Prayers for my Mom

[Markymark]

Hey Guys & Dolls.

Long time no hear eh? I have been very busy taking care of my mom for the last several months. Sad to say, she is failing rather quickly right now, and we (Carl & I) expect that she will be gone soon, possibly by Easter. The good news is that she has not had much pain, and has incredible nursing care 24/7. For the past week she has had periods of time where she hallucinates, and talks to my father or her mother, or others in the family who have preceded her in death. Except for those times, I have had the most wonderful chance to spend time with her, letting her know how much she is loved. The family has been a tremendous source of support thru all of this. I would ask that you keep me and mom in your prayers at this time, as she prepares to transition.

Please know that while We have not been active on the site, that We do check in from time to time on all the wonderful residents of Forumland, and do, as time permits, respond to some of the observations, photos, jokes, and comments of Our dear subjects. We promise to return to a more active involvement as soon as possible, but in the meantime, we wish you all a most joyful Easter Holiday and Passover. Blessings on you all!

Markymark, BTGOJ, QMOTF

 

[tampa24]

Dearest Markymark,

Please know that you, your mother, Carl and your whole family are in my prayers at this time. What a blessing that you have been able to be by her side before the curtain falls. How appropriate though that the timing is so close to Easter. I hope you take great comfort in the fact that your mother will be returning home to a much better place. Just as sure as the Easter promise, she will patiently await your next reunion on the other side of the veil where there will be no infirmities, limitations or cares of the physical body.

Big hugs QMOTF, xo

 

[Ms. Kianna]

You have all my prayers and well wishes, Markymark. I am so happy to hear that you are getting to spend such valuable with her as she transitions. The memories of this time will be with you always.

 

[Beth]

I am sending you good thoughts!

 

[stowe1]

You, your Mom and all you hold dear will be in my prayers and in a special way during this time. I am glad you are able to have some special time with your Mom - these will be moments you will cherish for the rest of your life.


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[another1]

you and your mother are in my thoughts and prayers!

 

[cumrag27]

Dear Markymark,

The fact that your mother is not feeling pain is such a blessing for her and everyone at her side. God Bless you all and I hope she continues to go peacefully! She will be in my prayers!.



Sincerely,


Stimpy

 

[JLipps4u]

Marky, YRH

Blessings to you and your mom. I am going through the same thing with my father. A couple of weeks ago he was near death, but has since recovered slightly. Still, he is not long for this world. We placed him in a nursing home a week ago, but are bringing him back home in the next few days. I noticed yesterday, he was asking for his father and brother, both of whom have preceded him. I fear he is waiting for the right person to accompany him on his journey.

I worked in hospitals for 35 years and have seen so many people die alone, it has always made me very sad for them. We prefer for our loved ones to die at home, surrounded by those who love them. It is so much nicer. You are fortunate to have this time with your mother. I wish more people had your courage.

May you be filled with patience and peace. Will look forward to your return.

 

[peterh6308]

Marky, My prayers are for your Mother, you and your family. The cycle of life as painful as it can be, it is also very beautiful. She is very lucky to have loved ones near her while she takes the next journey. Peace and love

 

[mikeyank]

I am very moved by your post, Mark. The bond between a mother and child is the deepest of all. The important thing is that she knows how much you love her, and she will always be with you, on the inside. My mom died 28 years ago, but I feel like she is still with me, and I hear her voice often. May God bless you and her.

 

[Buckeye1]

Dearest Marky,

I, too, have walked in your shoes. I was with my father for three weeks before he passed and took care of my mother for nine years who suffered with dementia before she joined my father on the other side. I also had a near death experience a few years ago, and I can tell you that I experienced a peace that words cannot describe. I know your mother will like it there a lot. Had I not felt that my mother's care was "my responsibillity", I would not have come back.

May God give you the strength to get you and your family through this most difficult time in your life. My prayers are with you.

 

[Swampyankee]

My thoughts and prays are with you at this time.