Disappointing

[slimvintage]

Wow! I feel like I'm in Psychology class during Easter Break! LOL! We have some absolutely BRILLIANT members on this forum!

OK, well, Freud was very voluble on fixations, so it's time for the Psychiatry Class, sorry. I've often thought that I like young guys because the first sex acts with another person that really meant anything important to me were with fellow teenagers. Tyler is sort of the paradigmatic Slim-partner from those two or three world shaking sleepovers from way back when, his progression along the route toward sexual identity paralleling mine (and most fellow forumites probably).

It could be that we become fixated because of the impact of the first experiences (of any kind) we have of any given type. We find ourselves doing simple things as we were taught to do them, and unless we unlearn the original track in our brains, this is the way we continue to do (or think) them, sort of "fixated" in a way. Maybe the kinds of sex we subconsciously prefer have to do with something like that.

My first meaningful sex as a young guy was with guys my age. My first gay love affair was with a boy who was "only bottom". Ever since then most of the sex I've had (with other people) has been with young guys who like me to fuck them. Obviously it's a process, not just an inhuman rut, since it takes us through the whole gamut of glance, smile, heartbeat, touch, fondle, nuzzle, kiss, throb, body search, strip search, tickle, tongue, suck, rim and so on, but ending with the age old act of penetration, before winding back down through cuddling, chuckling, nuzzling, hugging, laughing...

I love sex with guys in all it's, mainly vanilla, permutations. But I'm fixated on fucking. And I love to see the Straighties do that more than anything. And, yeah, feel a little disappointed to discover that they aren't going to do it in any given episode, just like the original poster on this thread does.

One thing more. Do you guys find that, in the context of this site's identity and mission statement, the idea of two straight guys fucking, both of them turned on, erect and flushed in the face, looking into each others' eyes, is hot? Well, I do.

Especially if one of them is Tyler.

 

[rifle]

Well, good sir, I think the doctor has spoken. Class dismissed.

 

[slimvintage]

Well, good sir, I think the doctor has spoken. Class dismissed.

No, it's time for lab, where we put theory into practice. Boys. Form two lines...

 

[rifle]

SV, I had a Methodist minister friend who used to teach a sex education class at a local university. On the first day of class each semester he would take his wife to class and introduce her as his lab partner.

I think I prefer your idea.

Perhaps we should just use one line and use the New York bank line idea. Whoever finishes first just takes the next one in line. Or hand out numbers like they do in a pizza parlor or hamburger joint. Or, there used to be an Italian Restaurant that handed out playing cards - of course Marky would have to be the Queen of Hearts. . . .Well, since it was your idea, we shall defer to your decision.

Rifle

 

[GreatLakes2]

I'm amazed how many of you agree with my feelings about anal sex. I was just PMing someone a few days ago and we were discussing the fact that we aren't into anal sex much at all compared to oral.

I was the one Tampa was talking with. Put me down as 'fecal-phobic.' Plus I have never found any enjoyment in bottoming. I think it takes the right combination of physiology and psychology. Not everyone has nerve endings in the right places to really appreciate getting poked.

Now having said that, I also have never looked at bottoming as being all about submission. I think that a good bottom has more control over his topper than the other way around. Much like performing oral. Being able to 'make or break' the deal for the guy sticking it in ya is power, baby.

 

[robyrob2]

i think Broke Straight Boys does a great job of mixing it up, i personally love the fucking, but i really love it all to tell the truth., keep up the great work guys.

 

[tampa24]

I was the one Tampa was talking with. Put me down as 'fecal-phobic.' Plus I have never found any enjoyment in bottoming. I think it takes the right combination of physiology and psychology. Not everyone has nerve endings in the right places to really appreciate getting poked.

Now having said that, I also have never looked at bottoming as being all about submission. I think that a good bottom has more control over his topper than the other way around. Much like performing oral. Being able to 'make or break' the deal for the guy sticking it in ya is power, baby.

Your last comments remind me of a few times when commentators have discussed some wrestling matches in progress. Sometimes you will have situations where they'll say things like: "Wrestler A is pinned by wrestler B but he (A) is actually the one controlling the situation from the bottom." I'm sure there are many straight women who will agree that domination of a man from the bottom is indeed possible. (If not frequent!) LOL

 

[tampa24]

Mike, dear, your sweet apology was way more than my abrupt response deserved. You should have slapped me down like the bitch I was. (Wait a minute, that's another kind of sex, isn't it? We'll have to ask Marky.) After I wrote that rude response, I signed off and immediately thought of six thousand reasons why you should have taken me to task and, instead, you were so generous. Please accept my gratitude and genuflection. Now let's cut the rimming and get back to some sex talk.

Love and kisses,
Rifle

There are many times that we post something in the heat of the moment that we wish we could take back. When it has happened to me I just hoped that the other person would cut me some slack. As human beings we sometimes say things off the cuff that are not as nuanced or as filtered as we would intend for them to come across. We're such complex creatures...but that's part of the fun!

 

[Jayman01]

I was the one Tampa was talking with. Put me down as 'fecal-phobic.' Plus I have never found any enjoyment in bottoming. I think it takes the right combination of physiology and psychology. Not everyone has nerve endings in the right places to really appreciate getting poked.

Now having said that, I also have never looked at bottoming as being all about submission. I think that a good bottom has more control over his topper than the other way around. Much like performing oral. Being able to 'make or break' the deal for the guy sticking it in ya is power, baby.

Now, there is a perspective I thought about but never gave much thought to before. Great point.

 

[GreatLakes2]

Now, there is a perspective I thought about but never gave much thought to before. Great point.

Great point? Gee, I didn't think it showed in these pants.

Actually Jayman, your comment is the highest form of flattery. It is what makes a day worthwhile to hear someone say that they looked at something a different way.

Too many times in forums we come with our own opinions and fail to learn much.
And while you were responding to something I said, I mean this on a much broader scale. Life is dull if you don't learn something new or stretch a new way each day.

 

[slimvintage]

SV, I had a Methodist minister friend who used to teach a sex education class at a local university. On the first day of class each semester he would take his wife to class and introduce her as his lab partner.

I think I prefer your idea.

Perhaps we should just use one line and use the New York bank line idea. Whoever finishes first just takes the next one in line. Or hand out numbers like they do in a pizza parlor or hamburger joint. Or, there used to be an Italian Restaurant that handed out playing cards - of course Marky would have to be the Queen of Hearts. . . .Well, since it was your idea, we shall defer to your decision.

Rifle

Definitely Mamma Majesty has to be the Queen of Hearts. That leaves 3 other Queens. You have to say who gets to be them, and I'll do the Knaves. (Tyler, one step forward please; Nelson, join Ty; Zach honey, you ok to join Ty and Nel? cool; is Mike here? Could someone get him please; Corey dude, step up with these three hotties; Robert, don't be shy, that's it, beside Corey. Awesome guys, all in a single row. OK, here's Mike. Mike, you get to make love to all 5 of these guys, yeah? Four Knaves and 1 King. Cool? Cool. For now though just hunker down for a bit and, uh, hold these clothes for me OK? This is the last time I'm gonna show ya how.)

 

[tampa24]

You mean to say that you can be done in less than 5 jacks?! Amazing...

 

[slimvintage]

Tyler topping? Well, well, well! I may just have to eat crow somewhat with what I just said as that is something I'd be very, very willing to embrace! This should be hot considering Danny is practically twice Tyler's size, and yet the latter will be ramming the former! As I said give me an amazing make-out opportunity or a 69-session any day over having my legs thrown up onto someone's shoulders, but that should be quite a wonderful video indeed!

Tyler has this awesome, limber-vertebrae'd pelvic thrust, like some smooth, exquisitely crafted, slightly oblique, eccentric-ly positioned, lightly oiled piston, churning at various degrees of acceleration. He just loves to fuck. He loves to be fucked. He loves to kiss and nuzzle, he adores sucking dick and he just loves his dick being sucked. Tyler is sunny and fresh and wanton. You and he would have a terrific time. Running: send him a pvt. msg.

 

[vicekid]

Damn, Running Scorpio, I find myself agreeing with you more and more. I too am not a big fan of anal and enjoy orally pleasing a hot guy the same way as you. The journey with my tongue from his nipples down his abs, following the happy trail to his hard "prize" is pure esctasy for me. And when the body belongs to a hot, hard bodied, young fit "straight boy", oh la la.

Mike

I too am more aligned with you, Runningscorpion, Tampa, Greatlakes & GRW. Runningscorpion perhaps you have hit upon a new subject that could be a new post: Oral or Anal.

Live Long and Prosper,

Vicekid

 

[mikeyank]

I too am more aligned with you, Runningscorpion, Tampa, Greatlakes & GRW. Runningscorpion perhaps you have hit upon a new subject that could be a new post: Oral or Anal.

Live Long and Prosper,

Vicekid

You can add me to the list of "cocksuckers" in this forum, who is not a big fan of anal.

Mike

 

[dande01]

someone should do a post or a poll and see who likes oral Vs. anal?

 

[mikeyank]

Teacher's Pet

someone should do a post or a poll and see who likes oral Vs. anal?

Slim is the teacher's pet and got the poll up first. Three gold stars for Slim!!!

 

[slimvintage]

Slim is the teacher's pet and got the poll up first. Three gold stars for Slim!!!

Yeah but I bloody fucked it up didn't I...you'd have done a much better poll, with more sensitive, answerable questions. Next time we have to, erm, do it together.

Anyway, I'm not the teacher's pet so there. I waited hours after Dave's suggestion to upload that mess.

 

[RunningScorpio21NEPA]

Running: send him a pvt. msg.

HAHA! No. Part of Tyler's contract with Broke Straight Boys probably prohibits him (and any other model for that matter) from any sort of romantic contact with a forum member. Besides, such a proposition would be unfair to Tyler. He's supposedly put on 20 pounds of muscle and oozes sex appeal (amongst other substances when you make him happy enough!) LOL! Perhaps when I start my marathon-training back up and can actually GET a tan where I'll soon be living (you can't get a tan when it rains everyday in PA), then maybe, just MAYBE I'd deem myself worthy! I just hope I can find some guys in DC that are as genuine, considerate, and articulate as Tyler seems to be judging from our PMs. My prospective networking via CraigsList, Facebook, MySpace, etc. has netted me some very well-educated "nibbles" on my line that also happen to have egos the size of Brent Everett's dick!

 

[slimvintage]

HAHA! No. Part of Tyler's contract with Broke Straight Boys probably prohibits him (and any other model for that matter) from any sort of romantic contact with a forum member. Besides, such a proposition would be unfair to Tyler. He's supposedly put on 20 pounds of muscle and oozes sex appeal (amongst other substances when you make him happy enough!) LOL! Perhaps when I start my marathon-training back up and can actually GET a tan where I'll soon be living (you can't get a tan when it rains everyday in PA), then maybe, just MAYBE I'd deem myself worthy! I just hope I can find some guys in DC that are as genuine, considerate, and articulate as Tyler seems to be judging from our PMs. My prospective networking via CraigsList, Facebook, MySpace, etc. has netted me some very well-educated "nibbles" on my line that also happen to have egos the size of Brent Everett's dick!

Running, you've totally forgotten that several months ago you were being drafted by your fellow forumites to be the member-on-the-futon. Dave was on board with the idea of a cute guy from the forum doin' a shoot with the Straighties. You don't have to change shape to look like most of the boys who get filmed, and you have more personality than a good many of them. The fact that you would be mortified if anyone you knew saw you engaged with Ty in a classic 69 is probably more to the point and reasonably understandable. You and Denver are way too hard on yourselves. You are both adorable. Tellin' ya like it is bro, from one who knows.