Help please

[POOH875]

Please help i like my good friend danny i like him alot but im afraid to tell him. He has a girlfriend but i don't care because me and him do things together like jack off together at least 3 times a week. I want to take it to the next level but i'm to scared to ask him i was gonna tell him the other night but i didn't have the balls to tell him.

 

[Kodieboy]

Does he know your gay?

 

[POOH875]

no none of my friends or family know im gay but me and him play around with each other alot

 

[scorpio]

Do you just jack off or do you also touch each other?

 

[raysvq]

no none of my friends or family know im gay but me and him play around with each other alot

Seeing as you both play around with each other a lot - where do you think his sexuality lies?

 

[POOH875]

no we dont touch each other but i have grabbed his penis and he grabbed mine but in a playful way but not while jacking off

 

[POOH875]

i think he's bi but he is afraid to tell me

 

[parisnoyd]

Pooh, as you JO together a few times a week, I don't think he would be too reluctant to do more. Do you watch porn together, or just JO?

The liking thing is up to you. That is your call, as only you know your friend.

 

[Kodieboy]

How old r u both?

how long u been JO together?

 

[POOH875]

we do watch porn and jack off

 

[POOH875]

im 29 and he's 22 and me and him start doing it two years ago

 

[raysvq]

i think he's bi but he is afraid to tell me

What makes you think he is bi?

 

[Kodieboy]

im 29 and he's 22 and me and him start doing it two years ago

How did you star JO together ..... wasnt that a big step to take at 1st?

 

[POOH875]

well this how it all started it was 4th of july we was sitting in my car and i said i need to go home to shoot myself a missile(jack off and cum im a shooter thats why i say shoot a missile) he told me just do it here i said if you do it ill do it so we did but he was so nervous his dick would not get hard and it took him forever to cum but when he did it was a big load and every since then he would tell me let shoot a missile

 

[tucsonjayce]

no we dont touch each other but i have grabbed his penis and he grabbed mine but in a playful way but not while jacking off

Touch is a good start. You have "playfully" touched each other. Now you want more. That's good, but more physically or emotionally? The physical can lead to the emotional.

Try rubbing his neck and back before you jo but when you are unclothed. I would suggest that you get close to him when you jo. A knee touching his leg for a start. Then you can either start o touch his upper body while JOing or start to watch his technique and watch him cum. Make nice comments about his cock and cumming. You can tell him that it feels better when somebody else does it. Go from there.

Next time when you horse around grab his cock and don't let go. Try to get him hard (a couple of squeezes for a start).

That's fine for the physical. If you are in the throes of true love the only thing you can do is be honest with him and tell him how you feel. Love does not lie, love does not hide, and in the case of love, the truth will set you free.

All my best, I know it is scary.......

 

[raysvq]

Touch is a good start. You have "playfully" touched each other. Now you want more. That's good, but more physically or emotionally? The physical can lead to the emotional.

Try rubbing his neck and back before you jo but when you are unclothed. I would suggest that you get close to him when you jo. A knee touching his leg for a start. Then you can either start o touch his upper body while JOing or start to watch his technique and watch him cum. Make nice comments about his cock and cumming. You can tell him that it feels better when somebody else does it. Go from there.

Next time when you horse around grab his cock and don't let go. Try to get him hard (a couple of squeezes for a start).

That's fine for the physical. If you are in the throes of true love the only thing you can do is be honest with him and tell him how you feel. Love does not lie, love does not hide, and in the case of love, the truth will set you free.

All my best, I know it is scary.......

I was going to suggest something similar but do it in such a way that gives you the option of "backing out" eg Make it sound as if you are thinking out loud & it is just an off the cuff remark (guys do say things when they are in a state of arousal that they wouldn't normally say) just to see what sort of response you get from him

 

[POOH875]

one day he came before me and as i was jacking off he was just looking at my penis and why will he jack off with a guy so thats why i think he's bi

 

[POOH875]

thanks i will try it but im so f*cking scared i told him the other night i wanted to tell him but if i tell him he might think im crazy or weird he told me to tell him, i told him i couldn't and he told me i could tell him anything but i could not do it

 

[raysvq]

well this how it all started it was 4th of july we was sitting in my car and i said i need to go home to shoot myself a missile(jack off and cum im a shooter thats why i say shoot a missile) he told me just do it here i said if you do it ill do it so we did but he was so nervous his dick would not get hard and it took him forever to cum but when he did it was a big load and every since then he would tell me let shoot a missile

Some indicators that I can see are:-
1. He told you to do it here
2. He did it too when you responded
3. Even though he was nervous he still went through with it
4. It has continued beyond that one time
I am not suggesting you should interpret these indicators as a way of him saying to you that he would be open to going further.

Ultimately, no matter what advice or suggestions we give you, it is your call & your call alone as to how far you want to push things.

Something else to consider - How strong your friendship is & whether it is worth putting that friendship at risk

 

[POOH875]

thats why im afraid to ask. he have a girlfriend and i dont want to put our relationship at risk but when we are together i just get this weird feeling and sometimes i even leak precum just by looking at him