First time having gay sex

[elyot1]

My new friend asked me how old I was the first time I had sex. Told him I couldn't count what my neighbor who was eight and I did when I was six when we discovered our dicks got hard.We laughed and played with each other. He taught me how to jerk off when I was nine. Nothing came out but there was feeling. He persuaded me to go down on him when I was eleven. "So, I was eleven." "That's not sex." He claims there has to be penetration for it to be considered sex. So I was almost fifteen when I first had sex. He was almost seventeen his first time.

This got me wondering how old everyone was their first time and if it was enjoyable. Mine was awkward, but I went back for more.

 

[mikeyank]

Using the elyot1 definition of sex, I was younger than eleven. But if we are using your new friends definition of "sex" as stated by former president Bill Clinton who famously said, "I didn't have sex with that woman", after receiving a blowjob from her, I was way older, actually in my late 20's.

And throughout my adult life, both in my porn preferences and in my own life, I've remained mostly an oral kind of guy!

 

[Repareur]

My best friend and I were 13. We had been wrestling and playing around but the first time we did anything we were on a 747 crossing the Atlantic. His mom and aunt were visiting long lost relatives in North Wales and my friend didn’t want to go with them alone so my parents payed my way to go with them. He started it under the blankets while watching the movie. Then we locked ourselves in the rear bathroom. We ended up sleeping together the whole trip. It was great. He actually started it. We even had a three way with one if his friends later who I found out he played around with before me. But today he is married with 5 kids. We have not talked in years. I guess he grew out of it and I didn’t.

We were on his bed at his house naked one time with our dicks hard as rocks and his dad came up and talked to us. We just acted like there was nothing going on. He didn’t say anything about our predicament but it sure was awkward.

Last time I saw him was when I came home from college and visited him. He was married with and was home alone babysitting their infant child. He wanted to play around and we did. After that my parents moved back to Texas and I never saw him again. I talked to his mother one time when we were back visiting but he didn’t accept a friend request in face book. I’m guessing he is hiding from his past. I did see pictures of the kids. And of course I woukd never out daddy but I guess he doesn’t know that.

 

[kgmets]

Using the elyot1 definition of sex, I was younger than eleven. But if we are using your new friends definition of "sex" as stated by former president Bill Clinton who famously said, "I didn't have sex with that woman", after receiving a blowjob from her, I was way older, actually in my late 20's.

And throughout my adult life, both in my porn preferences and in my own life, I've remained mostly an oral kind of guy!

Back then I did hear that southern Baptists did not consider oral sex to constitute sex. I imagine that President Clinton along with all teenage southern Baptist boys strongly adhered to that belief. "As a devout southern Baptist, I do not believe in any sex outside of marriage, so just suck me off instead!"

 

[kgmets]

Back then I did hear that southern Baptists did not consider oral sex to constitute sex. I imagine that President Clinton along with all teenage southern Baptist boys strongly adhered to that belief. "As a devout southern Baptist, I do not believe in any sex outside of marriage, so just suck me off instead!"

P.S. this pic which you posted appears to be two devout southern Baptists busy not having sex!

 

[Repareur]

P.S. this pic which you posted appears to be two devout southern Baptists busy not having sex!

I think you are right KG!

 

[tampa24]

Nice stories guys. haha

 

[Repareur]

P.S. this pic which you posted appears to be two devout southern Baptists busy not having sex!

Ok, KG and Tampa. Where are your stories?

 

[kgmets]

Ok, KG and Tampa. Where are your stories?

Since you asked, it's pretty vanilla. In high school and college I was in my straight jock phase (although I was checking out and patting the butts of my hot young teammates), so it was getting blown in the back seats of cars by female cheerleaders in high school and fucking them in college. It wasn't until after college that I discovered that gay guys gave better head. With the benefit of hindsight and experience, I should have tried fucking the mouth and ass of one of the hot little male cheerleaders, but I was not in that stage yet.

 

[Repareur]

Since you asked, it's pretty vanilla. In high school and college I was in my straight jock phase (although I was checking out and patting the butts of my hot young teammates), so it was getting blown in the back seats of cars by female cheerleaders in high school and fucking them in college. It wasn't until after college that I discovered that gay guys gave better head. With the benefit of hindsight and experience, I should have tried fucking the mouth and ass of one of the hot little male cheerleaders, but I was not in that stage yet.

I didn’t do the guys in high school because I was too worried they would think I was queer. The few guys who were known were made fun of. But in hind site I should have just done them all like I wanted to. Many of them had me pegged anyway. I just didn’t want them to have evidence. I lost out. There were many hot guys who came onto me. Was never mr butch athlete, I was the nerdy valedictorian. In college I met some upper class men who were out and a couple of older guys in the community who took me under their wing and showed me the ropes. Introduced me to gay bars and cruising. I was like a kid in a candy store.

When I went home from college the first time. I ran into some old high school friends who I fucked and they told me all sorts of things that went on. I discovered the cruise route in my home town that I didn’t know about. I made up for lost time. But in retrospect I wish I had of just fucked my way through high school. Most of the guys that came onto me seemed to just want a blow job. I could have helped them out. I always tried to go for their ass even in the blow job situation. It doesn’t always work but it did often enough.

KG I’m glad you finally made it over to our side. Love your stories and input.

 

[kgmets]

I didn’t do the guys in high school because I was too worried they would think I was queer. The few guys who were known were made fun of. But in hind site I should have just done them all like I wanted to. Many of them had me pegged anyway. I just didn’t want them to have evidence. I lost out. There were many hot guys who came onto me. Was never mr butch athlete, I was the nerdy valedictorian. In college I met some upper class men who were out and a couple of older guys in the community who took me under their wing and showed me the ropes. Introduced me to gay bars and cruising. I was like a kid in a candy store.

When I went home from college the first time. I ran into some old high school friends who I fucked and they told me all sorts of things that went on. I discovered the cruise route in my home town that I didn’t know about. I made up for lost time. But in retrospect I wish I had of just fucked my way through high school. Most of the guys that came onto me seemed to just want a blow job. I could have helped them out. I always tried to go for their ass even in the blow job situation. It doesn’t always work but it did often enough.

KG I’m glad you finally made it over to our side. Love your stories and input.

Rep, your life experience has clearly proven that a high school nerdy valedictorian with a big dick can be a great top as well! It's amazing how many straight bi curious high school boys badly want to do each other but are both afraid to make the first move out of mutual fear of exposure and ridicule. Even in college this can and does continue as shown by the large number of straight bi curious dudes, who drink a lot as Freshmen at college parties, get their dicks sucked and sometimes virgin butts fucked and wake up the following morning in their lovers' beds saying "thanks for letting me stay over last night. I had so much to drink that I can't remember a single thing about last night". That's called "plausible denial", and his gay buddy who just sucked and deflowered him goes along with it by just smiling and replying "glad to help out anytime you have had one too many!" I had a college experience of falling asleep at a party in a bedroom, awakened by a hot kid sucking my cock but pretending to stay asleep while he sucked the cum out of me, and he then carefully pulled my undershorts back up to where they were, so we could both plausibly pretend the following morning that nothing had happened. Also, I commend you for going for the ass when a straight kid lets you suck him. I once heard an old gay saying that, if you can get a straight boy let you suck him, then its not that difficult to get to fuck him!" The key to that is to move from sucking his dick to sucking his balls to rimming his asshole. A good rimming will make a straight boy ass crave cock, and his ass is yours. I was on the receiving end of that, when just out of college I responded to a young accountant's room for let ad, which story mikeyank edited for me and was recently published by Nifty.

 

[elyot1]

I had a college experience of falling asleep at a party in a bedroom, awakened by a hot kid sucking my cock but pretending to stay asleep while he sucked the cum out of me, and he then carefully pulled my undershorts back up to where they were, so we could both plausibly pretend the following morning that nothing had happened. Also, I commend you for going for the ass when a straight kid lets you suck him. I once heard an old gay saying that, if you can get a straight boy let you suck him, then its not that difficult to get to fuck him!" The key to that is to move from sucking his dick to sucking his balls to rimming his asshole. A good rimming will make a straight boy ass crave cock, and his ass is yours. I was on the receiving end of that, when just out of college I responded to a young accountant's room for let ad, which story mikeyank edited for me and was recently published by Nifty.

Hotn story and good advice.

 

[tampa24]

I didn’t do the guys in high school because I was too worried they would think I was queer. The few guys who were known were made fun of.

KG I’m glad you finally made it over to our side. Love your stories and input.

What Rep said! haha

I was such a late bloomer sexually that I have no interesting stories to tell of my early life. I lived in such a homophobic part of the country that I never felt that I would be physically safe if I came out. And it would have been social suicide to have been found out. I would have lost every friend I had. My family (neither immediate nor extended) would have been accepting. (Talk about the irony of feeling it necessary to hold on to friendships that gave only conditional love and support.)

After all, how deep and sincere are those friendships anyway? If these wonderful friends would possibly turn on you and attack you physically, drop you overnight like a hot potato as a friend, call you all the hurtful names in the book, and make you a pariah in your own neighborhood and school...in hindsight you're trying to hold on to a pile of sand. But still...in childhood and adolescence, the friendships of our peers and the love and support of family (however conditional on the part of others even when we were happily willing to offer them a much more unconditional love in return), seem/seemed very valuable and necessary.

I didn't come out until college. Then that was during the early onset of the plague. So I was horny as hell, but also silently terrified to have any sex that might turn out to be unsafe. And back then, in the beginning at least, we had very little idea of what was truly safe or not. Sorry to be such a downer on the subject... But that's just the way it played out for me in my early life. If I had had a fuck buddy in late childhood or high school I would have been thrilled to be getting that sexual release. But also terrified of being outed. That was just my life experience in the area I grew up in, and all of my complicated family dynamics at the time.

 

[Repareur]

What Rep said! haha

I was such a late bloomer sexually that I have no interesting stories to tell of my early life. I lived in such a homophobic part of the country that I never felt that I would be physically safe if I came out. And it would have been social suicide to have been found out. I would have lost every friend I had. My family (neither immediate nor extended) would have been accepting. (Talk about the irony of feeling it necessary to hold on to friendships that gave only conditional love and support.)

After all, how deep and sincere are those friendships anyway? If these wonderful friends would possibly turn on you and attack you physically, drop you overnight like a hot potato as a friend, call you all the hurtful names in the book, and make you a pariah in your own neighborhood and school...in hindsight you're trying to hold on to a pile of sand. But still...in childhood and adolescence, the friendships of our peers and the love and support of family (however conditional on the part of others even when we were happily willing to offer them a much more unconditional love in return), seem/seemed very valuable and necessary.

I didn't come out until college. Then that was during the early onset of the plague. So I was horny as hell, but also silently terrified to have any sex that might turn out to be unsafe. And back then, in the beginning at least, we had very little idea of what was truly safe or not. Sorry to be such a downer on the subject... But that's just the way it played out for me in my early life. If I had had a fuck buddy in late childhood or high school I would have been thrilled to be getting that sexual release. But also terrified of being outed. That was just my life experience in the area I grew up in, and all of my complicated family dynamics at the time.

Tampa, thanks for chiming in. I understand your issues in the early aids days. I’m very lucky that I came out in the late 70s when it was safe to be a slut. I remember when we first heard about it. I was traveling to NY on business then and there was a huge change in the clubs. It went from wild crazy anonymous sex in my earlier days of traveling there to people standing around depressed talking about how many friends they had lost. No body knew what caused it. We were all scared. I remember a cab driver told me he thought poppers caused it. In those days I traveled with my boyfriend or employees so I wasn’t running around having anonymous sex but I was back in Texas. My first boyfriend later died of an AIDS related brain tumor but our relationship had been over for a long time. Anyway I think being a top may have saved my life. I started using condoms as soon as they said to and before I had been using a spermicidal lube that was said to be safer. I used it just because I liked it but later they were saying it helped kill the virus.

Anyway I understand you perdicament though in the college environment you probably were pretty safe. Did you first have gay partners or were you doing straight boys at the library tea rooms? I’m guessing something peaked your interest in straight boys and got you interested in Broke Straight Boys I always liked the challenge of straight boys and met lots of gay for pay hustlers back in the day. I think that’s what got me here.

 

[tampa24]

Anyway I understand you perdicament though in the college environment you probably were pretty safe. Did you first have gay partners or were you doing straight boys at the library tea rooms? I’m guessing something peaked your interest in straight boys and got you interested in Broke Straight Boys I always liked the challenge of straight boys and met lots of gay for pay hustlers back in the day. I think that’s what got me here.

Lol Rep!

It started out as you guessed in the library tea room kind of secret, anonymous, somewhat dangerous "straight"/closeted/bi-curious campus circuit. Then eventually I couldn't maintain the denial and false hope any longer of being a "late bloomer to women" and all that b.s that we talk ourselves through sometimes. Then I finally came out to myself and stopped trying to deny being gay. Then I moved on to coming out, being out and meeting and socializing with other openly gay people on campus.

I guess for me that straight guys represent a sort of forbidden fruit that makes them especially sexually appealing to me. Likewise I've always been drawn sexually much more to the masculine and straighter looking and acting gay guys. I don't mind having friends who are more effeminate. But I'm usually not into them sexually.

 

[mikeyank]

College library "tea rooms" always turned me on but I was too scared to do anything there. I did see the drawings on the walls with magic markers with stuff like "show hard for bj" or something similar. In my college the basement bathroom in my college library has the most apparent activity. But living in NYC, I would wait until I went home for the summer to go places to meet guys for sex. But the idea of sucking str8 cock in a college library is a huge turn on to me.

 

[elyot1]

College library "tea rooms" always turned me on but I was too scared to do anything there. I did see the drawings on the walls with magic markers with stuff like "show hard for bj" or something similar. In my college the basement bathroom in my college library has the most apparent activity. But living in NYC, I would wait until I went home for the summer to go places to meet guys for sex. But the idea of sucking str8 cock in a college library is a huge turn on to me.

There were no 'show hard for bj' signs in my college men's rooms with the holes in the partitionds. We had lots of drawings of cocks and balls. There were some scribblings 'show hard' 'lick my dick' etc. I'm one...two...seven..maybe 10 or more up on you Mikeyank. We dubbed that Library Men's Room "Heaven". The one in the Engineering Building was suppposed to be really active but it was on the other side of the campus. The Men's Room in the gym was dead. Glory Ho;es were fun. Only did went there when I was still in college.

 

[Repareur]

Lol Rep!

It started out as you guessed in the library tea room kind of secret, anonymous, somewhat dangerous "straight"/closeted/bi-curious campus circuit. Then eventually I couldn't maintain the denial and false hope any longer of being a "late bloomer to women" and all that b.s that we talk ourselves through sometimes. Then I finally came out to myself and stopped trying to deny being gay. Then I moved on to coming out, being out and meeting and socializing with other openly gay people on campus.

I guess for me that straight guys represent a sort of forbidden fruit that makes them especially sexually appealing to me. Likewise I've always been drawn sexually much more to the masculine and straighter looking and acting gay guys. I don't mind having friends who are more effeminate. But I'm usually not into them sexually.

Thanks Tampa, I’m glad I sort of pegged it. I’m into the forbidden fruit aspect of it as well. We all have our “sisters” but you’re so right I like real men or at least ones who think they are to have sex with. Same here on Broke Straight Boys to watch.

 

[Repareur]

There were no 'show hard for bj' signs in my college men's rooms with the holes in the partitionds. We had lots of drawings of cocks and balls. There were some scribblings 'show hard' 'lick my dick' etc. I'm one...two...seven..maybe 10 or more up on you Mikeyank. We dubbed that Library Men's Room "Heaven". The one in the Engineering Building was suppposed to be really active but it was on the other side of the campus. The Men's Room in the gym was dead. Glory Ho;es were fun. Only did went there when I was still in college.

At my school the 6th floor library tea rooms were very busy and near them was a staircase that went to the roof. The roof door was locked but it was kind of like a stairway to no where and it was pretty private. You could disappear up there with a trick from the tea room. There was loads of cum everywhere on the steps and walls.

Near campus was a park and locals would hang out trying to get hold of some college dick. They were very busy as well. I wonder if it’s still the case on the 6th floor. I recently attended a fund raiser for the library, I should have looked. They long since closed the park and built a museum there.

 

[mikeyank]

They long since closed the park and built a museum there.

Reminds me of the old Joni Mitchell song, Rep! LOL