Can a gay male have sex with a female

[br6205]

The answer of course is yes but what is far more revealing are these two questions will they enjoy it and will they be good at it. I can only answer from my own experience & that is no to both. But that is just me I invite other gay men to give their experiences. I dare say the best worlds is the bi ( or whatever term is now used)guy who can be good at having sex with both sexes & can enjoy sex. I contend that if a man is 100% straight he could have sex with a man but could not enjoy it which would be reflected in his body language & therefore not be a success in gay porn. Of course few things are absolute so with the exception of death there could be exceptions but I expect very few.

 

[legend0007]

I have enjoyed a lot of sex with girls. When I was younger I was exclusively for females as I didn't want people to know I liked guys, and I think I'm quite good in bed with females as I'm bigger than people usually think downstairs and quite fit so I can go some.

Until recently I thought I was bisexual. I do still find them attractive in a way, but more and more I've found that I like to bottom. It just feels like it should be. Physically I think sex with girls feels better, or even topping, but being a bottom makes me feel better. I don't know why and it probably sounds like I'm talking rubbish, I'm still getting my head around it tbh.

I don't like saying I'm gay or bi or straight, as i don't like being pigeonholed. I think everybody is different. You don't pigeonhole somebody for liking sugar in their tea, why do it for if they like cock? prolly just talking rubbish again tho lol srry if i'm making zero sense

 

[mikeyank]

I have enjoyed a lot of sex with girls. When I was younger I was exclusively for females as I didn't want people to know I liked guys, and I think I'm quite good in bed with females as I'm bigger than people usually think downstairs and quite fit so I can go some.

Until recently I thought I was bisexual. I do still find them attractive in a way, but more and more I've found that I like to bottom. It just feels like it should be. Physically I think sex with girls feels better, or even topping, but being a bottom makes me feel better. I don't know why and it probably sounds like I'm talking rubbish, I'm still getting my head around it tbh.

I don't like saying I'm gay or bi or straight, as i don't like being pigeonholed. I think everybody is different. You don't pigeonhole somebody for liking sugar in their tea, why do it for if they like cock? prolly just talking rubbish again tho lol srry if i'm making zero sense

You are making complete sense and I totally respect your openness and honesty. We are all wired differently and you seem to have found yourself and know what you enjoy. I am 100% gay and never did or could be sexually aroused by a female but that is me and I understand and respect that human beings run the full gamut in so many areas of life including sexuality.

 

[br6205]

I have enjoyed a lot of sex with girls. When I was younger I was exclusively for females as I didn't want people to know I liked guys, and I think I'm quite good in bed with females as I'm bigger than people usually think downstairs and quite fit so I can go some.

Until recently I thought I was bisexual. I do still find them attractive in a way, but more and more I've found that I like to bottom. It just feels like it should be. Physically I think sex with girls feels better, or even topping, but being a bottom makes me feel better. I don't know why and it probably sounds like I'm talking rubbish, I'm still getting my head around it tbh.

I don't like saying I'm gay or bi or straight, as i don't like being pigeonholed. I think everybody is different. You don't pigeonhole somebody for liking sugar in their tea, why do it for if they like cock? prolly just talking rubbish again tho lol srry if i'm making zero sense

Thank you for responding & I like what you had to say. It reminds me of Adam, who came here thinking he just liked girls and over time he found also liked boys. I can think of nothing better than liking both and deriving and giving pleasure to a person regardless of their sexuality and just based on whom they are as a person.

 

[dande01]

So I guess what your saying is if a gay guy has sex with a female, they are straight? They must be straight, right...they have sex with a female any guys that have sex with females are straight.....

 

[dande01]

I have enjoyed a lot of sex with girls. When I was younger I was exclusively for females as I didn't want people to know I liked guys, and I think I'm quite good in bed with females as I'm bigger than people usually think downstairs and quite fit so I can go some.

Until recently I thought I was bisexual. I do still find them attractive in a way, but more and more I've found that I like to bottom. It just feels like it should be. Physically I think sex with girls feels better, or even topping, but being a bottom makes me feel better. I don't know why and it probably sounds like I'm talking rubbish, I'm still getting my head around it tbh.

I don't like saying I'm gay or bi or straight, as i don't like being pigeonholed. I think everybody is different. You don't pigeonhole somebody for liking sugar in their tea, why do it for if they like cock? prolly just talking rubbish again tho lol srry if i'm making zero sense

Firstly, Welcome to the Broke Straight Boys forum. I deal with this on a daily basis. Everyone is different and everyone has there own sexual likes and dislikes. There is nothing wrong how you feel. We have had many guys that appeared on Broke Straight Boys over the years that didn't consider themselves gay, but straight and they enjoyed anal sex. They had or have girlfriends or long term relationships with females that do anal play on there man.

On Netflix, there is a show called, "building a sex room" and the women that does the consulting, interviews many couples. The day I watched it she interviewed a married couple that the husband enjoys anal play with his wife.

I also agree with you when you say, you don't like to place a label on it...in today's world, you are correct. I think many people are discovering there own sexuality and are comfortable. Here on Broke Straight Boys, the members are older and still stuck in the "old" days that your gay, bisexual, or straight...and in the "old" days, in the gay community, most gay guys couldn't understand if a "straight" guy would have sex with a gay guy, they automatically assume the guy is gay. In many cases, the straight guy just did oral, or handjobs or did anal but went back to there wives or girlfriends...but unfortunately in those days, you were labelled gay.

Most straight guys that do have some sort of sex with other guys, don't kiss, don't rim, don't swamp cum, its just SEX, to get off and have the orgasm.

As we matured and are much more educated as a society, we learned a lot and as generation evolved, sex with each other have become more fluid, females can have some sort of sexual play with other females but still have boyfriends and consider themselves straight, guys are now more open about sex, so they can do handjobs, oral sex and some even enjoy anal play, and some will even try kissing and rimming while others need to build up there comfort level, but still consider themselves straight. Some of these boys, feel they are bisexual as well and we have had boys that admitted they are bisexual, but later in life, got married, have kids and now they live a very heterosexual life and don't think about having gay sex.

I am glad you posted your view point and what you wrote, because over the years of filming Broke Straight Boys, this has been the debate for us here on the site over and over again so it was nice to hear a fresh person come onto this forum and say his opinion and his truth. Great Post and I hope you continue to post and enjoy the forum.

 

[br6205]

Mark, then what do say about Ayden Troy who did kiss, rim. Swapping cum, well I never swapped cum or ate my own.

 

[Jaybifla]

So I guess what your saying is if a gay guy has sex with a female, they are straight? They must be straight, right...they have sex with a female any guys that have sex with females are straight.....

Haha. I’ve already said this. Everyone ignored me. If a gay guy has sex with a female for money he is still gay. But if a straight guy has sex with a guy for money, he is somehow bi or we question their sexuality. We do treat men differently.

 

[dande01]

Haha. I’ve already said this. Everyone ignored me. If a gay guy has sex with a female for money he is still gay. But if a straight guy has sex with a guy for money, he is somehow bi or we question their sexuality. We do treat men differently.

That is why I mention that in my sarcastic post....LOL. But you are very correct. It seems its okay for a supposed gay man to have sex with a female, but we don't argue or question that...but almighty hell breaks out if a supposed straight guy has sex with another guy....the all hell breaks loose...LOL. Is that is what we call a double standard?

 

[Jaybifla]

That is why I mention that in my sarcastic post....LOL. But you are very correct. It seems its okay for a supposed gay man to have sex with a female, but we don't argue or question that...but almighty hell breaks out if a supposed straight guy has sex with another guy....the all hell breaks loose...LOL. Is that is what we call a double standard?

Totally. I mentioned this before but there are these 2 Canadian guys who are on Chaturbate and their viewers are constantly calling them gay and their response is that they’re straight and comfortable in their sexuality and confidence and that if their viewers want to think they’re gay then they’re entitled to their opinion and that being considered gay isn’t anything they find as negative. They know who they are and that’s all that matters. They also only do certain things and they always say “wouldn’t we do more sexual things if we were actually gay”?
I’m not speaking for anyone here and we’re all just having a friendly conversation. I do think some gay men for some reason tend to take on the opinion that if a “straight” man does anything with another man including gay 4 pay then they’re not straight at all……it gives them a sense of security about who they are, thinking “they’re more like me”.
I can say that I am 100% gay. I don’t think of women in a sexual way. I have no desire whatsoever to have any intimacy with a woman, at all. The thought is nauseating. BUT I don’t know if I were younger and desperate for money that I wouldn’t do straight porn for money. It’s not going to kill me and I could put on an act and get through it. It’s just a physical activity. Guys will kiss other guys at a party in a game of truth or dare just to impress another girl.
Basically all of that to say that gay people are so opinionated…lmao
Love you all

 

[dande01]

Totally. I mentioned this before but there are these 2 Canadian guys who are on Chaturbate and their viewers are constantly calling them gay and their response is that they’re straight and comfortable in their sexuality and confidence and that if their viewers want to think they’re gay then they’re entitled to their opinion and that being considered gay isn’t anything they find as negative. They know who they are and that’s all that matters. They also only do certain things and they always say “wouldn’t we do more sexual things if we were actually gay”?
I’m not speaking for anyone here and we’re all just having a friendly conversation. I do think some gay men for some reason tend to take on the opinion that if a “straight” man does anything with another man including gay 4 pay then they’re not straight at all……it gives them a sense of security about who they are, thinking “they’re more like me”.
I can say that I am 100% gay. I don’t think of women in a sexual way. I have no desire whatsoever to have any intimacy with a woman, at all. The thought is nauseating. BUT I don’t know if I were younger and desperate for money that I wouldn’t do straight porn for money. It’s not going to kill me and I could put on an act and get through it. It’s just a physical activity. Guys will kiss other guys at a party in a game of truth or dare just to impress another girl.
Basically all of that to say that gay people are so opinionated…lmao
Love you all

Well Said Jay...I just like to add, that in today's world, guys and girls in general are exploring there sexuality, they are comfortable with whom they are, they don't like to place "titles" on themselves and the younger generation is a lot more opened minded then years past. What was once Taboo, is now common place....

 

[legend0007]

Thank you for responding & I like what you had to say. It reminds me of Adam, who came here thinking he just liked girls and over time he found also liked boys. I can think of nothing better than liking both and deriving and giving pleasure to a person regardless of their sexuality and just based on whom they are as a person.

No worries! I always remember being attracted to boys even at school, even in a non sexual way. I'm not sure how much of being with girls was because it was and is expected of me. I'm a very sexual person and am almost constantly turned on, by all kinds of odd stuff and it might be that I just like everything.

 

[legend0007]

Firstly, Welcome to the Broke Straight Boys forum. I deal with this on a daily basis. Everyone is different and everyone has there own sexual likes and dislikes. There is nothing wrong how you feel. We have had many guys that appeared on Broke Straight Boys over the years that didn't consider themselves gay, but straight and they enjoyed anal sex. They had or have girlfriends or long term relationships with females that do anal play on there man.

On Netflix, there is a show called, "building a sex room" and the women that does the consulting, interviews many couples. The day I watched it she interviewed a married couple that the husband enjoys anal play with his wife.

I also agree with you when you say, you don't like to place a label on it...in today's world, you are correct. I think many people are discovering there own sexuality and are comfortable. Here on Broke Straight Boys, the members are older and still stuck in the "old" days that your gay, bisexual, or straight...and in the "old" days, in the gay community, most gay guys couldn't understand if a "straight" guy would have sex with a gay guy, they automatically assume the guy is gay. In many cases, the straight guy just did oral, or handjobs or did anal but went back to there wives or girlfriends...but unfortunately in those days, you were labelled gay.

Most straight guys that do have some sort of sex with other guys, don't kiss, don't rim, don't swamp cum, its just SEX, to get off and have the orgasm.

As we matured and are much more educated as a society, we learned a lot and as generation evolved, sex with each other have become more fluid, females can have some sort of sexual play with other females but still have boyfriends and consider themselves straight, guys are now more open about sex, so they can do handjobs, oral sex and some even enjoy anal play, and some will even try kissing and rimming while others need to build up there comfort level, but still consider themselves straight. Some of these boys, feel they are bisexual as well and we have had boys that admitted they are bisexual, but later in life, got married, have kids and now they live a very heterosexual life and don't think about having gay sex.

I am glad you posted your view point and what you wrote, because over the years of filming Broke Straight Boys, this has been the debate for us here on the site over and over again so it was nice to hear a fresh person come onto this forum and say his opinion and his truth. Great Post and I hope you continue to post and enjoy the forum.

You're right about labels an i respect other people if they want to do this. I think it makes people more comfortable to be able to define things clearly.

It's cool posting on here, i've found i like it, it even gives me a bit of a thrill as I don't talk about this stuff much. Fam and friends from home don't know i like lads.

I've a high sex drive so have been signing up to gay porn sites as soon as I could, but i usually just do a month and move on when i can afford it, but I've let this renew partly because of the forum.

Edit. Not just due to the forum the content is rlly good

 

[mikeyank]

You're right about labels an i respect other people if they want to do this. I think it makes people more comfortable to be able to define things clearly.

It's cool posting on here, i've found i like it, it even gives me a bit of a thrill as I don't talk about this stuff much. Fam and friends from home don't know i like lads.

I've a high sex drive so have been signing up to gay porn sites as soon as I could, but i usually just do a month and move on when i can afford it, but I've let this renew partly because of the forum.

Edit. Not just due to the forum the content is rlly good

Please stay with us Max. It’s great to have the perspective of a younger guy here.

 

[Jaybifla]

You're right about labels an i respect other people if they want to do this. I think it makes people more comfortable to be able to define things clearly.

It's cool posting on here, i've found i like it, it even gives me a bit of a thrill as I don't talk about this stuff much. Fam and friends from home don't know i like lads.

I've a high sex drive so have been signing up to gay porn sites as soon as I could, but i usually just do a month and move on when i can afford it, but I've let this renew partly because of the forum.

Edit. Not just due to the forum the content is rlly good

Glad you’re here.

 

[br6205]

So I guess what your saying is if a gay guy has sex with a female, they are straight? They must be straight, right...they have sex with a female any guys that have sex with females are straight.....

It means they are bi.

 

[Jaybifla]

So I guess what your saying is if a gay guy has sex with a female, they are straight? They must be straight, right...they have sex with a female any guys that have sex with females are straight.....

It means they are bi.

No, you’re missing the point. What I‘m saying is that as much as I absolutely don’t want to fuck a girl or eat her pussy, I could manage to put on an act to get through it if I was paid enough. Doesn’t mean I’m Bi……it means I’m broke. Sex is just a physical activity….it ain’t gonna kill you. Why is it so difficult to give the same respect to a straight man who is gay 4 pay?
We’re all going to have a difference of opinion on this, but honestly, each individual has a right to define their sexuality without being questioned. Especially today when things are so different and people are way more accepting and open.
For me I don’t go by any Kinsey scale or research or anything like that. I know some of you swear by it. We can judge people all we want but only the individual knows their own heart and desires.

 

[chac54]

Totally. I mentioned this before but there are these 2 Canadian guys who are on Chaturbate and their viewers are constantly calling them gay and their response is that they’re straight and comfortable in their sexuality and confidence and that if their viewers want to think they’re gay then they’re entitled to their opinion and that being considered gay isn’t anything they find as negative. They know who they are and that’s all that matters. They also only do certain things and they always say “wouldn’t we do more sexual things if we were actually gay”?

Would that be Matt and Ro by chance? If so, my god the first time I saw Matt I actually posted on JustUsBoys a "who is this post". Holy hell Matt is hot, and I chatted with him on Onlyfans for a bit, he seems to be super down to earth.

 

[chac54]

I have enjoyed a lot of sex with girls. When I was younger I was exclusively for females as I didn't want people to know I liked guys, and I think I'm quite good in bed with females as I'm bigger than people usually think downstairs and quite fit so I can go some.

Until recently I thought I was bisexual. I do still find them attractive in a way, but more and more I've found that I like to bottom. It just feels like it should be. Physically I think sex with girls feels better, or even topping, but being a bottom makes me feel better. I don't know why and it probably sounds like I'm talking rubbish, I'm still getting my head around it tbh.

I don't like saying I'm gay or bi or straight, as i don't like being pigeonholed. I think everybody is different. You don't pigeonhole somebody for liking sugar in their tea, why do it for if they like cock? prolly just talking rubbish again tho lol srry if i'm making zero sense

Welcome to the forum Max!!

 

[Jaybifla]

Would that be Matt and Ro by chance? If so, my god the first time I saw Matt I actually posted on JustUsBoys a "who is this post". Holy hell Matt is hot, and I chatted with him on Onlyfans for a bit, he seems to be super down to earth.

Yes, lol. Matt and Ro. Matt is very nice and down to earth for sure. They’re both very young…..a lot younger than they look. Matt just turned 23 and Ro turns 23 in December. Ro needs to lose the shirt, lol. Apparently he has a scar and that’s why he always wears the shirt but I’ve seen pics without it and he’s hot. They have done rimming and sucking but neither have topped or bottomed and they rarely do stuff together except occasionally kiss. They stream with Ro‘s girlfriend and other girls too. Mark posted a picture of Matt one time in one of his picture threads.