As an attempt to meet a man, I took a huge step forward and suscribed to two dating sites.
I don't know if I showed myself in a good light or if my ad is good enough. I'm really not at this stuff.
I'm always sick and stuff and I've never ever kissed a guy so I feel like I'm putting myself on the spot there...
Men expect women my age to be experienced or t least to hav had relationships at ome point.
After like 2 weeks, I chatted with a guy and offered to talk about by email where I told him the truth when he asked me about my last relationship. For me, the best policy is honety but I don't know if it applies to dating dites.
I chatted via email with that guy who seemed cool, we had some stuff in common. We grabbed a coffee in a public place. He wanted me to get to his place and since I had never even seen him, I refused and he agreed for the coffee.
He was nice but I felt uber nervous, it was my first date after all. After the coffee, he wanted to go grab a drink. At first, I refused, I had a huge migraine but didn't want to let him know, then, I agreed and on our way to a bar, he actually starting counting his money and told me, he barely had enough for a drink for him. I jumped in and offered that we meet another time. He agreed.
The following day, he sent me an email sying how surprised he was that I cut short to the date so quickly since we seemed to have hit it off. He said, he wanted to ask me to continue the date at his place but was afraid to scare me away.
Fact is, I probably would have said yes if I felt comfortable with him but I realized, in retrospect, that I didn't.
First of all, he wasn't really my type physically. I tried to overlook that but there were other things, like the fact that he spent the whole time telling me how amazing, surprising and unusual my situation was. He made me feel like a zoo animal on display.
Then, there's the fact that he insisted on meeting on that day but yet didn't offer to pay for the coffee and of course, the whole, I don't have enough money to buy a drink, knowing that he was insisting to go grab one.
There's also the fact that he spoke really really loudly and of course , the fact that when I thought, I'd give it another try and suggested a diner and a movie, he said he prefered a more intimate place, like his place. I didn't feel comfortable at all with him so I let him down gently. I was iin no hurry to see him again, so I knew that as desperate as I am to meet someone, settling is not the best thing, is it?
I feel like I deserve something. When we met, it was jut before my birthday, which he knew, yet he only said happy birthday and didn't offer to do a restaurant...
Ok, guys, what do you think of all this and in general of dating sites?
Will you be willing to help me in my pursuit of finding a man?
