i have over the years watched bareback sex. i have not joined any new sites and would never join a site that promoted unsafe sex as a way to stay competitive. for that reason when my current membership expires, i will no longer be a member of Broke Straight Boys
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I will be joining you for the same reasons.
BrokeStraightBoys
BSB Owner
I will be releasing a statement about this.
joninliverton
BSB Addict
I'm staying
Youngandconfused22
BSB Addict
I'm staying too. I don't see how people get so upset about bare back. I personally don't see it at all as a bad thing. Also I don't think anyone on Broke Straight Boys would do it unless they really wanted to. Also I think bareback opens up lots of cool ideas for scenes. If people are tested how could it be dangerous. I don't think Broke Straight Boys will enforce it.
I am sure that you will, just as you replied, personally, to at least one other member who is concerned. I know you don't need me as a customer. I certainly don't fit your desired demographic. You have plenty of members and as you told the other member, you feel you must do this in order to compete. My concern is as stated in several threads already. But I challenge you Clay. If your company can't even get your BTS and extras and old scenes videos to roll freely without pausing every few seconds, how in the hell are you going to monitor this situation of BB properly? Everyone is all enchanted with the latest solo performer. He is adorable. And I'd like to see him again. But not BB. IV drug users- he and other drug users, according to you a short while ago, are models here- are not the best prospects to fuck bareback even in their private lives, leave alone with the young men you bring on here. Especially when they walk away from a shoot with a big chunk of money to tempt them into using again. And addicts are notoriuos liars. I have worked with them extensively.
http://www.bradbare.com/2011/considerations-for-making-bareback-porn-more-responsible-and-ethical/
And shame on you old timers for caving in so quickly to a little ass kissing and boot licking from management either directly or through Lucas who is listed on another site as a versatile boy toy. Especially if you have kids and grandkids of your own.
Clay, please remove my membership immediately and refund any money I have coming. I think you may have just taken out the money for the second month membership. Your plans for this site don't reflect what I thought I was joining. I had planned to stick around for the forum but, at this point, I have no respect for either the old timers or the young timers who are salivating at the idea of bareback sex for these out of work young men. Just a couple of weeks ago you "old farts" (as Jon called you) were up in arms because you weren't going to get the progression and fantasy of depantsing some straight boy and holding money out to see if he'd suck or be sucked, fuck or be fucked, rim or be rimmed. Now the money is held out to risk their lives and you are still going to stand by sighing over how cute they are, what kind of panties they wear, whether they have chest hair, etc. Let's face it, old farts, our glory days are over. And for those of you who have possibly limited your sexual lives to the unattainable without mostly paying for it, I feel sorry for you if this is all you end up with at the tail end of your life to get you off.
I am not being very nice, probably on purpose, to make it easier to cut my losses. For a brief moment in time I thought I had found a group of people that I could let my hair down with and be silly with and, yes, salivate over young men. I'm just glad I only joined a month ago. It would be very hard for me, if like some of you, I'd been around a long time.
I guess until you see two of your best friends die after suffering mightily for a couple of years, covered in KS lesions, legs or scrotum swollen up to the size of an elephant, blinded by CMS, etc. you will never know why I am so angry and alarmed by all of this. My best friend has survived since a diagnosis in the late 80s because he got in on some early drug trials. But you should see the top of his refrigerator with all the stuff he has to take to "manage the disease" and the cost is out of this world.
Now- bring it on. You can all either choose to ignore this post altogether, something I've already seen you do a few times, or you can hit me with your best shot and fire away as the song goes. Clay will probably rush me to the door before I plant any more seeds of discontent or rancor so you can gossip freely while I'm gone. However, I expect, for most of you, you will go on stroking while watching the seeds of destruction that may be planted in some of these mens asses- particularly because the anal sex is rough and not lubed very well, which will cause tears that make it easier for HIV and other STDs to enter.
I think my new found porn addiction is cured as of this moment in time. Guess it wasn't an addiction after all.
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The answer is simple. You describe it in your selected screen name. You are young and confused. Read some of the other threads that some of us who have seen the effects of unprotected sex first hand. Educate yourself somewhere besides a porn chat room. Become unconfused while you are still young. Or you may be forever young and nothing but a memory to those who love you.
Youngandconfused22
BSB Addict
I find it hilarious that some forumites are flipping out on something that has not confirmed by management yet. I'm curious to see what Broke Straight Boys says about this mess.
It has been confirmed to another subscriber, who feels the way that I do
Youngandconfused22
BSB Addict
Well I haven't heard anything yet from Broke Straight Boys What exactly was said to get you so hopped up.
joninliverton
BSB Addict
Mate she's on her high horse. Let us that like to watch the films the site produce bb or not enjoy it. As you said, as long as they get tested. There are are a few sites out there that still don't do BB so they can move on to those and let us enjoy the new films in peace.
They need to do it because all the other sites are doing it. It's business. And just as I wouldn't eat at chic-fil-et if it was the last place to get a sandwich on earth or shop at a local business that discriminates in any way, I won't have my money support this. It is only my opinion but I could probably find legions of people who would feel the same way. Sometimes one just has to do what one feels is the politically correct and soul correct thing to do. These young men on here are money hungry. I watched Johhny tonight in the BTS talk about the one and only sex he has had in his life without a condom was with a girl who wanted to be ass fucked but then couldn't take it so he screwed her pussy because he had to get off. Now come on. Pregnancy is a very real, concrete, possible outcome to that action and he did it anyway. That would have been a very real life changing event and it didn't deter him at all. He just lucked out that the girl wasn't ovulating at the time. Do you think he can really, then, conceptualize a virus or other STD that might infect him or will he just go for the money? My bets on the money. And it makes me sick.
peterh6308
BSB Addict
I just don't get it folks? This is after all a porn site! If some models choose to do bareback and Broke Straight Boys is willing to shoot these scenes then it's a win win situation for them and us paying patrons. All of my personnal porn is bareback both european and american and I enjoy watching it. I joined this site knowing it was condom filming, but I like it because most of the models appear more straight acting then other sites. I continue being a member because of the bonus sites we have access to and this forum. Although I hate to see any member unhappy for whatever reason, but to leave just because Broke Straight Boys is shooting some bareback scenes is just plain silly.
joninliverton
BSB Addict
Don't think it's plain silly Peter, it is their choice and we all have choices. I left for 18months because I wasn't keen on the way the site was heading but I came back to what is now BSB2.5 However, with the introduction of bareback to the site then maybe this is BSB3.
joeychuck2
BSB Addict
STRANGE group here.
I think just the opposite. Do you think with gay marriage couples will or should use condoms? You must be kidding. For the safty of the "models" testing MUST be done before they are used. There are quick tests that must be used as well as a drs exam and blood tests. I'm sure this can be worked out. Did you guys who are complaining ever go on HSBoys, a bonus site ? Several of their sites have BARE in their title. Unprocted anonymous sex may be a problem but this isn't the case here. Broke Straight Boys needs to expand and this is a good way.
I think just the opposite. Do you think with gay marriage couples will or should use condoms? You must be kidding. For the safty of the "models" testing MUST be done before they are used. There are quick tests that must be used as well as a drs exam and blood tests. I'm sure this can be worked out. Did you guys who are complaining ever go on HSBoys, a bonus site ? Several of their sites have BARE in their title. Unprocted anonymous sex may be a problem but this isn't the case here. Broke Straight Boys needs to expand and this is a good way.
Those that enjoy rimming should be aware that it's considered to be unsafe... Should we stop the rimming?
All models should be tested on a regularly basis on:
Chancroid
Chlamydia
Cytomegalovirus (CMV) Genital Warts
Gonorrhea Hepatitis B
Herpes
HIV & AIDS
Human Papillomavirus (HPV)
Intestinal Parasites
Molluscum Contagiosum
Pelvic Inflammatory Disease (PID)
Pubic Lice (Crabs)
Scabies
Syphilis
Trichomoniasis (Trich)
Once tested healthy, it's even safer sex than just wearing condoms...
All models should be tested on a regularly basis on:
Chancroid
Chlamydia
Cytomegalovirus (CMV) Genital Warts
Gonorrhea Hepatitis B
Herpes
HIV & AIDS
Human Papillomavirus (HPV)
Intestinal Parasites
Molluscum Contagiosum
Pelvic Inflammatory Disease (PID)
Pubic Lice (Crabs)
Scabies
Syphilis
Trichomoniasis (Trich)
Once tested healthy, it's even safer sex than just wearing condoms...
I'm going to sound wishy washy on this and I hate being wishy washy. I don't like that Broke Straight Boys is going to do bareback, I was here in the gay community before HIV and AIDs I was in the parks, the bookstores and tearooms having sex with every man I could. I didn't know their names, hell most of the time I wouldn't even recognize them if I saw them on the street unless if they dropped their pants. When AIDS became well known and people started dying it felt like my world was falling apart. I almost felt like I was losing my gay identity.
I had sex with a LOT of men but it was almost all oral sex. They didn't know at that time exactly how the virus was being spread and they weren't sure if oral sex was safer or not. They were even saying that you might catch AIDS through deep kissing. I was so scared, the usual hangout turned into ghost towns. Inside I felt like after all the cum I'd swallowed I had to be infected. I was so scared to get tested because I felt I would be positive but I was also scared not knowing. I made my appointment at the LGBT clinic and I had to wait for a month to get in. When the day finally came for me to go I was a nervous wreck, I don't even know how I managed to drive the 45 miles to get to the clinic. Sitting in the waiting room surrounded by literature I was actually shaking with fear. Finally a small older kind female nurse called me into the back and started the interview process. Everything was anonymous I was just a number but because the clinic had government support we had to go through an interview process so they could gather information.
I was so nervous and scared I stuttered when I answered her questions. The first question she asked me was when was the last time I had unprotected sex then how many mend did I have unprotected sex with in a week, I was embarrassed to tell this grandmotherly type woman that I was having sex with at least 25 men a week then she asked how many men in 2 weeks then a month then 3 months. I was doing the math in my head and the numbers were adding up way too fast and way too high. She was very nice never had a shocked look on her face and didn't preach to me at all but gave me the facts and what I could do to protect myself. She gave me information and condoms then did the test. I had to wait for another month to get the results.
It was excruciating waiting for the results, I couldn't eat, I couldn't sleep my work was suffering finally the day came. I fully expected to hear the news that I was positive. They would not give you the results over the phone because if you were positive they wanted to talk to you and counsel you. When I got into the little room with the nurse and she handed me the sealed envelop I was shaking so badly I couldn't even open it, she opened it for me and handed it over, I had tears in my eyes and couldn't read it so she read it for me and told me my results were negative. I broke down and cried like a baby. I was relieved and thankful for whatever reason that I was negative because with my lifestyle I did not think I should be.
At that time AIDS was a death sentence now it can be managed more successfully, if you can afford the medication. I do practice safer sex and I still get knots in my stomach when I go in for my tests twice a year and I am still thankful when I get a negative result.
The porn sites where leaders in promoting safer sex and almost every porn company went to using condoms for penetration and we did not see cum shots in the mouth or on the anus, we missed it but we understood how important this was. The porn industry gay and straight was hit hard by AIDS and they did a really good job of promoting safer sex and getting tested and doing their best to make sure their models were tested. I think it is a sad state of affairs that now the porn industry is doing the opposite now most porn companies are promoting unsafe sex in their videos. I think especially young people see this as an example and believe that HIV is not as risky or dangerous as it once was. I've seen young people who actually look for infected people to have sex with because they feel that once they have HIV they don't have to worry about it anymore.
With the new law in LA county that all porn actors must wear condoms is a good law. Now that the porn companies are no longer regulating themselves it's good to see the government stepping in and taking that decision out of their hands. I hope that this law will spread across the land and become a regular law for the whole country then there will not be any competition between sites to stay in business by showing riskier sex.
"Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it." We don't need any more statistics.
I had sex with a LOT of men but it was almost all oral sex. They didn't know at that time exactly how the virus was being spread and they weren't sure if oral sex was safer or not. They were even saying that you might catch AIDS through deep kissing. I was so scared, the usual hangout turned into ghost towns. Inside I felt like after all the cum I'd swallowed I had to be infected. I was so scared to get tested because I felt I would be positive but I was also scared not knowing. I made my appointment at the LGBT clinic and I had to wait for a month to get in. When the day finally came for me to go I was a nervous wreck, I don't even know how I managed to drive the 45 miles to get to the clinic. Sitting in the waiting room surrounded by literature I was actually shaking with fear. Finally a small older kind female nurse called me into the back and started the interview process. Everything was anonymous I was just a number but because the clinic had government support we had to go through an interview process so they could gather information.
I was so nervous and scared I stuttered when I answered her questions. The first question she asked me was when was the last time I had unprotected sex then how many mend did I have unprotected sex with in a week, I was embarrassed to tell this grandmotherly type woman that I was having sex with at least 25 men a week then she asked how many men in 2 weeks then a month then 3 months. I was doing the math in my head and the numbers were adding up way too fast and way too high. She was very nice never had a shocked look on her face and didn't preach to me at all but gave me the facts and what I could do to protect myself. She gave me information and condoms then did the test. I had to wait for another month to get the results.
It was excruciating waiting for the results, I couldn't eat, I couldn't sleep my work was suffering finally the day came. I fully expected to hear the news that I was positive. They would not give you the results over the phone because if you were positive they wanted to talk to you and counsel you. When I got into the little room with the nurse and she handed me the sealed envelop I was shaking so badly I couldn't even open it, she opened it for me and handed it over, I had tears in my eyes and couldn't read it so she read it for me and told me my results were negative. I broke down and cried like a baby. I was relieved and thankful for whatever reason that I was negative because with my lifestyle I did not think I should be.
At that time AIDS was a death sentence now it can be managed more successfully, if you can afford the medication. I do practice safer sex and I still get knots in my stomach when I go in for my tests twice a year and I am still thankful when I get a negative result.
The porn sites where leaders in promoting safer sex and almost every porn company went to using condoms for penetration and we did not see cum shots in the mouth or on the anus, we missed it but we understood how important this was. The porn industry gay and straight was hit hard by AIDS and they did a really good job of promoting safer sex and getting tested and doing their best to make sure their models were tested. I think it is a sad state of affairs that now the porn industry is doing the opposite now most porn companies are promoting unsafe sex in their videos. I think especially young people see this as an example and believe that HIV is not as risky or dangerous as it once was. I've seen young people who actually look for infected people to have sex with because they feel that once they have HIV they don't have to worry about it anymore.
With the new law in LA county that all porn actors must wear condoms is a good law. Now that the porn companies are no longer regulating themselves it's good to see the government stepping in and taking that decision out of their hands. I hope that this law will spread across the land and become a regular law for the whole country then there will not be any competition between sites to stay in business by showing riskier sex.
"Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it." We don't need any more statistics.
mikeyank
Long time forumite
As I said on the other thread regarding barebacking, I am NOT leaving Broke Straight Boys over this. This forum has become way too important to me, but I assume that we are of a similar age BenBen, and your post makes a hell of a lot of sense.
Thank you for sharing your memories. If that was San FRancisco, that nurse was probably my friend, now deceased, Ruby D.. That was her job in a public health clinic in SF. BenBen's, my, and the story of your other elders here, young ones, is why there is a flap over BB and why I am on my "high horse".
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