Hey everyone! Ian Dempsey Here!

[Youngandconfused22]

Great to hear from you Ian. I'm hoping since you were in Tyler's new bts and you are the one that showed him the house I'm
Hoping that you had a scene with Tyler cause I would lose my mind in anticipation if you did. Plus I'm not really afraid to admit it but a lot of your earlier scenes with that really dark tan you had were a complete turn on on for me and I every once in a while go back and watch them to see your sexy tan and I'm hoping that it comes back.

 

[tampa24]

Haha thanks Tampa, I had totally forgot that we shot all of that stuff so I had to go back and watch the BTS. I think you guys will really like my new video coming out, I get to show another side to myself which is always fun and exciting. Everything here has been great.

Hey Ian!

It is so good to hear from you. Thanks for catching us up on what you've got going on. It sounds like you have a great summer in store for you. Enjoy it please. You are at such a great age. I look back upon that era of my own life with great fondness. Please live it to the fullest because it's so fleeting in hindsight.

How is school going? Will you be going back in the fall?

I'm very glad to know that things are going well for you. xoo

 

[tampa24]

LOL Well Ian, you know I try to be understanding about tattoos because they're really not my thing. I'm very glad that you are being choosy and responsible about what you want to permanently put on your body. Picking things that hold some real meaning to you and so on. Plus of course picking someone who does a good job so it doesn't look like scrawled graffiti or bad street art. We've seen a glimpse of the one on your back.

Not that I get a vote or that my opinion really matters in the course of your life....lol...but I'm hoping that you won't be going for a whole sleeve on either arm. I hated it when the model Liam got a full sleeve done on his arm. His was nicely done with many vibrant flowers and colors. Yet I felt it still distracted me (and others maybe?) way too much from his video work. They can become scene stealers and camera hogs unto themselves because the viewers' eyes keep being drawn to them, more so than the human being they're attached to. It's hard to have a serious conversation with someone when they're talking while your eyes are constantly pulled over to large and/or colorful tattoos.

So especially while you are still doing modeling, please be judicious in how many and what kinds of tattoos to keep adding. If you must keep adding.

 

[IanDempsey]

LOL Well Ian, you know I try to be understanding about tattoos because they're really not my thing. I'm very glad that you are being choosy and responsible about what you want to permanently put on your body. Picking things that hold some real meaning to you and so on. Plus of course picking someone who does a good job so it doesn't look like scrawled graffiti or bad street art. We've seen a glimpse of the one on your back.

Not that I get a vote or that my opinion really matters in the course of your life....lol...but I'm hoping that you won't be going for a whole sleeve on either arm. I hated it when the model Liam got a full sleeve done on his arm. His was nicely done with many vibrant flowers and colors. Yet I felt it still distracted me (and others maybe?) way too much from his video work. They can become scene stealers and camera hogs unto themselves because the viewers' eyes keep being drawn to them, more so than the human being they're attached to. It's hard to have a serious conversation with someone when they're talking while your eyes are constantly pulled over to large and/or colorful tattoos.

So especially while you are still doing modeling, please be judicious in how many and what kinds of tattoos to keep adding. If you must keep adding.

well Tampa, if I do get a full sleeve, it won't be for quite some time, and it won't be all at once, that's too boring. I want to add little pieces at a time throughout my life, to further create more meaning of the piece.

I'll be taking a few classes over the summer at my community college for photography, one of my friends has asked me to photograph his aunts wedding, which intimidates the shit out of me, so I decided to sign up for some classes that will make me more comfortable with different lighting and whatnot. And I will be going back to take regular classes in the fall.

 

[Stripe222]

Hey Ian... Sounds like a fun summer! I was born in Denver and raised in Aurora. I went to Hinkley and Gateway High Schools. After that I attended UNC in Greeley and ended up on the 5 year party plan! I was in a Frat (Sigma Chi) which contributed to my delinquency and my parents tuition payments! I did settle down the last two years and got really good grades. I worked at Joslin's Department store part-time (Macy's probably ate them up) for a year and then at a Mexican restaurant, first as a waiter and then a bartender. That's when I gave up the party life. I had to stay sober to work and I got to see what assholes people turned into when they got drunk! I had a girlfriend (Delta Zeta) that I married right after college. Great relationship until I came to terms with the fact that I was gay. That was 30 yrs ago, and I still trade emails with her once in awhile.

I loved school and had a great time. Go to the Frat parties, but don't join! All the functions and meetings eat-up a ton of time.

Good luck in school, and be sure to keep your head above water...

 

[tampa24]

well Tampa, if I do get a full sleeve, it won't be for quite some time, and it won't be all at once, that's too boring. I want to add little pieces at a time throughout my life, to further create more meaning of the piece.

Yay! Happy dance. haha

What you say makes perfect sense Ian. Your life will have so many stages of growth, change and turning point events. All of which will enrich your life and contribute to your continual spiritual growth and ever evolving wisdom. If you use up too much of your canvas now with where your mindset is at at the age of 19-20...then there is little room left for later to show what's important to a very beautiful and intelligent man of 25, 30, 40 and so on. xo

Using an analogy here, many toddlers and small children have wallpaper in their rooms of things like Sesame Street or Sponge Bob. The children love it in the beginning. But within about 4 years the child is usually begging his or her parents to change it. Not just because they are tired of looking at it, (which they are) but also because it is embarrassing to them in front of their friends. Because that's not the person they are anymore. They're maturing and evolving. They're no longer in that season of life. And they don't want other people (friends, peers and so on) to mistakenly assume that they are still stuck at that level.

 

[tampa24]

I'll be taking a few classes over the summer at my community college for photography, one of my friends has asked me to photograph his aunts wedding, which intimidates the shit out of me, so I decided to sign up for some classes that will make me more comfortable with different lighting and whatnot. And I will be going back to take regular classes in the fall.

I'm so glad to hear that you are sticking with your studies Ian. It is also a great time of life to have some fun. lol As Stripe says though, moderation is a very good thing. You don't want to get so bogged down in the temptations and distractions of early adulthood, to the point that they will do you harm and hinder your growth and advancement. Mawh!

 

[joninliverton]

I'm so glad to hear that you are sticking with your studies Ian. It is also a great time of life to have some fun. lol As Stripe says though, moderation is a very good thing. You don't want to get so bogged down in the temptations and distractions of early adulthood, to the point that they will do you harm and hinder your growth and advancement. Mawh!

Excellent advice Tampa/Stripe. As much as we would all like, we are not Peter Pan.

 

[Billyboy37738]

Hello Ian, It is great you are sticking with school and I hope you get a degree or learn a skill that you can make a really great living. Porn stars are kind of like football player, their careers end while they are still young and so you need a back up plan and one that you can easily transition to.
If you decide to get a tattoo be really careful what you choose. I know a lot of people that got them and 20 or 25 years later were going through the process of having them removed. Others still have them but wish they had not had them done now. At the time they had them done, they thought they were great.

 

[IanDempsey]

Hey everyone!! Hope you all are having a great summer! Hopefully you didn't miss me too much It's getting hotter and hotter here in Denver and I'm so excited to be back outside working at the pool, now as a lead lifeguard! Who's excited for more scenes?!

 

[stowe1]

Hey everyone!! Hope you all are having a great summer! Hopefully you didn't miss me too much It's getting hotter and hotter here in Denver and I'm so excited to be back outside working at the pool, now as a lead lifeguard! Who's excited for more scenes?!

I am, especially you with a tan. That takes your "hot" factor into the stratosphere!

 

[tampa24]

Who's excited for more scenes?!

Me, me, me! haha

Hi Ian!

How are you man? It's so good to hear from you again. I hope you've been well. It sounds like the job is going well. With a promotion and a raise no less. Congratulations! xo

I'm sure you're also turning plenty of heads walking around in a swimsuit this summer. From women and men alike. lol

There is still plenty of love for you in here Ian. I do hope you'll start posting a bit more again. Though I realize that with a job and the fact that you're young and it's summertime, that you'll have other personal priorities. Are you taking the summer off from school? Did your classes go okay last semester?

 

[Beth]

Hey everyone!! Hope you all are having a great summer! Hopefully you didn't miss me too much It's getting hotter and hotter here in Denver and I'm so excited to be back outside working at the pool, now as a lead lifeguard! Who's excited for more scenes?!

Hey there, sounds like you've got a busy summer ahead; you know, "idle hands..." Do let us know how the "aunt's wedding" shoot turned out. As well, may we hear more about your plans/actions on moving out? And congratulations on being lead lifeguard...good work. As for more scenes...please!

 

[IanDempsey]

Good afternoon.

It's been quite some time side I've visited the chat here on Broke Straight Boys Working this summer has made time fly by so fast, it seems like just yesterday was the start of the season, and now we have just two more weekends left until we close. I've had a lot of fun this summer! Made a lot of new friends, partied day in and day out, and made memories I'll hold forever. I trust you all have been well in the past few months during my absence. I do have a few new scenes lined up for you all. I hope you will enjoy them when they air.

Beth, I would like to tell you personally that I ended up not moving out of my parents house, right as we were supposed to move in I got all kinds of bills for school and decided it wasn't a good idea to try and juggle a house payment on top of that. I'm almost done with paying for school now and when I finish I'm going to look into getting a car loan. Old Patricia-Adele isn't getting any younger, and I realized the other day when I was driving down the road and my wheel just decided to snap off the back axel, that it may be time for a better, more reliable car. maybe one with actual seat belts and airbags

 

[Youngandconfused22]

Good afternoon.

It's been quite some time side I've visited the chat here on Broke Straight Boys Working this summer has made time fly by so fast, it seems like just yesterday was the start of the season, and now we have just two more weekends left until we close. I've had a lot of fun this summer! Made a lot of new friends, partied day in and day out, and made memories I'll hold forever. I trust you all have been well in the past few months during my absence. I do have a few new scenes lined up for you all. I hope you will enjoy them when they air.

Beth, I would like to tell you personally that I ended up not moving out of my parents house, right as we were supposed to move in I got all kinds of bills for school and decided it wasn't a good idea to try and juggle a house payment on top of that. I'm almost done with paying for school now and when I finish I'm going to look into getting a car loan. Old Patricia-Adele isn't getting any younger, and I realized the other day when I was driving down the road and my wheel just decided to snap off the back axel, that it may be time for a better, more reliable car. maybe one with actual seat belts and airbags

I'm really glad to hear from you Ian. I'm glad your doing ok. And it's great to hear that we have some new scenes to watch. Hopefully you got a nice tan during the summer.

 

[IanDempsey]

I'm really glad to hear from you Ian. I'm glad your doing ok. And it's great to hear that we have some new scenes to watch. Hopefully you got a nice tan during the summer.

I did get a little tan, not as extreme as last year cause I have to wear a shirt and everything, but I still think it looks good.

 

[joninliverton]

I did get a little tan, not as extreme as last year cause I have to wear a shirt and everything, but I still think it looks good.

Welcome back to the forum and Broke Straight Boys

 

[tampa24]

Welcome back Ian!! xoxo

I hope you have been well. I look forward to your new scenes and catching up with you. There had been a rumor that you retired. True or not at the time, I'm very glad to hear that you are back with us now.

 

[shyhedgehog]

Welcome back Ian. You've been sorely missed.

 

[IanDempsey]

Welcome back Ian!! xoxo

I hope you have been well. I look forward to your new scenes and catching up with you. There had been a rumor that you retired. True or not at the time, I'm very glad to hear that you are back with us now.

"Retirement" is not a word in our vocabulary, hahaha. You can say you've retired all you want, 9 out of 10 times you'll come back