Why do ugly guys hit on cute guys

[curgeo12]

why is it that ugly guys think they should get all the play, like there are the one's that are interesting and funny. I think they always want to make it seem like they have it going on and are doing big things actually I think it's funny when a ugly guy hits on me it seems like there is a challenge going on but its up to the cute guy to keep his cool just play along, all in all ugly people make good friends not boyfriends.

 

[slimvintage]

why is it that ugly guys think they should get all the play, like there are the one's that are interesting and funny. I think they always want to make it seem like they have it going on and are doing big things actually I think it's funny when a ugly guy hits on me it seems like there is a challenge going on but its up to the cute guy to keep his cool just play along, all in all ugly people make good friends not boyfriends.

It depends on what you mean by ugly. A guy with a nice shape and a plain face is at least as hot to me as a Brad Pitt type, which I guess is where you are lookswise.

As an ugly guy myself, although with a pretty well turned out bod, I never take cuties for granted, nor have any preconceptions about how I expect them to respond to me.

You should go through your archives and pick a pic to upload as your avatar. We like cute guys here on the forum. Welcome, don't be a stranger.

 

[curgeo12]

first off just cause you have a nice body dosent mean a thing, it basicly makes you in shape, there is a fine line between ugly and good looking guys and ugly people know this. thats why you say looks are not everything, of course they are were are you livin these days. now acting a certain way cause you look good is ugly ill admit that, but when comes to just looks i think ugly people should stop being so cocky and weird is not our fault, know your place and dont think i waint going to add a pic

 

[Denny Bear]

I have a similar issue with some shallow minded people who presume themselves to be much better looking then they really are. They spend most of their time gazing into mirrors only looking at themselves instead by trying to see the beauty in others by looking into their soul. Only when you have done this can you fully understand the degree of a persons ugliness or beauty.

 

[JLipps4u]

"Know your place"?? How many black men have their avatars on this site? So, just because most of the membership appears white, does that mean you should " know your place", and stay out of the forums?
Just because most of the membership is comprised of men, does that mean women should "know their place" and stay out of this predominantly gay site?
Your statement is so biggoted and prejudiced on so many levels, it defies reason!
One of the oldest axioms in the modern world explains that "opposites attract". That would certainly explain how we often see couples that we might consider as mismatched.
Why is it you rarely ever see beautiful people paired up? I know first hand, that beautiful people often chose a lesser attractive partner. Why? Who knows, perhaps they want to be superior to their partner. Perhaps they worry that an equallly beautiful person may catch someone else's eye and be stolen away.
I can tell you this. Truly beautiful people see beyond physical attractivness and treat people (even ugly people) with all the respect and compassion that we should show another human being. That is a beautiful person.
You must have a magic mirror that tells you that you are so desirable. Because honey, that avatar you posted will never make the cover of People magazine!
I was once a beautiful person, with a fabulous gymnast body. Now, I am old, balding, and fat! The ravages of life and time have humbled me, as you will one day know as well. God help you.

 

[silvercamel]

why is it that ugly guys think they should get all the play, like there are the one's that are interesting and funny. I think they always want to make it seem like they have it going on and are doing big things actually I think it's funny when a ugly guy hits on me it seems like there is a challenge going on but its up to the cute guy to keep his cool just play along, all in all ugly people make good friends not boyfriends.

I have finally run into a post that I don't know how to deal with. Are you telling me that you consider yourself cute? Your attitude transforms you from cute to ugly.

 

[slimvintage]

I think he just has a pet peeve: plain faced guys who hit on him all the time. In trying to get this across, he expressed himself really badly. But I've more or less got the gist: he'd just like for a hottie or two to show some interest for a change. He has every reason in the world to think that he can compete in the beauty contest, it's just that when he opens his mouth he puts his foot in it. Try being nice to EVERYONE, even the "ugly" guys, and the ones you're attracted to will notice. That's when it will all turn around for you.

To sum up: the hotties are like everyone else, they steer clear of a prejudiced, snobbish, stuck-up guy with a chip on his shoulder too. Try some nice.

 

[carking1]

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. And, curge012, I'm beholding you an asshole. Who do you think you are waltzing in here, declaring yourself to be cute (I also once lived in a house with no mirrors), and calling people ugly? You have opened up a whole can of worms, and I'm not certain that intellectually you are prepared to handle it.

Ben Franklin said it best, "It is better to keep your mouth shut and appear ignorant than to open it and remove all doubt." Since your post, none of us have any doubt.

You have more issues than People magazine. First of all, you can't spell, you can't put together a complete sentence, and your grammar is attrocious. If that is your picture on your profile, you shouldn't have too much of a problem being hit on by ugly guys. In case you haven't noticed, you're not really that attractive, yourself. And your ego and conceit push you over the edge into uglydom.

If you are one of those people who just like drama, and you posted this bit of drivel to stir up some shit, get ready, cause if I know my fellow posters, you are getting ready to catch more shit than the New York sewer system on Thanksgiving.

What you have succeeded in doing by exposing your lack of intellegence is to set your race back about 40 years and your gender back to the days of the cave man. When you walk, do your knuckles drag the ground?

I'll sum it up. You are no better than ANYONE else, and your attitude puts you a distant second. If you don't want to be hit on by "ugly" people, stay home, put a bag over your head and masturbate.

And, no need for you to respond to me. You'll be surprised what the ignore button can do to an idiot.

 

[tucsonjayce]

Whoa Bessie!!!!

Gentlemen and Ladies:

Yes I said Gentlemen and Ladies. Hint Hint Hint. I've come out of lurking because of this thread. Most assuredly we can discuss this without starting to lob around some pretty negative terms.

I'm with Slim. The original post could have been expressed differently, as could have the subsequent posts.

Why are "ugly" (I guess that means physical appearance) guys interested in the good looking ones. Duh!! Most people on the planet want an attractive mate. That being said, what goes for attractive is in the eyes of the beholder.

Why do GL guys feel so put upon by the attentions of those who they think are "ugly"? One possible explanation is an attitude of I am not in your league. Now if one reads that and doesn't see the absurdity of the statement, then there is probably no hope for them. But here is an alternative view - why not take it as a compliment that these guys are attracted to the GL guy (whomever he is)?

If the GL guy doesn't want the attention then there are nice things to say to say no. And BTW, if the GL guy is bemoaning the attention of "ugly" guys then how can that person say that they make good friends? The GL guy can always go to an S&M bar. Stand and Model. Go look good and go leave feeling empty.

Why do the ugly guys think they are all that? Because they know who they are and they are not their outward appearance. Because of attitudes in our society that favor the GL people, they have learned to value themselves for what they have to offer.

Both sides can be "guilty" of the same sentiments directed at different parties. What we need is love and understanding, right Jayman?

I have been blessed to have had sex and relationships with GL guys and not so GL guys. We enjoyed each others company emotionally, physically and mentally. The wrapping didn't mean very much.

All this is my humble opinion. There is no intent here to single out any one person for anything other than discussion.

Peace, love, and joy,

Jayce

 

[slimvintage]

Gentlemen and Ladies:

Yes I said Gentlemen and Ladies. Hint Hint Hint. I've come out of lurking because of this thread. Most assuredly we can discuss this without starting to lob around some pretty negative terms.

I'm with Slim. The original post could have been expressed differently, as could have the subsequent posts.

Why are "ugly" (I guess that means physical appearance) guys interested in the good looking ones. Duh!! Most people on the planet want an attractive mate. That being said, what goes for attractive is in the eyes of the beholder.

Why do GL guys feel so put upon by the attentions of those who they think are "ugly"? One possible explanation is an attitude of I am not in your league. Now if one reads that and doesn't see the absurdity of the statement, then there is probably no hope for them. But here is an alternative view - why not take it as a compliment that these guys are attracted to the GL guy (whomever he is)?

If the GL guy doesn't want the attention then there are nice things to say to say no. And BTW, if the GL guy is bemoaning the attention of "ugly" guys then how can that person say that they make good friends? The GL guy can always go to an S&M bar. Stand and Model. Go look good and go leave feeling empty.

Why do the ugly guys think they are all that? Because they know who they are and they are not their outward appearance. Because of attitudes in our society that favor the GL people, they have learned to value themselves for what they have to offer.

Both sides can be "guilty" of the same sentiments directed at different parties. What we need is love and understanding, right Jayman?

I have been blessed to have had sex and relationships with GL guys and not so GL guys. We enjoyed each others company emotionally, physically and mentally. The wrapping didn't mean very much.

All this is my humble opinion. There is no intent here to single out any one person for anything other than discussion.

Peace, love, and joy,

Jayce

Peace, love and joy = Jason

Thanks for coming out from behind to intervene

 

[joninliverton]

why is it that ugly guys think they should get all the play, like there are the one's that are interesting and funny. I think they always want to make it seem like they have it going on and are doing big things actually I think it's funny when a ugly guy hits on me it seems like there is a challenge going on but its up to the cute guy to keep his cool just play along, all in all ugly people make good friends not boyfriends.

Take a look in the mirror dude and you may well answer your question. With an attitude like yours I can see you been lonely and bitter all your life.

The great thing about this site, it's models and it's forum members, is that we embrace everyone whether they be a 5 star hottie or a not so good looking dude or nowadays a dudess.

People with such a shallow attitude like yourself are here only to distrupt and cause hurt, so I would suggest you think very carefully before you post such drivel again.

 

[joninliverton]

Gentlemen and Ladies:

Yes I said Gentlemen and Ladies. Hint Hint Hint. I've come out of lurking because of this thread. Most assuredly we can discuss this without starting to lob around some pretty negative terms.

I'm with Slim. The original post could have been expressed differently, as could have the subsequent posts.

Why are "ugly" (I guess that means physical appearance) guys interested in the good looking ones. Duh!! Most people on the planet want an attractive mate. That being said, what goes for attractive is in the eyes of the beholder.

Why do GL guys feel so put upon by the attentions of those who they think are "ugly"? One possible explanation is an attitude of I am not in your league. Now if one reads that and doesn't see the absurdity of the statement, then there is probably no hope for them. But here is an alternative view - why not take it as a compliment that these guys are attracted to the GL guy (whomever he is)?

If the GL guy doesn't want the attention then there are nice things to say to say no. And BTW, if the GL guy is bemoaning the attention of "ugly" guys then how can that person say that they make good friends? The GL guy can always go to an S&M bar. Stand and Model. Go look good and go leave feeling empty.

Why do the ugly guys think they are all that? Because they know who they are and they are not their outward appearance. Because of attitudes in our society that favor the GL people, they have learned to value themselves for what they have to offer.

Both sides can be "guilty" of the same sentiments directed at different parties. What we need is love and understanding, right Jayman?

I have been blessed to have had sex and relationships with GL guys and not so GL guys. We enjoyed each others company emotionally, physically and mentally. The wrapping didn't mean very much.

All this is my humble opinion. There is no intent here to single out any one person for anything other than discussion.

Peace, love, and joy,

Jayce

What's all this coming out of lurking bit all the time. Do you have some kinda authority nowadays that we know not of.

Carking is absolutely 100 pc correct and I would rather see posts like his than politically correct drivel than the above.

 

[curgeo12]

Well i dont come off on the wrong foot but the shoe is off as much as i would like not to admit something like that its true and maybe all the ugly people are coming to grips that its probly true that they do act like that, yes ugly people do show themselves to the world with additude and confidence but to me its all an act its a false scence of self worthieness i think and its sad that some needs to act like that to get attention i have never not talked to someone cause they were ugly im just not that guy and i dont spend all my time in a mirror i dont need to always remind myself that im better looking than alot of other people out there its not hard to see that there are alot of less than average looking people out there in this world im not being an ahole but come on i know some of you have ugly friends right know that are the most hateful people you know i mean even out of my friends there is the friend that dosent look like the rest but is still never the less above average looking and they seem to have have the worst additudes i dont know what it is it just seems like they will in one way or another show you they are better at least better at something im not saying im the best looking guy but compared to other guys out there im alot better looking this is just something that i know i dont use to get me places or things like some other good looking people i know im really a nice guy but i am tierd of ugly people and the way they ,are and it seems like they always wanna test you and when i say test i mean like emailing you saying hey do they really think they are going to get a responce from me is this in some way a validation to themselves that there not that ugly i dont get it but i wish it would stop.

 

[Denny Bear]

Well i dont come off on the wrong foot but the shoe is off as much as i would like not to admit something like that............

do they really think they are going to get a responce from me is this in some way a validation to themselves that there not that ugly i dont get it but i wish it would stop.

Curgeo12 you poor, poor misguided young man. I sincerely feel sorry for you sir as it must be terrible to pass though life with such a seriously corrupted set of values. After your first post I didn't think it possible to dig yourself any deeper into a hole but I see you have proven me wrong. This forum is open to anyone no matter what their beliefs and I for one would never wish to change that but sir if you haven't noticed your not making many friends here. If your considering chatting here on the forum as a pleasant past time might I suggest another hobby. Have you considered knitting? I highly recommend you spend some time soul searching and to possibly seek some counseling. In the mean time if your thinking of making another attempt to explain yourself, please don't!

 

[SayWhat]

Okay this has to be the most laughable thread I've encountered in a long time.

I'm not calling myself hot by any means, but I'm fully aware that if I dance like a slut in the middle of a gay bar, I'm going to be approached by guys. I also know that 90% of them won't be my type. Sorry, but that's just the way life works. If you feel that your amazingly good looks are such a burden, stay inside. I doubt your conceited attitude will be missed by many people.

And to say that confidence shouldn't be shown by "ugly" people is simply moronic. I'd fuck an average looking cocky guy ten times sooner than a great looking asshole.

And for the record, please don't mistake the "amazingly good looks" comment as a compliment.

Oh. And also for the record, the key with a little dot on it can be used to insert a period or two within a wall of text. It does wonders for readability.

 

[scorpio]

Well if you watched my interview, you all know what I think about cockiness. Cockiness is the real ugliness!

 

[carking1]

curgeo12, you need to understand that ALL men are hot, there are no exceptions. You just happen to be in the bottom 2%.

Instead of spending time on the computer trying to validate all of your insecurities, try picking up an English textbook and learning to compose complete sentences. If you work on your intellect, perhaps you could attract what you would consider a higher quality type of man. If you speak like you type, you obviously come across as someone not too bright. If you were straight, and your girlfriend missed that many periods, you would have a lot of baby's mamas running around out there.

A lot of us here in the forums look forward to new posts to entertain, enlighten and inform. You have proven in two or three posts that you have nothing to add to this. I suggest you give up. You cannot possibly win this one, you just don't have it in you.

 

[mikeyank]

I've been amused by this thread. I think that some folks are getting riled up by curgeo12 for no reason. I don't even know if he truly believes what he has been writing.

From the face pic he added, after Slim challenged him to show "his goods", he is a reasonably attractive young man, who probably has a nice body. If he is "putting us on" to get a reaction, it has worked. If he is serious, then he is a "damaged" young man with some serious issues of self worth, that he has "transferred" to what he perceives to be the "ugly people" of the world.

But I would suggest that none of us take him all that seriously, as his opinions are either designed to create turmoil or he has his own personal problems, and I pity him.

But I enjoy hearing all points of view, including people who I think may be asshole's themselves. That is why I occasionally tune into Fox Cable news and watch folks like Glenn Beck, or Bill O'Reilly, as I find it amusing watching misguided, but passionate folks spewing their rhetoric.

So, I have no problem if curgeo12 continues posting on the forum. I enjoy hearing from all, including those whom I perceive to be the "wacko's" out there. In fact I would love to have him do a 10 random facts about you piece. I'd like to know if he considers himself gay or bi, and what attracts him to this site. He is certainly an unusual young man with some very off beat thoughts, and I'm curious as to what makes him tick.

But I do agree that if curgeo12 continues to post that he use some periods and breaks down his rambling thoughts into somewhat coherent paragraphs.

 

[jimgym69]

why is it that ugly guys think they should get all the play, like there are the one's that are interesting and funny. I think they always want to make it seem like they have it going on and are doing big things actually I think it's funny when a ugly guy hits on me it seems like there is a challenge going on but its up to the cute guy to keep his cool just play along, all in all ugly people make good friends not boyfriends.

Uh.........so you think you're handsome and hot? Sorry.......you must have put up the wrong photo. Your attitude makes you UGLY!

 

[carking1]

Uh.........so you think you're handsome and hot? Sorry.......you must have put up the wrong photo. Your attitude makes you UGLY!

jimgym69, that's pretty harsh. Try this: Put his picture up on your screen. Look at it from across the street with one eye closed, and he's OK. Don't be so mean. LOL