Happy birthday, betu!! Even though you don't particularly care for me, civility allows me to dismiss that and send you appropriate greetings, and best wishes for many more happy birthdays to come!!
And I thank you for your civil best wishes on my birthday Stowe1. While it's true, we haven't had the best exchanges on the forum, I do respect you as man of diligence and a fellow forum participant
Betu - My best wishes were sincere and heartfelt. If they weren't I would not have extended them. What civility did was allow me to dismiss the contretemps between us and extend them to you. Hope you had a nice birthday.
Just so you know, I don't hold grudges (with 2 exceptions). If you paid me a million dollars to remember, I couldn't remember whatever it was that we've disagreed over. In the whole of my 75 yrs or at least from childhood through today there have only been two times where I did hold grudges and the circumstances involved people whom I loved dearly being hurt and I held a grudge against the evildoers. So while we might not be bosom buddies, I respect you as a fellow forumite and in fact I know there have been at least a few times where we have been in agreement on an issue.