rafe59
Well-known Member
nice seen, cute guy,.....but definitely gay.....
I am gay and the men who I've had relationships with in my life have been obviously gay too. No one is putting anyone down for not being straight. We are just saying that we are paying a chunk out of our pay checks for this site to see "believably" straight guys, and when all our of our gaydar goes off when we see a model who lacks that believability factor, we notice and are disappointed.
But getting back to this week's solo artist, Kyle Johnson, I don't see this thread as criticizing his looks, but rather questioning his sexuality, which I think is fair game for us to debate. I've never believed that the forum should only be a place to praise the models and the site, as that would be totally boring, but I do agree that we should exercise discretion too, when discussing specific models.I know that no one is genuinely trying to hurt the people they are criticizing but if you don't watch your words (like in the Flint case) it does hurt people. That's why I'm not telling people what to do, just be careful what you say. I myself have been disappointed in scenes because of the models but I always hold back my opinion, I don't blatantly say I don't find them attractive.
I also have to chime in. I have zero against gay guys but when a gay guy tries this badly to convince a audience like us that he's straight on a website call Broke Straight Boys I have a problem. I rather have him openly admit he's gay and use that to help the scenes and stop trying to pass of a gay man as straight.
I certainly try very hard to not say anything insulting about a model, except in extreme circumstances, and I hope that I have not said anything offensive to this young man, Kyle.
But you do raise an interesting subject littlemonster, which has been addressed before. When the models post and have access to the forum, it does stifle us from being able to express our thoughts on a scene or especially a particular model. I've always thought of the forum as a way for the fans of Broke Straight Boys to discuss the guys as we are the paying fans and this is our little fan site to praise or criticize what we are seeing.
However your point is valid littlemonster, as we had a very sweet kid named Flint here a few months ago, and he was introduced to us before we ever saw him in a scene and he charmed the pants off the forum. And then when his scenes were released and he received criticism he appeared genuinely hurt by some of the comments, and that was heart breaking.
That is why I try to say nothing if a model does not interest me at all, as with a recent solo, or if I do comment I try to choose my words carefully so as to explain if the model is reading my comments that it is just my personal preference and others may love him. It is a slippery slope when models post and read our comments.
If Kyle turns out to be a natural born cumeater, I'd welcome him with open arms...
Moved to the correct section.
As for Kyle I agree he does give off those mannerisms. New guys are tough because you never know what you are really getting until they get here. I still can't even say if he is gay, straight or curious. The biggest thing I remember was Kyle was deathly afraid of all animals which was crazy. Our process isn't perfect but we are trying our best to prescreen guys. In my opinion the line of sexuality is really changing. Guys are WAY more open then they were 5 or so years ago. When gay guys come in they are put onto College Dudes The ones on Broke Straight Boys might be curious or whatever like Logan was and then later Logan realized he wasn't completely straight. it is different with each guy. Some come in curious and decide they are definitely straight and some are straight the entire time.
it's just PORN people! Hopefully, we have other things in our lives to entertain ourselves with. Two phases I hear way too frequently: "...not what I signed up for" "...pay to see." Those both sound like choices to me. Need more be said?
Since I've subscribed I haven't been moved to post.