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pooh, how into his girlfriend is he? If he is in love with her, that is a problem.
You have a good thing going with him. I had a little buddy, who was younger than me, too. I lived in a house for many years with a bunch of other people. My little buddy moved into the house when a room became available. I loved this guy. He was so smart and funnier than hell! Cute, too. He also had a big dick. I found that out one morning when we had plans and he was a lazy ass and wouldn't get out of bed. I finally bitched at him enough that he threw off his blankets and stood up. He was wearing boxers, but didn't have morning wood. He had morning lumber! Damn he was hung! Small guy with a big dick. He just grinned at me and walked past me to shower. I'm sure my mouth was hanging open.
Another time I was home alone watching porn. He came home just about the time I was about to strip down. I remember him standing behind the couch, watching porn with his hand in his pocket! LOL! I so wanted to ask him to join me.
Another time we pooled our money and planned to call an escort service. He said he wasn't going to fuck in front of me, but I thought to myself, I will go first in front of you! LOL! Our roommates came home drunk, so that never happened. Damn it!
He knocked up his girlfriend and moved out. Yeah, I do regret what could have been, but I didn't want to lose the friendship either.
Hell, you are already more than half way there!
You have stirred up a perv nest!
You have a good thing going with him. I had a little buddy, who was younger than me, too. I lived in a house for many years with a bunch of other people. My little buddy moved into the house when a room became available. I loved this guy. He was so smart and funnier than hell! Cute, too. He also had a big dick. I found that out one morning when we had plans and he was a lazy ass and wouldn't get out of bed. I finally bitched at him enough that he threw off his blankets and stood up. He was wearing boxers, but didn't have morning wood. He had morning lumber! Damn he was hung! Small guy with a big dick. He just grinned at me and walked past me to shower. I'm sure my mouth was hanging open.
Another time I was home alone watching porn. He came home just about the time I was about to strip down. I remember him standing behind the couch, watching porn with his hand in his pocket! LOL! I so wanted to ask him to join me.
Another time we pooled our money and planned to call an escort service. He said he wasn't going to fuck in front of me, but I thought to myself, I will go first in front of you! LOL! Our roommates came home drunk, so that never happened. Damn it!
He knocked up his girlfriend and moved out. Yeah, I do regret what could have been, but I didn't want to lose the friendship either.
Hell, you are already more than half way there!
You have stirred up a perv nest!
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Well i ask him how he feels about his girlfriend and he told me he likes her alot so i will wait until he breaks up with her and then i will tell him i dont want to mess up his relationship but we still messed around that day
It sounds like he has more than a passing interest in being intimate with another guy. You are right to tread carefully though. If you come on too strong it might push him away because he may not be ready (at least not yet) to take things any further. Many guys are terrified of being labeled gay. Even when they secretly know it's true. He still is maintaining some degree of deniability as to any gay leanings. He can rationalize it as harmless fun. The longer you can keep the j/o sessions going the more hope you have of taking things further. He may very well want to take things further himself but is terrified of your reaction as well as the consequences of what that would mean for his own sexual identity.
Good luck Pooh!
Good luck Pooh!
That's the spirit! Enjoy what you do have now. If I had a cute jackoff buddy who I thought was really attractive I'd be thrilled with that myself. I would eventually want more, as you do now. But still a j/o session with a friend is a great thing to be able to look forward to. It would put a little bounce in my step! LOL
There are many people who don't even have that much.
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Hi Pooh, I sure dont want to be the one to tell you the wrong thing and mess this up for you but I'd bet the house on this guy being Bi. Although as Tampa said many guys dont like hearing the truth so be careful about what you say and especially so of saying anthing about a posible relationship at this point. I do however feel this guy really wants to do more but is just as much afraid as you are. Try asking him something like have you ever had anyone jack you off? Or ever wonder what it would feel like to have someone jack you off? Or have you ever had a blow job and what do they feel like?? I wonder what it feels like to give one? I think you will soon find yourself taking things up a notch. Good luck and keep us informed. At first I wasnt sure you were real but heck the story line is geting interesting enough who cares. LOL
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Well he has a girlfriend and i ask him how he feels about her and he said that he really likes her so i will wait to see if he stay with her i dont want to ruin his relationship with his girlfriend as long as we still j/o together im happy
After reading your posts, I definitely would not do anything about it. To me, sex and love are totally different. He's in love with his girlfriend but doesn't mind jacking off with a guy. I'm pretty sure he's not looking for a relationship with a guy, but just some fun.
You'll probably scare him off if you do tell him your feelings for him. I'm sorry to say that but i really feel that you're jeopardizing your relationship with him. I would just jack off with him or even have sex lol but that'll pretty much be the extent of it.
I think.
You'll probably scare him off if you do tell him your feelings for him. I'm sorry to say that but i really feel that you're jeopardizing your relationship with him. I would just jack off with him or even have sex lol but that'll pretty much be the extent of it.
I think.
Pooh, I agree with Tampa and Scorpio. The hardest thing is giving your friend the space and a chance to decide whether or not he likes guys or girls. The two of you have bonded in a very special way already that is much closer than most friends. One thing I can tell you about heterosexual relationships is that they are like a roller coaster dealing with all of the emotions and hormones that women naturally bring to the relationship. Things like this often cause couples to break up. He has found a special friend in you. If you can be patient for a few months you may get your opportunity. However; coming out with your feelings right now could drive you two guys further apart.
Some would call this the waiting game. LOL. I am not suggesting that you wait forever. However; he is still pretty young and still discovering himself and what he is looking for. Give the heterosexual relationship a chance to flourish or fail. Odds are in your favor that it will fail for two reasons. One he has already been exposed to some guy on guy fun. The other is them getting through what some call the honey moon cycle. You see this cycle is connected to their endorphins. For the first 6 - 9 months their bodies will create warm feel good feelings stemming from their endorphins about each other. Some times it ends as soon as 3 mos. It really depends on how different they are from each other. Anyway, after that time period everyone starts to look at the other and begin to wonder what they ever saw that attracted one to another. This is often when things get rocky and break ups happen. Poof, they part ways and lick their wounds.
Now as far as your personal fun time with this guy. Enjoy, as long as he doesn't show signs of stopping why should you? I think it would be OK to suggest trying to blow him or even a 69. Be sure to joke about it at first. Tell him that you have heard that guys give better head than a woman. In fact ask him if that is true? He might surprise you and say yes they do. LOL
Anyway, it plants the idea for him to think about. After a time or two joke about it some more and then be sure to tell him that you are not sure you would like it at all but hint that it might be fun to try just as friends to see. Again, plant the idea. Also, consider buying a bisexual porn or two and one or two gay porns for your collection down the road. Try to watch them to plant a suggestion and defend it by saying something like I guess I wonder how guys really od have sex. As he becomes more comfortable you may be able to JO or even suck each other to those movies.
If things don't progress from there you'll know that he is very much heterosexual. If things do progress from there you will know that you may have a chance at a relationship. Bless your heart. I hope this helps....
Some would call this the waiting game. LOL. I am not suggesting that you wait forever. However; he is still pretty young and still discovering himself and what he is looking for. Give the heterosexual relationship a chance to flourish or fail. Odds are in your favor that it will fail for two reasons. One he has already been exposed to some guy on guy fun. The other is them getting through what some call the honey moon cycle. You see this cycle is connected to their endorphins. For the first 6 - 9 months their bodies will create warm feel good feelings stemming from their endorphins about each other. Some times it ends as soon as 3 mos. It really depends on how different they are from each other. Anyway, after that time period everyone starts to look at the other and begin to wonder what they ever saw that attracted one to another. This is often when things get rocky and break ups happen. Poof, they part ways and lick their wounds.
Now as far as your personal fun time with this guy. Enjoy, as long as he doesn't show signs of stopping why should you? I think it would be OK to suggest trying to blow him or even a 69. Be sure to joke about it at first. Tell him that you have heard that guys give better head than a woman. In fact ask him if that is true? He might surprise you and say yes they do. LOL
Anyway, it plants the idea for him to think about. After a time or two joke about it some more and then be sure to tell him that you are not sure you would like it at all but hint that it might be fun to try just as friends to see. Again, plant the idea. Also, consider buying a bisexual porn or two and one or two gay porns for your collection down the road. Try to watch them to plant a suggestion and defend it by saying something like I guess I wonder how guys really od have sex. As he becomes more comfortable you may be able to JO or even suck each other to those movies.
If things don't progress from there you'll know that he is very much heterosexual. If things do progress from there you will know that you may have a chance at a relationship. Bless your heart. I hope this helps....
I am in agreeance with Tampa, Scorpio & Jayman just take as it is & let nature take it's course. If there is going to be more to what is already happening then it will happen when you both least expect it. In the mean time just enjoy the moment & develop your friendship.
Now if you want somebody to go further with ....................
Now if you want somebody to go further with ....................
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I am in agreeance with Tampa, Scorpio & Jayman just take as it is & let nature take it's course. If there is going to be more to what is already happening then it will happen when you both least expect it. In the mean time just enjoy the moment & develop your friendship.
Now if you want somebody to go further with ....................
Bad, bad, Ray! Thankfully, there is some distance between you!
Naughty boy!
Bad, bad, Ray! Thankfully, there is some distance between you!
Naughty boy!
Oops that slipped out - this is what happens when I stay away from the forum too long
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Naughty Naughty Naughty boy! Ray lol
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