Thank you for the unscripted kissing Colin! We have told the former director David (and Clay also), that kissing, when or if it happens in a scene...is always hotter if it appears to happen spontaneously. Whether it's forceful kissing in the throes of sexual passion or tender kissing leading into something steamy or passionate...it comes across much better onscreen when it appears to happen naturally. It doesn't have nearly the same impact if the director says, "How 'bout if you try some kissing now?"
This scene was so good for so many reasons. You and Clay both did a great job here Colin. Since you're married and have a fair amount of sexual experience, you know the mechanics of it. (Even if here you are working with men instead of women.) Many of the amateur models on here have a fair amount of experience also. But they haven't made the leap to the change of mindset that you have.
What I liked so much here is that you are going above and beyond the mere mechanics of the sexual acts. When your only goal is to please your sexual partner and yourself, then you are in a different mindset as to what needs to happen. Chances are that a wonderful lovemaking session with your wife in your own bedroom would not be all that hot for an audience to watch on video. Even if it was immensely pleasurable for both of
you. Well, maybe a little bit hot...but I digress.
LOL
My point being though that it would not be a camera friendly interlude. Arms, legs and many other angles would block many of the most erotic sights and would therefore not capture the session properly on film in the best way. And chances are that while the sex session may be full of passion...that it may be more internalized than vocalized. And on camera, silence gives the impression of boredom or merely going through the motions. That's true even if the two sexual partners are full of love or passion for each other on a more intimate, internal level. For instance a still camera left on a dresser facing the bed might lead the viewer of said camera the impression that neither partner really enjoyed the sex at all. Even if both partners felt quite the opposite about the sexual interlude they had so happily just shared.
My point is that performing in front of a camera and doing it well requires more than just the mechanics. It requires more than just learning to drop an arm to the side so that the camera catches more of the models' anatomies. It requires that the models and director consider, What would make this sex act hot to
watch as a viewer or a voyeur?
In this kind of business you are really performing for two. You are trying both to please your fellow model or sexual partner..and you're trying to please an audience. All at the same time. Because oddly enough if you are not pleasing your sexual partner the audience will pick up on that too. It's not easy work, I'm sure. I really love the fact that you are using your active sexual imagination to think of ways to give more and more visual and vocal cues to the camera...and by extension to the audience.
You are given for instance a generic topping scene in an upcoming video... Then it's up to you and the director and of course your fellow model to ask yourselves, What would make this scene especially interesting for someone to
watch? I am so pleased to see that you really "
Get it". I can't wait to see what you come up with next!