mikeyank
Long time forumite
I have been to NY, the mid west and as far as California. I do not remember ever having a rude encounter in all my travels. Maybe it is because I am a chatter bug. My wife used to hate to send me to the store for a couple of things because I would not return for over an hour. The reason was that I would spend so much time conversing with people at the store. My daughter has even complained that she doesn't like going anywhere with me 'cause I have to talk to every body. haha! I am still that way and will not change one ounce of my character. I live alone and the world is my company. I just love people. There is a homeless man that hangs out from time to time at the supermarket where I shop. Whenever I see him I hand him a dollar bill. This past Christmas I gave him a five and wished him a Merry Christmas. He told me, "Bless you, Brother." Through short conversations with him I learned he too is a Veteran as I am.
I could go on and on but I think you get the gist of who I am and where I'm coming from. Thanks for all your stories.
I appreciate both of your comments, as a born and bred New York City guy, living here for my entire life except four years at college in upstate New York. Having been to a few other cities and small towns in my life, I find that basically, people are people, no matter where I meet them. Of course the logistics of people walking in midtown Manhattan during the business day does not call for a smile and a greeting to everyone you encounter, but I find that on an individual basis, we are just as nice, or rude as people everywhere else are.I can relate, I've been from Coast to Coast and parts in between also. I tend to greet people with a smile, make eye contact, say hello and most always get a pleasant response! I am a great listener too, and often find myself "listening" to someone in the grocery store or waiting in a line somewhere, who just needs to share! It can make my day sometimes, just having that positive human exchange!