What's interesting to me about all of this discussion I seem to have stirred up is that there is a common refrain of "it's fantasy." But I have to ask, what exactly is the fantasy that you guys are trying to promote? If the idea is simply that you want to see a straight guy having gay sex, then I think MOST men would say (and I'm NOT claiming their view to be correct) that once a guy appears on this site, he can not be considered "straight" anymore. He doesn't even have to do anything. Just showing his face on camera on a gay porn site would be enough to brand him "gay." Many more guys would say that once a guy appears on this site and allows another guy to even touch him he can no longer be considered straight. Keep upping the male-male interaction, and more and more men would consider that guy to no longer be straight.
As a result, to me, the whole "straight guy having gay sex" fantasy is a very limiting and extremely confusing and uneven view of what the site is about. If that's really what it's all about, then no guy should appear here more than a few times (few=very small number). I doubt the site would last very long if that were the way it should be viewed.
I much prefer the idea that this site is like a project researching male views of sexual identity and sexual exploration. Why is it not acceptable for a guy to enjoy anal stimulation and STILL be straight? If a guy finds he likes anal stimulation, why can he not prefer such stimulation from a
Real Cock rather than a
Dildo and STILL be straight? Does straightness have more to do with your preferences for full relationships with others or is it just a matter of which gender you have sex with? If it's just a matter of whom you have sex with, how can a top be considered "straight" if he's having sex with men?
There is a lot more that this site could be, I think, if people could open themselves to other interpretations of what is or could be going on here. That's why I get very nervous when people make comments like "this guy is ONLY a top." Forcing roles on people necessarily limits the possibilities and makes the site significantly less interesting.
The point of my post about Paul being seen elsewhere was only in regards to him not being a virgin. I found the idea of him being a virgin intriguing from the "sexual exploration" standpoint. When I saw him elsewhere, that intrigue disappeared. True, the other scene may have been filmed AFTER his
Broke Straight Boys scenes. I don't know. I don't subscribe to that other site...I happened to catch the scene in another "collector" site which shows snippets of scenes from various porn sites. I have not seen Paul bottom anywhere else, and that is what I am most interested in. For me, that fantasy has not been broken, since I can still consider him to be a virgin in the sense of having never been on the receiving end of anal sex. But I will lose interest in him as a model here if that never happens, just as I have others who refused to develop further, and insisted on claiming to be "straight" while plugging, sucking, or getting sucked by every guy on the site.