One of my friends came out to get me and took me back inside.
The next morning I woke up around 6:30am, as I usually do because I can't sleep if I'm not in my own bed. I thought a lot about what had happened the night before while listening to calming music. That's when I decided I wanted a tattoo. I wanted to get something that reminded me to never get like that again. Something that let me know that the past is behind me and if I don't move on all it will do is hurt me.
I don't know if any of you are familiar with the artist, Diana Krall, but my mom would listen to her a lot when I was little. She would always play her College Dudes's when it was time for me to take a nap. It was very comforting to me and I would fall asleep in no time. Devil May Care was the song that was playing at the time that morning after the party. "He who is wise never tries to revise what's past and gone." I felt like that fit pretty well. I got my first tattoo December 20, 2013 to remind me that what's done is done, and that it doesn't matter anymore.
Wow.
Thank you for sharing that Ian. I'm glad that you weren't injured by the windshield. I know that the vast majority of people in your personal life are going to like you. It does suck when you find one or two people who don't. But you can't let them get to you too much. If you can't change their opinion of you then it's best just to avoid them. Don't let them take way your peace. It's not worth it. As with so many things in life...you're never going to please all of the people all of the time. xo
Thank you for sharing that Ian. I'm glad that you weren't injured by the windshield. I know that the vast majority of people in your personal life are going to like you. It does suck when you find one or two people who don't. But you can't let them get to you too much. If you can't change their opinion of you then it's best just to avoid them. Don't let them take way your peace. It's not worth it. As with so many things in life...you're never going to please all of the people all of the time. xo
juanjo
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Diana Krall! I love her. My partner and I have been fans of her's for a good amount of time. I love jazz and I love her voice. She is going to be playing in Oakland in April and if I am here I intend to go see her.
Beth
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Well hell, sometimes, shit happens. I'm glad no one was hurt and that you realized that letting go, is part of moving on.
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juanjo
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Truer words do not exist.
It reminds me of an old saying attributed to the Buddha - if you want to know why you are where you are now - look at what you did in the past. If you want to know where you are going to be in the future, look at what you are doing now.
Exactly. We can spend (and lose) so much time and mental energy dwelling on the past. Or we can chose to focus on the now and live in the present. Our present can be the basis of our future, rather than the past. It's quite liberating when you look at it like that.
So Ian,
I take it that is on the left side of your torso? I might have gone a little bit smaller myself. lol But it does look good. They did a good job on it.
