Popping A Cherry - It it important?

[angelone]

We've been promised several times lately that such and such will be poppying someone's cherry only to find out that that particular cherry has already been eaten. I for one have been so disappointed because what I experienced as poppying a cherry wasn't what I have seen on the sites. Instead I view these young men taking the dick rather causally into their asses. With the exception of Bobby, I haven't seen too much discomfort from the others supposedly straight virgins doing anal for the first time. My question to you out there is, "How important is it for you to see a straight guy get his cherry popped for the first time?" Are there other more important things to dwell on other than seeing someone's cherry broken into?

 

[balboa]

I have watched and subscribed to mostly amateur sites for years now. Even those guys who I believe were cherry went through an awful lot of prep before the director yelled, "ACTION". Their deflowering was smooth and without a fuss, which made my viewing experience very enjoyable. Then, there is the 'cherry' without prep which looks to me like painful torture and was not hot at all. I've even seen professional g4p guys who committed to bottoming more (because it pays better) continually struggle with it and you can tell how painful it is. Again, not hot.

So for me, I can do without the 'story' about them being virgin, and just get on with it (it's not that important). Producers seem to insist on perpetuating the myth that all str8 guys are anal virgins, so I'm not going to insist they change, because it wouldn't do any good. But it would be more honest for the model to say their girlfriends use dildos on them or admit to a few 'experiences'. I won't think any less of them or think they're less str8.

 

[lesit78]

I think it's hot, but it has to be believable though and I really don't want to see the poor guy on the bottom going through a traumatic and painful experience. I think Corbin Fisher does a GREAT job showing these boys losing their "cherry" for the first time because 1. it's believable (none of the guys on CF have been in porn before, that seems to be an unwritten rule and requirement on their site, and anytime a model strays from the Corbin Fisher stable and starts doing scenes for another studio, they are gone forever from Corbin Fisher) and 2. You really get the sense most of the time that these guys really are getting fucked for the first time. But I don't think that would be hot for a lot of you all here, because the Corbin Fisher scenes feature a lot of lovemaking type sex, there is lots of passion and kissing (which I think is hotter than hell, if done right between two believably straight guys), and it's almost like the getting fucked is just the climax at the end of some steamy lovemaking and sex.

But, Corbin Fisher also charges nearly $50.00 per month in rebills, if you subscribe to both the straight sex companion site along with the gay sex site (the guys get it on with the girls on the straight site, and with each other on the gay site, changing back and forth between sites which is really hot to me).

I think it's completely unbelievable when a guy is portrayed as getting fucked for the first time, and he literally backs up onto his partner's cock and is loving it right away. That, to me, is completely ridiculous and I tend to quit watching because it's so fake and unbelievable.

I'd rather just watch them get it on and have hot sex without even going there in terms of having ever been fucked by a guy.

Abe

 

[cumrag27]

If the truth hurts...

I have watched and subscribed to mostly amateur sites for years now. Even those guys who I believe were cherry went through an awful lot of prep before the director yelled, "ACTION". Their deflowering was smooth and without a fuss, which made my viewing experience very enjoyable. Then, there is the 'cherry' without prep which looks to me like painful torture and was not hot at all. I've even seen professional g4p guys who committed to bottoming more (because it pays better) continually struggle with it and you can tell how painful it is. Again, not hot.

So for me, I can do without the 'story' about them being virgin, and just get on with it (it's not that important). Producers seem to insist on perpetuating the myth that all str8 guys are anal virgins, so I'm not going to insist they change, because it wouldn't do any good. But it would be more honest for the model to say their girlfriends use dildos on them or admit to a few 'experiences'. I won't think any less of them or think they're less str8.

I think it's hot, but it has to be believable though and I really don't want to see the poor guy on the bottom going through a traumatic and painful experience. I think Corbin Fisher does a GREAT job showing these boys losing their "cherry" for the first time because 1. it's believable (none of the guys on CF have been in porn before, that seems to be an unwritten rule and requirement on their site, and anytime a model strays from the Corbin Fisher stable and starts doing scenes for another studio, they are gone forever from Corbin Fisher) and 2. You really get the sense most of the time that these guys really are getting fucked for the first time. But I don't think that would be hot for a lot of you all here, because the Corbin Fisher scenes feature a lot of lovemaking type sex, there is lots of passion and kissing (which I think is hotter than hell, if done right between two believably straight guys), and it's almost like the getting fucked is just the climax at the end of some steamy lovemaking and sex.

But, Corbin Fisher also charges nearly $50.00 per month in rebills, if you subscribe to both the straight sex companion site along with the gay sex site (the guys get it on with the girls on the straight site, and with each other on the gay site, changing back and forth between sites which is really hot to me).

I think it's completely unbelievable when a guy is portrayed as getting fucked for the first time, and he literally backs up onto his partner's cock and is loving it right away. That, to me, is completely ridiculous and I tend to quit watching because it's so fake and unbelievable.

I'd rather just watch them get it on and have hot sex without even going there in terms of having ever been fucked by a guy.

Abe

Dearest Balboa and Abe,

It really makes all the difference in the world when the virgin has been thoroughly prepared. I have never understood why Broke Straight Boys has not focused more on using anal toys for stretching the bottom so that they can come away with a smile on their face. That would make my face smile too. And if the virgin has been passed around by an entire football team the entire season prior to coming to Broke Straight Boys, then tell it like it is rather than having the next real virgin, without benefit of lubing up first, go full force into a hard thrusting anal scene from hell. Broke Straight Boys members get "buyers remorse" after kicking the tires some to realize this seemingly virginal kid has been around the block too many times to even number. IT SURE IS A MAJOR TURNOFF FOR ME AND FOR OTHERS AS WELL! IT PERPETUATES THE MYTH/LIE THAT ROUGH SEX IS THE WAY TO BREAK-IN A NEWBIE.

With Broke Straight Boys practicing safe-sex procedures including using condoms in anal scenes, then why has Broke Straight Boys go on record demonstrating supposed anal virgins being popped like if they were some slut without regard for pain and internal tearing or damage that happened to Cole. These models deserve better than this and my not objecting makes me indirectly complicit in the physical and/or emotional harm done to these victims.

I feel that if we purport to be a amateur/reality gay site, must we continue to perpetuate this falsehood that deep-thrusting anal sex is the way to go for the newbie, when nothing could be further from the truth? We are not into other types of blood-letting or physically harmful S/M scenes.

My first request for Broke Straight Boys to realize is: you may pay your models to perform, but they are not so much cattle waiting to be butchered. Respect the models first, then respect your audience enough to realize we are not fooled by these "so called recycled virgins with unpopped cherries". But, above all, please have the humanity to allow real virginal asses to "ease them gently into anal action as every human deserves". The intimidation factor alone of the first time(whether straight or gay) needs to be recognized and accommodated by the "Top" given the task of "mercifully popping the bottom's cherry".

If the truth hurts, then by all means possible, let it sink in slowly with plenty of preparation stretching and lubricating prior to the anal sex scene or STOP FILMING. I wished to never see ever again a hurtful penetration or rough fucking where the newbie/bottom is in obvious pain. There is no entertainment value in it at all for me and other like-minded forumites.

Sincerely wanting truly sexy episodes, not hurtful for the sake of being hurtful!


Stimpy

 

[angelone]

I sensed some very strong feelings about the topic I introduced. It's a subject that keeps coming up as Broke Straight Boys keeps introducing a new model. In my experience having my cherry popped wasn't a pleasant experience - it was painful and messy! Reflecting on that experience I don't want anyone to go through it. Maybe it's good that Broke Straight Boys does a sanitized version of popping a cherry. I will have to do more with my imagination than usual when such an episode occurs again which maybe sooner than I think.

 

[Phantom]

Having your cherry popped is not always as painful as some people make it sound. I remember my first time. It hurt a little at first, but it wasn't really all that painful. In addition to this, not every guy reacts the same to pain. Some just groan a little and put up with it. They don't talk about how painful it was until it's over. I have popped a cherry or two and, not to brag, but I'm above average in size and those guys didn't say anything until it was over. Then they said I was just too big for them to take again, which turned out not to be true when they practiced a little and were able to take it again later. It's different for every guy. Don't be too quick to judge based on their reactions on camera. Even if it is just acting, just relax and enjoy the fantasy. That's what I do.

 

[mikeyank]

It's different for every guy. Don't be too quick to judge based on their reactions on camera. Even if it is just acting, just relax and enjoy the fantasy. That's what I do.

Although I'm not a bug fan of anal sex, either in my personal life or in my porn, I agree totally with the above point made by Phantom.

I've often thought that members of the forum take the models reaction to their "first time" getting fucked on film way too literally. I've always wonder if a model is over acting when they grunt and grimace and complain while supposedly getting their cherry popped during a scene.

If they are really too uncomfortable and in real pain, they can merely say STOP, and the scene will end. I recall Mike Robbins and a few other's attempting it, and putting a halt to the proceedings.

The most vivid example that I always recall of the forum being "up in arms" over an anal scene was the infamous Santos fuck's Sean scene. Sean moaned and cried throughout the scene as Santos aggressively fucked him.

The forum was calling for David's head, and accused Broke Straight Boys of filming a "rape" scene. After all the furor, David explained that the boy's planned it in advance, and Sean wanted to be fucked in a "rough sex" scene.

So as Phantom said, let's just relax and enjoy the fantasy, and if we are not enjoying it, just hit the stop button and watch something else. We should keep in mind that this is a fantasy site and not a reality documentary site.