Why do straight guys do it???

[rickbell19]

Who here has???? I have been with a few of my straight friends in bed since I was like 11. Always guys I have known most of my life and are best freinds. But it was the right moment, both horned up, we had a great time and never spoke about it. Two of my straight buds I was with many times and we both enjoyed it. I know for a FACT none of them had before or since then slept with another guy. Out of the six guys, 3 are married now. We still get together, have a great time at parties, sports, diving etc, but have never spoken a word about it. I have never been paid nor do I want to... ( yeah I have been offered a bunch of times, sorry...NO)

Anyone here have real life stories???? Is is all JUST about the money??

Ricky

 

[bigslim69]

only some of what you wrote here makes sense

 

[joninliverton]

Rick, I don't understand what you are getting at. You refer to sex you've had with your straight friends then diverse to chat about getting paid for sex. Please explain

 

[juanjo]

 

[BSBPaul]

i think he is asking if straight guys have been with anither guy just for fun, not "gay for pay" i guess..and thats really interesting..now i have to ask, how many of you on here are actually straight men who enjoy boy-boy action or the same for women, why is it that you enioy it?

 

[bobbity]

i think he is asking if straight guys have been with anither guy just for fun, not "gay for pay" i guess..and thats really interesting..now i have to ask, how many of you on here are actually straight men who enjoy boy-boy action or the same for women, why is it that you enioy it?

To be quite honest, I find the idea of one man submitting to another in a sexual way very, very arousing. Very dominant top+incredibly submissive bottom=orgasms all over the place. I know it's not the same for everyone, but that's why I get into guy/guy action. I like Broke Straight Boys because it gives the illusion of these guys doing something they're not really keen on doing (i.e. having sex with other men) but in the face of financial hardships, they turn to porn. And we viewers often get to see their "first" interactions with another guy, which to me is a huge turn on. So yeah. Hot stuff.

 

[juanjo]

I have been gay all my life. When I was 19 and 20 I briefly experimented with women and decided that sexually it really was not my thing. Over the course of my life I have met straight guys who for one reason or another wanted to or were willing to engage in sex with another man. Near as I can figure out some were just curious, some were trying to get something out of me - cash, housing or some other advantage, some were straight up street hustlers and some were just horny and lacking anything else available were not adverse to having sex with another guy. There may have been a charity ball or two in there as well.

 

[cumrag27]

Strange that you should ask?

i think he is asking if straight guys have been with anither guy just for fun, not "gay for pay" i guess..and thats really interesting..now i have to ask, how many of you on here are actually straight men who enjoy boy-boy action or the same for women, why is it that you enioy it?

Dear Paul,

Since earliest recorded history, mankind of all persuasions and descriptions have had an irreistable urge to plug any open orfice with their dick whenever presented with the least possible opportunity. It is in our most basic of human impulses, encoded in our DNA, and just like waiting around for the other shoe to drop, plugging holes completes our evolutionary "raison d'être!" I imagine our semen is the equivalent of mortar that binds us all together in a whole that is Life! Ain't it just beautiful! (By that I mean our evolutionary destiny!)


Just sayin',



Stimpy

 

[rickbell19]

Hey guys

Yeah sorry for being vague about what I wrote above. Long and busy day and I didn't have my brain all the way in gear!

I was trying to ask why straight guys will have sex with another guy. Is it just being curious for the most part? I know some do it because they need the money but even then, they are a ton of ways to earn money and not have to suck cock or do anal. It may be a quick way to make cash but do you think most "gay for pay" guys do it because deep inside they have that desire or are curious?? Lets face it, there are thousands of straight guys on earth who have sex for the first time with another guy and get paid nothing. And only a few hundred that get paid $500 bucks or more for a simple BJ.

With me it was my buds mostly being curious. But two were long time guys my age and we loved each other like brothers. Each of the two were separately going through some horiffic things at the time in their life. And they wanted/needed someone who loved them to be with them for my warmth, love and support and be away from family, friends. girlfriends and all the BS causing their pain. We took off and went camping or whatever to get away. And it was amazing warm tender sex that we repeated many times for over a year. But slowly all of our talks ,warmth and passion together were able to slow down and end the hurt and pain as we worked through the situation and they got back on their feet. Today we are still best of friends and will most likely never share sex again. But they each loved it at the time and thanked me for sharing my soul and body. This was when I was 17 to 19 btw. Now I am 24

I don't know, the more I think about this it was a screwed up post.... sorry guys

 

[joninliverton]

Thanks for clarifying your thread Rick. I guess the answer to the straight guys doing it for curiosity like your buddies did, is exactly that, curiosity. Straight guys who do it for money are probably broke (like the guys on this site) but they could also be curious but they're boxing clever and getting paid too.

 

[mikeyank]

Thanks for clarifying your thread Rick. I guess the answer to the straight guys doing it for curiosity like your buddies did, is exactly that, curiosity. Straight guys who do it for money are probably broke (like the guys on this site) but they could also be curious but they're boxing clever and getting paid too.

My belief has always been that with straight guys who do it for money, the money is often an excuse for them in their own minds to try something that they have a desire to do, but the rationalization is that they are only doing it for cash.

As I've pointed out in the past, no matter how desperate I may have been for money in my life, having sex with a female was never an option for me, just as for a male Kinsey 0 (exclusively heterosexual), having sex with a guy is not within their realm either.

 

[joninliverton]

My belief has always been that with straight guys who do it for money, the money is often an excuse for them in their own minds to try something that they have a desire to do, but the rationalization is that they are only doing it for cash.

As I've pointed out in the past, no matter how desperate I may have been for money in my life, having sex with a female was never an option for me, just as for a male Kinsey 0 (exclusively heterosexual), having sex with a guy is not within their realm either.

Me too - fish has been off the menu since I was 14 lol

 

[cumrag27]

Nice to finally get to meet you

Hey guys

Yeah sorry for being vague about what I wrote above. Long and busy day and I didn't have my brain all the way in gear!

I was trying to ask why straight guys will have sex with another guy. Is it just being curious for the most part? I know some do it because they need the money but even then, they are a ton of ways to earn money and not have to suck cock or do anal. It may be a quick way to make cash but do you think most "gay for pay" guys do it because deep inside they have that desire or are curious?? Lets face it, there are thousands of straight guys on earth who have sex for the first time with another guy and get paid nothing. And only a few hundred that get paid $500 bucks or more for a simple BJ.

With me it was my buds mostly being curious. But two were long time guys my age and we loved each other like brothers. Each of the two were separately going through some horiffic things at the time in their life. And they wanted/needed someone who loved them to be with them for my warmth, love and support and be away from family, friends. girlfriends and all the BS causing their pain. We took off and went camping or whatever to get away. And it was amazing warm tender sex that we repeated many times for over a year. But slowly all of our talks ,warmth and passion together were able to slow down and end the hurt and pain as we worked through the situation and they got back on their feet. Today we are still best of friends and will most likely never share sex again. But they each loved it at the time and thanked me for sharing my soul and body. This was when I was 17 to 19 btw. Now I am 24

I don't know, the more I think about this it was a screwed up post.... sorry guys

Dear Rickbell,

The scenario you just outlined was precisely what I had hoped and prayed long before preceding to my first sexual experience with another guy during college. I never understood why this arrangement had to be "the exception" rather than more commonly experienced by all guys gay or straight. It always seemed so well within one's reach(no pun intended). Because of my growing up as an "outsider" in my community, having only a few childhood friends, I missed out totally on those younger spontaneous opportunities that others so readily found just for the asking, to try things on for size while not knowing beforehand what the HELL they were doing. Experimentation was the "license" to try things out without suffering the condemnation of one's peers. Childhood is a time in one's life where expressing real love is rarely realized and often, is denied just to save face and a "man's man"!

In answer to your question, most sexual encounters is really all about the "SEXUAL ORGASM", which discriminates little strictly over the sexual apparatus they were awarded at birth! With all the raging hormones running throughout every inch of each guy's body, most guys simply want some relief.

Even years later, those special shared moments are still figuring into to their fantasy life, despite that they might never be willing to admit it. It is something one never forgets! Just realize you were blessed early on with sharing their openness just as they were blessed by your openness, as well! Society has taught them to not relive the past, which is their own personal loss. You are a beautiful person and realize your many gifts you were given early on were meant to be enjoyed for all that they were worth. What a wonderful way to have given them your unconditional love and support, seeing them safely through their tough times! That is the definition of being a friend, don't you think?

Nice talking with you Rick! Don't be such a mystery in the future!



Sincerely,



Stimpy

 

[erikthbod]

Looking back over my sex life I have probably had more sex with presumably straight guys than I have had with gay guys. Don't ask why ... because I am not sure. It just happened that way. It is what it is. Oh, and I have never paid for or been paid for sex. Have I been with hustlers.... yes but they didn't want any pay... they just wanted to "nut" and I was at the right place at the right time. One hustler and I would get together about every other week for about 2 years. Also there was this straight dude that after our first time, he would come back to see me over and over for about 5 years. It ended when I moved to a different city.

 

[rickbell19]

Stimpy;

Hey thank you for your warm and caring comments about me. I like to think and in fact I know I have a great heart and I am 100% loyal to those I share trust with. My Mom told me many times when I was a little kid on through high school that you will have many friends in life, but will only have maybe a handful of "true friends" in life, and that I will know who they are. She was right and I hope I have a least a few more in my life ahead! Thanks again for your kind words!
Have a super day!

Hugs,
Ricky

 

[rickbell19]

Thank you to all so far who have replied to my post. I get where you are coming from and it supports much of how I feel inside about this.
Hope to read more,

Hugs to all,
Ricky

 

[Beth]

i think he is asking if straight guys have been with anither guy just for fun, not "gay for pay" i guess..and thats really interesting..now i have to ask, how many of you on here are actually straight men who enjoy boy-boy action or the same for women, why is it that you enioy it?

Steve, my husband asks me the same thing; just happened our daughter was nearby too, without hesitation both of us gals chimed, "more dicks and no vaginas!" Shit that girl makes me feel so maternal!

 

[BSBGraham]

Who here has???? I have been with a few of my straight friends in bed since I was like 11. Always guys I have known most of my life and are best freinds. But it was the right moment, both horned up, we had a great time and never spoke about it. Two of my straight buds I was with many times and we both enjoyed it. I know for a FACT none of them had before or since then slept with another guy. Out of the six guys, 3 are married now. We still get together, have a great time at parties, sports, diving etc, but have never spoken a word about it. I have never been paid nor do I want to... ( yeah I have been offered a bunch of times, sorry...NO)

Anyone here have real life stories???? Is is all JUST about the money??

Ricky

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I actually think some straight guys would do things with other straight guys. Doesn't label them as gay, they just like to have fun with a dude here and there and get away with it ha. Nothing wrong with that haha. TO each their own. LOL. Personally, it's about the cash bro. When you need some you try anything and everything to get what you need to move on.

 

[BSBGraham]

My belief has always been that with straight guys who do it for money, the money is often an excuse for them in their own minds to try something that they have a desire to do, but the rationalization is that they are only doing it for cash.

As I've pointed out in the past, no matter how desperate I may have been for money in my life, having sex with a female was never an option for me, just as for a male Kinsey 0 (exclusively heterosexual), having sex with a guy is not within their realm either.

Yeah, its true that guys would do it for the quick buck, but I'm sure they would mess around with their other friends just for the fun of it. Doesn't mean their gay, they just like to have fun. I know some dudes haha. But I think they all rather do it for the cash.

 

[joninliverton]

I actually think some straight guys would do things with other straight guys. Doesn't label them as gay, they just like to have fun with a dude here and there and get away with it ha. Nothing wrong with that haha. TO each their own. LOL. Personally, it's about the cash bro. When you need some you try anything and everything to get what you need to move on.

Listen dude, if you have sex with another guy you are at least bisexual, just by the nature of the meaning of the word. Otherwise we will have to reinvent the meaning of straight.