mikeyank
Long time forumite
I most certainly agree that "labels are for clothes, not people", when we are dealing with real people in the real world. From this forum alone, I know many guys here who were formerly married to women, many with children. I also know of two men who had or still have long term relationships with men who identify themselves as "straight", even though they are in committed relationships with another man, so obviously there is no "label" that clearly identifies people as gay or straight.No fuss Jon. I follow enough threads to know that, Mark has said in the past, it's not always easy to tell where a model "fits" in the realm at first. There have been several models throughout the history of this site since and before I've joined, who were obviously "better fits" for one site more than the other. There have been many models who started out on College Dudes and have switched over to Broke Straight Boys and vice versa. There have also been many threads about models who people felt "did not portray the Broke STRAIGHT Boy" motif and received negative comments too! My thread was merely saying, Jaden was, or is.. now on the site that better show cases his abilities to perform scenes with another guy! This to me, is a good thing! I agree, Labels are for clothes too, but viewers don't always see things the same way, sometimes.
However in the context of this site, whose name is Broke Straight Boys, the "label" does apply. I joined because of my fetish for seeing believably straight guys performing gay sex acts. And so in this context, I feel that the "label" of straight does matter. It may not be real, but I am buying into a fantasy, and to my sensibilities it is necessary for the site to be as consistent with that concept as possible.