For Jimmy: An Appreciation by way of support; and an apology

[Jimmy_Johnson]

And.. Jimmy-The Neverending Story goes on...and on. May this be the last apology. May everyone now be at peace. Please let this sleeping dog lie.

may we love gay porn jerk off and be nice lol

 

[Jimmy_Johnson]

Oh, Larkster, sarcasm doesn't become you. Presuming you read the entire post, you would see that the "apology" part was a small one and personal to me. I wouldn't have even included on the thread if I could have pm'ed Jimmy. But since none of the actors can be pm'd, this thread was my only recourse and it was necesary to do if I were going to be genuinely honest.

hey stowe dont worry about it big guy it seems to me the few jimmy haters on here are also the most judgemental rude members as well...

 

[Jimmy_Johnson]

They need to get off Jimmy's back, he does what he is hired to do. He doesn't claim to be gay so he shouldn't be expected to act like he's gay. He reminds me alot of the old Diesal and he gets better with every scene. You need to remember these scenes are scripted and I'm sure to some extent so is Jimmy's tough guy attitude. I like Jimmy and I make no bones about it and I'll be the first to stick up for him and tell the haters to "GET OFF HIS BACK!"

i love Broke Straight Boys but they take and use alot of bad pics of the models lol anyways rallen PLEASE start posting more...i really like the way you worded things you talk the way i do we would probably get along

 

[Jimmy_Johnson]

Stowe1, I read every word of your post and I applaud your honesty, and your willingness to be able to admit that you may have misjudged what you initially thought that you saw. As far as if Jimmy is "modeling" or "acting", I would say that the real person is acting, but the role he is playing is himself, if that makes any sense. And I agree with you that I don't have a clue as to the real person playing the role of Darren, but I do have a good idea who the real person playing Jimmy Johnson is, as he has exposed so much of himself, (pun intended) in his scenes, his BTS and his posting here on the forum.

I also applaud you for the honesty you show in admitting that you have paid straight hustlers in the past, as have I. I would imagine that we are not the only men here, with a strong attraction to straight guys, who've realized that the closest we can come to having sex with a real straight guy, is to pay him. That way, both the hustler and the "john" can justify that the young man is still straight, although he has allowed a man to suck his cock, and or more.

You, Stowe were very fortunate to develop a relationship with your dear Craig, as he was able to admit that he loved the sex with you. I am very sorry to hear that he tragically passed away before his time.

And to respond to Larkster in this same thread, when you said:

"And.. Jimmy-The Neverending Story goes on...and on. May this be the last apology. May everyone now be at peace. Please let this sleeping dog lie."

As noble and civil as your request is, I believe that Jimmy still stirs something up inside some of his detractors, where they will not be able to help themselves from dredging up the same arguments, and complaints with Jimmy. Jimmy has true "star power" on this site and especially in this forum, and stars will be talked about, commented on, praised and criticized, just by the nature of who they are. When people stop talking about you, your fifteen minutes of fame is over. I hope that Jimmy's Broke Straight Boys hour glass has plenty of sand remaining in it.

i hope my hour glass runs out on Broke Straight Boys and smoothly into an affilate site that will last much longer and have me doing much more sexual exploring on my own terms...anyways mike im replying to tell you i have some GOOD scenes coming out eventually i know youl enjoy them

 

[Jimmy_Johnson]

Stowe1, I have to say that I respect your honesty and your candor. Thanks for posting.



I think that this is very true. I know that this may be a very difficult request, but I would ask Jimmy to try not to take many of the negative comments personally. I know they can sting, but I learned a long time ago that you can't please everyone. Some people are going to like you for who you are. Some won't. Some will even try to throw you under the bus. Just be true to yourself and to hell with everyone else.

i know what you mean...im just wondering you mean on the forum or videos? or just in general

 

[Jimmy_Johnson]

I can't believe people are still talking about Jimmy. This is what annoys me is that the fact it's like it's 50/50 on who likes him or not. It's sad how people are still arguing about him. I DONT THINK JIMMY SHOULD BE DOING GAY PORN. He's got a great body and personality but not for gay porn. If he was doing straight porn I think it would be hot. I dont get how Broke Straight Boys pays him to get sucked off and fuck like a robot and complain in every scene. It's there money.

exactly so watch somebody else and let the "50" percent who enjoy watching me do so...not to mention i disagree with the 50 50 statement...either way i appreciate your complaments and i still think your getting what you paid for when it comes to me a straight guy fucking guys

 

[Jimmy_Johnson]

It seems I now owe you an apology. I did not read in your post that your friend had past away. I was not being sarcastic, I just felt, and judging from other post I was right, that your post would bring back the controversy that everyone said they wanted to put to rest. I want to make it clear that I do not dislike Jimmy. You will not find a post from me on this board that says that. Any criticism I have had has been totally about his performance. And any post to him has been by way of solicited advice. Jimmy's only negative comments to my posts was in my attempt to assuage his anger about someone having the audacity to suggest that he might be bisexual. I tried to explain that it is no big deal. If he chooses to feel otherwise, that is his privilege. You will find at least one post where I have defended Jimmy. So, I guess that the give and take on Jimmy will continue. No skin off my nose. I won't be participating since I have said all I have to offer. But please don't consider me a hater of anyone. I can't seem to write my post carefully enough. Strange, for a professional playwright. Oh well! PEACE!

thanks for clearing that up larkster i bet your a great writer seriously

 

[Jimmy_Johnson]

Stowe1, I could not have said it better myself. That was eloquent and well thought out. I take off my hat and bow to you.

And Jimmy, I have never met you although I think I would enjoy doing so someday if the karmic deities worked that out. But I have known a number of young men who would appear form your various comments to be very similar in attitude. I think you are a handsome man and I like you just the way you are. I hope to continue seeing you performing here.

thanks juanjo keep your posts coming...depending on where you live maybe we will meet someday at a pride event..

 

[stowe1]

thanks for taking the time the write this i appreciate it...im not going anywher just yet even after the tour...im glad to hear you like my work i try my best...btw that whole if a straight guy enjoys sex with a man thing...think about it buddy if he likes sex with a man hes BI thats the only point i was making by saying that...im pretty sure you know idc what anyone else does with ther dick or what the like but the fact is if you like having sex with men your not "straight"

Jimmy - I started this thread with my lengthy post because I felt that someone from the membership should speak up for you. And I'm glad I did.

I see that you appreciate my taking the TIME to write the post - but the content not so much I guess since the one thing you took away from the entire post and on which you commented specifically was the "whole if a straight guy enjoys sex with a man thing...".

I guess we will have to disagree agreeably on this point. It is your opinion (not fact as you state) that if you like having sex with men you're not straight. I'm guessing this is based on a rigid view of sexuality where you're either gay, straight, or bi. Whereas it is my opinion that sexuality is much more fluid, with an almost infinite number of variations. And I can base this only on my experiences. For example: Believe me my friend Craig was as straight as you'll ever be. Just because he and I had a sexual relationship didn't make him any less straight. And I myself was married for 22 years and had three children. Believe me I had plenty of hetero-sex and liked it. And I was the same gay man during my marriage as I was after I came out - it just took me a longer time to admit it to myself.

So we disagree - big deal. I'm not sad about that, but I am sad that you seem to overlook all the support and positive things contained in that post. And I'm really surprised that you weren't gracious enough to accept my apology.

I'm glad to hear that you'll be around for awhile, although the "just yet" gives me some concern.

 

[JohnnyG919]

i know what you mean...im just wondering you mean on the forum or videos? or just in general

In general, but especially in the forum. That's where you get the roughest comments. (I bet you don't get too many people giving you shit when you're on tour.)

Just don't let it get to you, man. You are who you are. If there's one thing that growing up gay has taught me, it's that love me or hate me, I'm gonna be myself. If people don't like it, they can fuck off.

 

[angelone]

From my experiences, dealing with hurt feeings whether I acknowledge them or not are the most difficult task to handle. They will and they do eventually get in the way of my daily routine because I'm always reminded by something about them. The only "cure" I have found effective in dealing with these hurtful feelings is surrounding myself with family and friends. I just need to talk with someone special so I can vent my pain and have some respite. Talking helps me get my mental balance back so I could put my life in order. Thank God for family and friends especially those with the patience to listen.

 

[rallen1961b]

Give them hell Jimmy they deserve it and I seldom post because of all the drama "queens" on this site and yes Jimmy we would get along because I don't pretend and talk down to people unless they deserve to be talked down to and I can drink a beer with somebody without judging them. I have great respect for the actors on this site and as Jimmy says if you don't like him just pass right past his videos and watch something else. I think there might be a rerun of a soap opera on. Don't let the queens drive you off this site Jimmy because I assure you that far more appreciate what you "guys" do then not.

 

[wc19805]

This is my first time here, and after reading all 4 pages of posts, i definitely feel the need to say something.

I have been seeing a lot of posts talk about being gay, because of this, bi because of that etc etc etc. Why does a label have to be put on it? The actors are putting on shows for us; We are here to see sex, why must a label be put on someones sexual identity if we are actually here because of them. It should not matter if they like sex with women more than men, or if they like both sexes or vice versa. Enjoy the show(s) and move on. Thats the problem with our society today is that we try to label everything, and when i say WE, i am referring to PEOPLE as a whole. Appreciate what you have in front of you and stop putting labels on it.

Now, I recently joined Broke Straight Boys because of JIMMY. I have enjoyed watching his shows, and I started from his very first one to the most recent to which I enjoyed his progression. Would I like to see Jimmy do more? ABSOLUTELY, but it is not my decision for that to be made. I would love to see Jimmy bottom, but if that were to ever happen, you have to allow people to take things at their own pace. BABY STEPS. Let Jimmy do his thing and just sit back and watch. Who knows, maybe one day he will surprise us all.

TEAM JIMMY ALL THE WAY!

 

[mikeyank]

What a great thread from 2011 that just appeared under Mark’s straight boy thread. Great original post by Stowe and some great responses by Jimmy himself. Fascinating reading. The history of the site and of this forum are a huge part of what makes Broke Straight Boys special to me.