...but I am not a fan of anal sex in my porn or real life, so perhaps I just don't get the whole attraction of inserting objects in one's anus.
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Hi Mikey. It's definitely something you get or don't. But you have to figure that people wouldn't do it unless it was extremely enjoyable. If I were to hazard a guess though, it would be that that you don't see the attraction because you probably just haven't had the right experience yet.
When I was younger and new to sex in general, I didn't see the appeal to anal sex either. I had tried it several times - both as top and as bottom - and I just really didn't enjoy it. Of the two, I would have to say that I liked topping better, but I wasn't really into either one. But then something strange/cool happened: I met someone who actually knew how to do it.
His name was Keith. He was a total mess in other regards and the relationship didn't last very long, but the boy knew how to fuck. I decided to let Keith top me because he really wanted to do it. I wasn't all that eager but I was into him and I figured I could deal with it.
All the guy used for lube was spit. He didn't wear a condom (I'm not advocating that, but this was in the days just before "safe" sex.) He used a finger, then a few to get me ready. When he slipped it in, I was completely surprised because it didn't hurt - at all. I don't know how he managed that because Keith was not a small guy. He was at least 8 inches long and he was thick. For it not to hurt (even a little bit) was a completely new experience.
Once he was in and got going, he hit my prostate. It was like flipping a switch. Waves of sensation just started pulsing through me. Everything else just sort of faded away because all I could concentrate on was that. I can't even begin to describe it, but anyone who has experienced it knows exactly what I'm talking about. I still can't believe there was no pain (except the sore spot on my head from where I kept banging it into the headboard.) I can honestly say it was the best sex I've ever had in my life. Too bad the guy was such a loser otherwise.
What I can say is that, if you haven't had an experience like that, it's not surprising that you're not really into anal sex. IMOHO, without such an experience, you haven't really HAD anal sex. I hope that some day you do. In fact, I hope that everyone has at least one experience like that in their life because it was worth it.
Hey Johnny,
That was actually hot to read about Keith and his thick eight inch cock and the pleasure it brought you. I am obviously well aware of prostate stimulation and how many men love bottoming.
I bottomed for two guys, two or three times with each. Both were with guys who I was going out with at the time. I did it in both cases to please someone who I cared about. Luckily for me, neither was bigger than six inches.
It was okay, not painful, but I did not love it, and obviously neither Kirt, nor Robin were as skilled as your Keith was. Then with the AIDS era beginning, I considered myself fortunate not to crave getting fucked, as that became the primary way of spreading the virus.
I am open minded enough to recognize that anal sex and play is an extremely popular form of sex in the gay community. I'm just saying that it is not my thing, and so a scene involving toys does not turn me on, not to say that it isn't cool for others to enjoy.
