Honest questions get honest answers (part2)

[BSBCageKafig]

What do you dislike about me and my work and explain why.. This is meant for me to review and take notes so I can improve the way I do things and build a better/stronger fan base! Thank you for your time and I look forward to the feedback!

 

[Beth]

Some thoughts about Cage Kafig; no, not meant as a dislike, but if you want my opinion...and I do like to give it, here it is:
1. You started so strong on the forum and Facebook, then just disappeared; what happened to you?
2. I like your masculine sense of self, but you need to talk more, and louder in order to get your point across.
3. I know nerves play a big part in filming, but the straight guy in you needs to vocalize what he wants, i.e., "suck my dick." And when you are being aggressive with a guy, as in Colby's scenes, you need to tell him why you are doing what you are doing, i.e. covering his mouth with your hand, needs to be accompanied by, "I don't want to hear you moan, just take it."
4. You're going to have to choose whether or not to kiss, and be consistent with it. I love kissing, but only with romantic guys; I do not see you as "romantic."
5. You need to make more sounds when you are sucking and fucking; grunts, groans and moans are always welcome.
6. When Clay chats you up, use that time to let us know more about you. When he asked what are you going to use the money for, tell him, "whatever the fuck I want." "I'm buying a fucking bike 'cause I'm earning this money, the hard way."
7. I guess what I am advising, is choose a "persona" and stay with it. You may want to look back at Jimmy's personality. He was very masculine and took a lot of heat because of it; some members felt he didn't "put out enough." But with that, we all knew exactly who he was. Ask some of the other models who have "cum before" they can give you some advice.
8. With all this, I would still tell you to be yourself; if you are not comfortable with something, it will show on film...and porn is forever.

Okay, so, last time you ask me anything, hu? I do appreciate your work, it's just that I value consistency; just sayin'

 

[joninliverton]

Just be yourself and no one else.

 

[gardenboy]

Hi Cage Kafig
Glad you signed in and I wish you well. As said above, just be yourself - I like your personality and forget the moaners and groans wo can't find anything nice to say about anyone. Recently heard a good sermon on radio where a priest said we are far to quick to criticize and far to lax to praise. So hear's to you kiddo - great job with video with Colby

 

[joeychuck2]

Just be yourself and no one else.

ABSOLUTELY for everyone on here.

 

[silvercamel]

Let us know who "yourself" is.

Also, mostly what Beth said.

PS (Didn't read Part 1 - this post is not considered a criticism)

 

[ChristopherRobin]

You have the physical features of the type of performer I like, although I am not at all into the shaved look, anywhere. Your last scene was almost excellent: very intense. Some kissing during the most intense parts is really popular with many members. (I know, straight guys don't like it, but still...)

 

[fwcoach]

Cage Kafig you are one hot guy. I've loved your scenes. Keep up the good work. You are a real turn on.

 

[betudidntknow]

I like that you are asking fans directly for guidance as to what they like and to be honest about it!
I don't mind the shaved head (hard masculine look) but, I did like that you let your hair grow out a little in the last scene. It gave you a somewhat softer look to me. Your tats still give that masculine affect (for me at least.)
It's challenging enough for a straight man to "simulate" making love to another man but, if there is anything about what you are doing that actually feels good at the time, capitalize on that! I think it will come across much better than, trying to force it for the pleasure of your fans.
I am one of those who does enjoy the bottoming scenes and don't mind seeing even the "most unlikely to bottom guys" experiment with that role! Some have even used it to their advantage and have turned out very hot scenes!
As much as I appreciate that you want to please your fan base, I agree with some of the comments that recommend you to be yourself! Find your niche and make that your signature performance feature! You won't please everyone all of the time but, based on your interactions with the fans/forum and social media, there is no doubt in my mind, that you have already established a "Following.!"
Keep up the good work!

 

[tampa24]

I like that you are asking fans directly for guidance as to what they like and to be honest about it!
I don't mind the shaved head (hard masculine look) but, I did like that you let your hair grow out a little in the last scene. It gave you a somewhat softer look to me.

As much as I appreciate that you want to please your fan base, I agree with some of the comments that recommend you to be yourself! Find your niche and make that your signature performance feature! You won't please everyone all of the time but, based on your interactions with the fans/forum and social media, there is no doubt in my mind, that you have already established a "Following!"
Keep up the good work!

First off, just because I'm posting here doesn't mean that I'm here to criticize. I am a fan Cage Kafig. I'll agree with much of what Betu (and Beth) says here. If you worry about creating an onscreen "persona" that's not the real you...you'll just be adding more stress onto yourself. Take the positive and negative feedback into consideration but don't fall into the trap of trying to please everyone. You won't be able to. And you'd just be setting yourself up for failure if you tried. If you try to create an onscreen or online persona that is not the real you...then you have the added burden of trying to stay in character all the time. It's like they say about lying... "If you tell the truth, you don't have to have a good memory." lol Don't pile extra work on yourself.

I also agree with Betu that a little bit more hair really softened your appearance. I admit that I do like this look better. Having seen you with more hair here, I can watch your other earlier scenes still to be released where you were bald, and enjoy them more now. I must confess that when I first saw you, that the skinhead look with tattoos brought negative stereotypes to mind for me. That wasn't fair to the person you are. It was just a shallow kneejerk reaction on my part. And for that I apologize. Did I mention that I'm a fan of yours now? haha

I also realize now that modeling here and doing the Cage Kafig fighting can ask you to juggle two different looks. If you decide that the Cage Kafig fighting requires you to keep a more tough-guy sharper, edgier look...then we fans will adjust if the shaved head or closely cropped hair is what you need to make it in that business. While I don't pretend to know anything at all about the Cage Kafig fighting business, I imagine that it requires some intimidation and psyching out of your opponents...as well as simultaneously entertaining the fans in the crowd. I imagine also that that business requires you to maintain a persona in the ring that may not be the real you.

Just one more reason not to pull yet more double duty on yourself. If you already have to maintain a separate persona in the ring...then cut yourself a break and be the real you here. lol

 

[joninliverton]

I don't really think it is a good idea to be posting threads such as this and part 1 on the forum. It kinda makes forum members tight lipped and perhaps wouldn't state what they really think in case of upsetting you or other members of the forum.

I personally think the best thing to do is to just read the comments of your films and take it from there.

 

[rafe59]

I think you are doing a great job...and agree with the statement of just be yourself......If you like who you are so will we.......sure there are things we all like our models to be....but you can't please all the people all the time.....SO JUST BE YOU.....Oh and if you ever get to Pa...stop by and ravage me to with in an inch of my life......lolololololol......DAMN you are my type of man.!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[zayboy08]

Cage Kafig you are really cool. You are very original. Haven't seen a country boy on Broke Straight Boys in years. You have a great body and you seem like a genuine person like someone cool to hang out with. Keep it up.

 

[BSBCageKafig]

Thank you all for your input and I will work on everything mentioned in this thread when I get back in the studio!