R.I.P Riley/StraightCurious94

[Ty.d94]

At Midnight November 08 2012, I had a phone call from Riley's mother stated that she had found Riley's car near a cliff while walking the dog around 10pm November 07 2012 she went to inspect his car and the door was unlocked with a note left on the drivers seat the note was of suicide she had found her son washed up along the beach Riley had drowned himself, life obviously got too tough for him it is so sad right when I though his life was going well just 3 weeks after he had moved to Southed-On-Sea this has now happened we all thought his life was back on track he never did get into drugs but I guess having no friends around him and issues with family got too much.

He was a true friend and I shall miss him dearly, some of you will call him a coward and such for killing himself instead of dealing with his life well you try living with a Father in Prison a mother that hits you and tells you she hates you and that u were a mistake almost every day the only people in your life that u were close to were your Grandparents and friends and then u are taken away from them work gets hectic and u have no life other than work and family no escape from the bad you know it is never going to get any better but instead of using his money and moving away himself for a better life he wanted to stay with his mom hope things would get better evidentially they never did, I myself don't think I could have coped with everything he went through.

I will never forget Riley and I know he hasn't been on the forums in a while so someone of u he has technically already said goodbye to but he liked the forums and everyone that spoken to him on here so on his behalf I shall say farewell from him to all of you.

 

[Beth]

Thank you Ty for letting us know. This is such a horrific example of someone without parental support. I will miss '94, he was always honest, and very funny. I don't know what to say; why do parents fuck up their children? Why is there not some "test" you should have to pass in order to be able to be a parent...children are such a gift! I will remember you, Riley!

 

[Ms. Kianna]

This is heartbreaking news, and no words can express how people feel about this kind of loss. It is not only sad to see parents, that do not parent, but also that kids don't feel that they have anywhere else to turn when their parents fail them.

My heart goes out to you Ty, and everyone else mourning the loss of Riley. He will be missed.

 

[grace17]

So very, very sad...

RIP Riley, and know you're in my thoughts Ty.

 

[rrhill]

This is very sad news. Most people choose death, because life hurts too much, not because they want to die.

May Straightcurious rest in peace. My condolences Ty.

 

[another1]

words cannot express the sadness i feel and sorrow i feel for your lose!
may he rest in peace, he is in my thoughts and prayers!

 

[jstwicked]

That really breaks my heart.
I'm sending out good vibes and hope he's happier the next time around.
~Jstwicked

 

[rrhill]

And Ty,

Whenever things get too much, come talk to us. You are not alone, we are here with you.

 

[joninliverton]

At Midnight November 08 2012, I had a phone call from Riley's mother stated that she had found Riley's car near a cliff while walking the dog around 10pm November 07 2012 she went to inspect his car and the door was unlocked with a note left on the drivers seat the note was of suicide she had found her son washed up along the beach Riley had drowned himself, life obviously got too tough for him it is so sad right when I though his life was going well just 3 weeks after he had moved to Southed-On-Sea this has now happened we all thought his life was back on track he never did get into drugs but I guess having no friends around him and issues with family got too much.

He was a true friend and I shall miss him dearly, some of you will call him a coward and such for killing himself instead of dealing with his life well you try living with a Father in Prison a mother that hits you and tells you she hates you and that u were a mistake almost every day the only people in your life that u were close to were your Grandparents and friends and then u are taken away from them work gets hectic and u have no life other than work and family no escape from the bad you know it is never going to get any better but instead of using his money and moving away himself for a better life he wanted to stay with his mom hope things would get better evidentially they never did, I myself don't think I could have coped with everything he went through.

I will never forget Riley and I know he hasn't been on the forums in a while so someone of u he has technically already said goodbye to but he liked the forums and everyone that spoken to him on here so on his behalf I shall say farewell from him to all of you.

RIP Riley or '94. Surprisingly enough there is nothing in the local or national press.

 

[Buckeye1]

My sincere sympathy to Riley's family, Ty and all those who knew and loved Riley. He will be missed.

 

[peterh6308]

Hugs from Seattle Ty.

 

[joninliverton]

Still no news articles !!!!

 

[cumrag27]

God commands us all to love one another!

Any suicide surrounded by such sad details really pulls at my heartstings and calls to mind those poignant words from the negro spiritual - Amazing Grace

AMAZING GRACE

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Amazing grace! How sweet the sound, that saved a wretch like me
I once was lost, but now I’m found, was blind, but now I see

‘Twas grace that taught my heart to fear, and grace my fears relieved
How precious did that grace appear the hour I first believed

Through many dangers, toils and snares I have already come
‘Tis grace hath brought me safe thus far, and grace will lead me home

The Lord has promised good to me; His word my hope secures
He will my shield and portion be as long as life endures

Yes, when this flesh and heart shall fail, and mortal life shall cease
I shall possess, within the veil, a life of joy and peace

The earth shall soon dissolve like snow, the sun forbear to shine
But God, who called me here below, will be forever mine

When we’ve been there ten thousands years, bright shining as the sun
We’ve no less days to sing God’s praise than when we’d first begun

To Riley's loved ones and friends,

Having lost my own brother with bi-polar disorder to suicide, I make no judgements on suicides other than I firmly believe God is truly "Infinitely Merciful and Just". God would not want any of us to suffer more than we can humanly withstand. Further, his life did have purpose if only to remind us all that there are many among us who need some human compassion and kindness from us all.

So I believe absolutely in both Riley's case, as in my own brother's case, this threshold was exceeded on earth and God, being the loving God He is, welcomed Riley (as He did my brother in 1998) with God's outstretched arms welcoming them both to their eternal reward. I Pray that Riley has found true peace now!

May his friends and family know peace as well and avoid any rash judgments or recriminations!



Sincerely,



Stimpy

 

[erikthbod]

and a tear runs down my face ..... so very sad.

 

[Ty.d94]

Just in case anyone is being skeptical which is slightly just wrong in my eyes (Jon) Riley committed suicide many people do so not everyone gets a news article Riley left a note in a car next to a cliff, that was looked into and they looked at CCTV, Riley was 18 an adult so obviously the social services had nothing to get involved in it was an open and close case Riley took his life end of. Even children go missing often not every child is put into the eyes of the media, Riley is no longer here there is no need for a news article in fact I don't think I have ever read a news article about someone taking their own life unless it was over bullying or the person happened to be young or they were already in the public eye, Riley is gone now there is nothing more to say on the matter, I am quite sure his mother doesn't want articles in the news about him either, so that is it Riley is no longer with us and I an his friends and family shall mourn until the funeral is sorted and probably mourn a little more after

 

[Ty.d94]

I just wanted to say thank you for everyone's consoling words they all mean a lot, and everyone that spoke to him here meant a lot to him so I am sure he will take every message with him wherever he may be now, there shall be a funeral and a wake soon, from there everyone shall get on with their lives but Tyler will never be forgotten at least from my mind

 

[Beth]

I just wanted to say thank you for everyone's consoling words they all mean a lot, and everyone that spoke to him here meant a lot to him so I am sure he will take every message with him wherever he may be now, there shall be a funeral and a wake soon, from there everyone shall get on with their lives but Tyler will never be forgotten at least from my mind

Just like a friend who has, "gone ahead;" you two will catch up one day and realize the friendship you have between you, goes beyond the physical world and transcends time! Enjoy your memories with him, as we do. Someday we will all be reunited in love!

 

[MissDeidra]

I just wanted to say thank you for everyone's consoling words they all mean a lot, and everyone that spoke to him here meant a lot to him so I am sure he will take every message with him wherever he may be now, there shall be a funeral and a wake soon, from there everyone shall get on with their lives but Tyler will never be forgotten at least from my mind

Sorry I am coming in late on this, but who is Tyler? I thought the person that passed was Riley? I'm confused.

 

[joninliverton]

Sorry I am coming in late on this, but who is Tyler? I thought the person that passed was Riley? I'm confused.

What a super sleuth you are MissDeidra - Jeez i thought I was good.

 

[Ty.d94]

OMG sorry my head is all over the place I was not really thinking when I posted that last post I am Tyler and I am still here, Riley was a friend I grew up with he used to use the forums often and posted his own photos I only knew he used this site come a few months ago, I am sorry he is gone but I can't do anything about it now it pains me knowing he isn't here anymore and I wish I was there to help him or that he went to therapy or something he needed help and I am distraught knowing that I wasn't there to help him when he moved away, I wish he was more open but he kept everything bottled up and it seems instead of opening that bottle and talking to someone that bottle smashed and his life shattered :'(