After I made this post I thought about a guy who fit into both categories. When Jordan first did his solo, he was the most polite kid you could imagine. If memory serves me correctly in his solo, he called David Sir. Ultra polite. But when he got into sex, especially in his two scenes where he teamed up with Mike Robbins to double team both Preston & Scott, he turned into a total bad boy.
Some members of the forum at the time were shocked how the polite kid with angelic looks could be so dirty when it came to fucking guys!!! I personally didn't mind one bit. He became an ultra hot bad boy!!!!
Like I said, and real gentleman most of the time, but between the sheets a whole different story...