Denny Bear
Well-known Member
Robert,you definitely read my mind! When it comes to telling people big things, such as this, I think letters give me the best chance to fully explain myself instead of getting caught in the heat of the moment and my words then become misconstrued. I'm not a stranger to writing my dad letters when I have important things to talk about either, so it wouldn't be coming out of nowhere from his standpoint.
I am working on developing the letter and a plan to send it here very soon. I'll keep you all updated!
XoXo
Rob
For what it is worth Rob I think Robert has hit the nail on the head for the best way to handle this. In a personal conversation tempers can flare and carry the topic astray. With a letter you have a captive audience and they are just about forced to hear all that you have to say without interjecting. I sincerely hope this works out for you the way you want it to. Some times these things do not and riffs can open up in relationships. Given time these things usually heal so don’t get too discouraged if you plan back fires. The important thing is to be yourself and be happy with who you are. As much as we all love our families your life belongs to you and you alone. It is completely up to you how you wish to live it. Also in your short stay here in the forum you have touched the hearts of many good people. Regardless of what happens you have a lot of good folks here to support you. Good luck, hold your head up and walk proud.
Love Ya