Dear site managment,

[Dman]

I would like to thank the staff of Broke Straight Boys for such a great site. It is well worth the money and gets better everyday. It isn't always easy being gay especially in my line of work but atleast I can always watch some great videos. I am currently an active duty infantry officer in the united states army and ill tell ya Broke Straight Boys keeps me going sometimes. Yall are awesome and I thank you very much for such an awesome site and something to make me feel welcomed.

 

[Beth]

I would like to thank the staff of Broke Straight Boys for such a great site. It is well worth the money and gets better everyday. It isn't always easy being gay especially in my line of work but atleast I can always watch some great videos. I am currently an active duty infantry officer in the united states army and ill tell ya Broke Straight Boys keeps me going sometimes. Yall are awesome and I thank you very much for such an awesome site and something to make me feel welcomed.

Welcome Dman, and thank you for serving! This is a great site and the forum is a wonderful place to let yourself be you. Please post often and if you feel like it, there is a "10 Random Facts" thread you can add your info to.

 

[BrokeStraightBoys]

Aw thanks so much! We work hard to make Broke Straight Boys the #1 site. Thank you for your membership and welcome.

 

[stowe1]

I would like to thank the staff of Broke Straight Boys for such a great site. It is well worth the money and gets better everyday. It isn't always easy being gay especially in my line of work but atleast I can always watch some great videos. I am currently an active duty infantry officer in the united states army and ill tell ya Broke Straight Boys keeps me going sometimes. Yall are awesome and I thank you very much for such an awesome site and something to make me feel welcomed.

Are you saying that the repeal of DADT has not improved the lot of gays in the military?

 

[Stripe222]

Are you saying that the repeal of DADT has not improved the lot of gays in the military?

Don't be crass. He didn't imply anything like that. The repeal of DADT changed the military's policy toward gays, but it didn't miraculously cure homophobia, especially in the military.

To Dman: I'm glad you find some respite in the site. It is fun! Enjoy...

 

[Dman]

Yes the repeal of DADT has drastically improved life for gays in the military. However when I became an officer I wanted to serve doing the job I could do best and that job is infantry which is probably the most homophobic branch of the army. But it is the life that I chose so it is my cross to bear. But in the end I love it.

 

[danleeh1984]

I would like to thank the staff of Broke Straight Boys for such a great site. It is well worth the money and gets better everyday. It isn't always easy being gay especially in my line of work but atleast I can always watch some great videos. I am currently an active duty infantry officer in the united states army and ill tell ya Broke Straight Boys keeps me going sometimes. Yall are awesome and I thank you very much for such an awesome site and something to make me feel welcomed.

hi dman, welcome to the forum. You'll find this Is a great place to be yourself and escape from reality if you need to as it is that way for me. If you have any questions or need any help please dont be afraid to ask as we dont bite unless you want us to lol. Take care. Dan x

 

[mikeyank]

I would like to add my as well Dman. I love the diversity of people who join this forum, of all nationalities, from all parts of the world, both women and men, young and old, gay, bi and straight, all with our own unique perspective on life and our own take on this site and the young men who perform for us.

And being the "pervy" kind of guy I am, I am intrigued by your being an officer in the military, picturing all those fit young men in the barracks, but I will leave those questions until I get to know you better. I always love new forumites joining in on the fun and sometimes the controversies as well. Once again a great big from New York City.

 

[mikeyank]

Are you saying that the repeal of DADT has not improved the lot of gays in the military?

Don't be crass. He didn't imply anything like that. The repeal of DADT changed the military's policy toward gays, but it didn't miraculously cure homophobia, especially in the military.

Actually I thought that Stowe asked a good question based on the changes in military policy regarding gays, over the last decade or so, and I thank Dman for answering his question, as I was curious about the same thing.

 

[joeychuck2]

You guys have to realize that if DADT wasn't repealed and he was an active member here he would be prosecuted. Now he can watch and reply and be himself.
Glad you are here Dman and thank you for serving.

 

[JohnnyBlumedia]

Thanks Dman...glad we can give you some much needed relief and entertainment. You do so much for us, it's nice to know we can help you in return as small as it may be. We get our fair share of military and ex-military guys (Dakota for example) I'm sure you can relate with some of those guys in extra ways. Thanks again for the nice compliments- we are constantly trying to improve and be all WE can be!!
Johnny Robins

 

[louis33705]

Welcome, Dman. Thank you for your service. My Dad served in the Army Air Corps during WWII. I served in the Air Force during the Viet Nam era. Growing up I never questioned my sexuality. Two of my closest friends in high school were gay but we kept our sexual identities to ourselves since we attended a private all boys preppy school. I was a senior in high school when JFK was killed. It was the first time I saw my Dad cry. Viet Nam was in full swing at the time. All of the guys in my class enrolled in college immediately after graduation to avoid being drafted into the military. I did not. To avoid being drafted, I enlisted voluntarily. What I did not expect was the questionnaire I had to fill out when I arrived at the induction center. It included three questions to which I gave false answers.

1. Are you a homosexual? "No"

2. Do you have homosexual tendencies? "No"

3. Have your ever had a homosexual experience? "No"

I felt like crap answering those questions because I had never seen myself less than any other person. However, I wanted to serve my country as my Father had done. I was a proud American.

Regardless of others' opinions, I have to give credit to your Commander-In-Chief for being a major influence in changing the tide for us "Homosexuals." Wear your uniform in pride for being an American. Take pride in knowing that we look up to you for serving our Country and our community.

Peace, my Brother. I pray for your safety and serenity and wish you a long life of love.

Louis

 

[louis33705]

I meant to attached this to my post above. It is a photo of pics of my Dad and me in uniform. I had posted this in the July 4th forum.

 

[another1]

his service and your service to our country will never be forgotten.

 

[Dman]

Thank you all for the welcome it is greatly appreciated. I am glad to join such an awesome community. More on the DADT. So when I first joined the army in august of 2010 DADT was still in effect and I had to sign a paper saying that I was not gay. Not too long after it was then repealed. I stay stayed hidden until 2012 and I came out to some of my peers who accepted me for who I am because 1) they are from our generation, a much more accepting generation, and 2) because I had proven time and time again to everyone that I am a very tough guy capable of making it through the hardest of conditions and even more capable of leading soldiers through them. I am now in a new period of my career where I have to be careful with who I tell of my sexual orientation because where I am at now is not the most accepting place. However those who I have told have accepted me. I am currently engaged tp the man I love however we know that we probably will not get married until I get our of the army. It could be a while lol as I just signed up for 10 more years. But anyway, I didn't post here to get gratification nor a million thank you's, (although it is greatly appreciated) I mainly shared my story because growing up and even into thje beginning of my army career I struggled with being gay. I accepted the then cold hard truth that gay men are weak and cant do the same as straight men. But something clicked in my head and made me realize that I can. That I can do everything that everyone else can. So I joined the united states infantry as an officer. For those who don't know what the infantry is, we are the ones who do all the killing and dying. It was hard at first when I realized that I might die for a country that doesn't think I should be allowed to marry the man I love. I want everyone out there who has any sort of doubt or bad feeling about their orientation that feels that they cant do things or feels like they are held back to know that yes you can. Life is what you make of it and if we don't rise to our self-defined greatness than what is it worth? Don't let silly people hold you back. e are who we are, we can do anything and everything better than anyone else. Lastly, no matter what life throws at you whether it be a hook or a jab you counter it with an uppercut and when life knocks you to the ground u get back up before the ten count holding your head high and strong because nothing and no one can bring you down for the count.

 

[danleeh1984]

Thank you all for the welcome it is greatly appreciated. I am glad to join such an awesome community. More on the DADT. So when I first joined the army in august of 2010 DADT was still in effect and I had to sign a paper saying that I was not gay. Not too long after it was then repealed. I stay stayed hidden until 2012 and I came out to some of my peers who accepted me for who I am because 1) they are from our generation, a much more accepting generation, and 2) because I had proven time and time again to everyone that I am a very tough guy capable of making it through the hardest of conditions and even more capable of leading soldiers through them. I am now in a new period of my career where I have to be careful with who I tell of my sexual orientation because where I am at now is not the most accepting place. However those who I have told have accepted me. I am currently engaged tp the man I love however we know that we probably will not get married until I get our of the army. It could be a while lol as I just signed up for 10 more years. But anyway, I didn't post here to get gratification nor a million thank you's, (although it is greatly appreciated) I mainly shared my story because growing up and even into thje beginning of my army career I struggled with being gay. I accepted the then cold hard truth that gay men are weak and cant do the same as straight men. But something clicked in my head and made me realize that I can. That I can do everything that everyone else can. So I joined the united states infantry as an officer. For those who don't know what the infantry is, we are the ones who do all the killing and dying. It was hard at first when I realized that I might die for a country that doesn't think I should be allowed to marry the man I love. I want everyone out there who has any sort of doubt or bad feeling about their orientation that feels that they cant do things or feels like they are held back to know that yes you can. Life is what you make of it and if we don't rise to our self-defined greatness than what is it worth? Don't let silly people hold you back. e are who we are, we can do anything and everything better than anyone else. Lastly, no matter what life throws at you whether it be a hook or a jab you counter it with an uppercut and when life knocks you to the ground u get back up before the ten count holding your head high and strong because nothing and no one can bring you down for the count.

what a beautiful post and thank you so much for sharing your experiences with us and letting us know about your life. I hope one day you will manage to finally get married to the man you love. Once again thank you and please remember if you need any help please don't be afraid to ask as I know what it's like when you first join as of course do the rest. Take care dan x

 

[Dman]

Hooah brother

 

[lpdude86]

Yes the repeal of DADT has drastically improved life for gays in the military. However when I became an officer I wanted to serve doing the job I could do best and that job is infantry which is probably the most homophobic branch of the army. But it is the life that I chose so it is my cross to bear. But in the end I love it.

I, for one, THANK YOU, for the job that you do. I enjoy my freedom because of soldiers like you!
Welcome to the forum.

 

[joninliverton]

Welcome to the forum Dman. Being a serving guy you certainly are Dee man..

 

[another1]

Thank you all for the welcome it is greatly appreciated. I am glad to join such an awesome community. More on the DADT. So when I first joined the army in august of 2010 DADT was still in effect and I had to sign a paper saying that I was not gay. Not too long after it was then repealed. I stay stayed hidden until 2012 and I came out to some of my peers who accepted me for who I am because 1) they are from our generation, a much more accepting generation, and 2) because I had proven time and time again to everyone that I am a very tough guy capable of making it through the hardest of conditions and even more capable of leading soldiers through them. I am now in a new period of my career where I have to be careful with who I tell of my sexual orientation because where I am at now is not the most accepting place. However those who I have told have accepted me. I am currently engaged tp the man I love however we know that we probably will not get married until I get our of the army. It could be a while lol as I just signed up for 10 more years. But anyway, I didn't post here to get gratification nor a million thank you's, (although it is greatly appreciated) I mainly shared my story because growing up and even into thje beginning of my army career I struggled with being gay. I accepted the then cold hard truth that gay men are weak and cant do the same as straight men. But something clicked in my head and made me realize that I can. That I can do everything that everyone else can. So I joined the united states infantry as an officer. For those who don't know what the infantry is, we are the ones who do all the killing and dying. It was hard at first when I realized that I might die for a country that doesn't think I should be allowed to marry the man I love. I want everyone out there who has any sort of doubt or bad feeling about their orientation that feels that they cant do things or feels like they are held back to know that yes you can. Life is what you make of it and if we don't rise to our self-defined greatness than what is it worth? Don't let silly people hold you back. e are who we are, we can do anything and everything better than anyone else. Lastly, no matter what life throws at you whether it be a hook or a jab you counter it with an uppercut and when life knocks you to the ground u get back up before the ten count holding your head high and strong because nothing and no one can bring you down for the count.

you sound like a leader and someone with a good head on his shoulders.

I remember not checking those boxes. I reasoned that yes would commit me to something I was not clear on and that no would be untrue. I have since been placed on disability list and I cannot recall the unchecked boxes ever coming up. race was checked based on observation.