We did speak daily on line and were intimate. Our age difference was 50 years. He was a horrible victim of family and other sexual abuse as a kid which remarkably with aid of another family that treated him like there own recovered. They had a son his age . They were like twins. He was bi but eventually they partnered. I sadly lost contact, wo explanation, which was not like him. He loved sports (my love of tennis & rugby comes from him) and helping kids, both he and his mate became teachers. He has a brilliant mind. One of his favorite sayings "shit happens". Also refused any monetary help frm any one unlike so many others.