Cage Kafig message

[juanjo]

Cage Kafig posted the following on Facebook:

Feels Great to actually open my Facebook after a few months and know there are people that still support me even after what the social media has said about me! i have privately apologized to the Broke Straight Boys management and hope to be in Colorado soon! sorry for all the mess that i caused and thank you for the support!! i love you all

 

[gardenboy]

Lookig forward to seeing you back on Broke Straight Boys-best wishes on a career restart!

 

[johnny]

Cage Kafig.. We All Fuck up once in a while. Some of us more. Come back and get some loving..

 

[peterh6308]

I'm curious how the other boys feel about him coming back!!

 

[louis33705]

Like the prodigal son. He had the life. He become disenchanted with it and strayed to find greener pastures. Then there came a time when he found himself alone in a strange world and headed back home to the people who really loved him.

If Cage Kafig were reading this, I would say, "Welcome home," just as I would say to any Veteran who just returned from combat on a different soil.

Cage Kafig, I hope you and the management can maybe make a BTS of what you have gone through since you left. We are a caring people here and want to share in your life experiences, whether they be good or bad. Open your heart to us as we did with you when you first entered the halls of Broke Straight Boys

We loved you then and we love you now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[johnny]

I'm curious how the other boys feel about him coming back!!

That's a good question Peter. I sometimes forgive to fast. Or bad choice of words. Because he never did anything to me . But not knowing what gos on behind the scenes. Would it cause friction with any of the others boy's ?
Or will they just welcome him back ?

It would be interesting to know what some of the boys or management think. I don't think any one will say
anything though. Guess we will have to wait and see.

 

[danleeh1984]

I didn't know anything about this so I had to use my favourite friend sir Google. I admit I don't know all the details but by what I read it looked liked things were building up for sometime and it just got to a stage where he had to blow of steam and I think if we are all honest we have had all had to blow of steam in the past and in the heat of the moment things can be said that we later regret. I personally believe that we all deserve a second chance as if it happens to us would we not want that chance as well? So if he has apologised to Broke Straight Boys then I believe that if its sincere then he should be given a second chance. Xx

 

[Beth]

We all fuck up, life. I am hoping more for he and his girlfriend/wife and daughter working things out than his career. But, if we can have him here, maybe he can let us know. Wishing him all the best!

 

[tampa24]

We may be putting the cart before the horse here. I certainly hope the situation is exactly as Cage Kafig describes it. That he has apologized to mgmt and they have accepted his apology. (Along with possibly or he "hopes", an agreement to let him come back and film.) If so, HOORAY! Cage Kafig is a flawed human being like all the rest of us who has made some mistakes. It happens every day of the week. Can any of the rest of us throw stones? lol I'm a believer in second chances.

I certainly wish him all the best also.

 

[joninliverton]

Could someone please explain to me - by pm if necessary - what this is all about. Much appreciated.. xx

 

[Beth]

Could someone please explain to me - by pm if necessary - what this is all about. Much appreciated.. xx

Well Jon, it's all out there in "public" view, so I'll tell you as much as I know. If you follow Cage Kafig on Facebook and have seen him on YouTube, you could get it in his own words; anyway...

Cage Kafig was a big hit on Broke Straight Boys and everything was going great, then he "celebrated" a bit too much with the guys (and girls) and went home to his girlfriend, and mother of his child, with his tail between his legs. They were working things out, but he said moneywise, " people have so much money and work to offer... But when it all comes down to it... It is false! This is my career..(direct from his Facebook page). Cage Kafig then, for the next month, talked about "other opportunities" and added himself to a "new modeling agency." Apparently, at Broke Straight Boys, he was asked to take a severe pay cut and it was brought up that he had a criminal history. From here, it went downhill quickly; he seemed to have problems with his girlfriend, who I think he married and Broke Straight Boys He started to post very negative things about Broke Straight Boys on his Facebook. He also tried, at this time, to win back his wife by singing songs and sharing his feelings on YouTube. After about a month of that, he dropped off Facebook and YouTube. As of May 23, he started posting on Facebook the quote that started this thread. That's what I know...

 

[joninliverton]

Well Jon, it's all out there in "public" view, so I'll tell you as much as I know. If you follow Cage Kafig on Facebook and have seen him on YouTube, you could get it in his own words; anyway...

Cage Kafig was a big hit on Broke Straight Boys and everything was going great, then he "celebrated" a bit too much with the guys (and girls) and went home to his girlfriend, and mother of his child, with his tail between his legs. They were working things out, but he said moneywise, " people have so much money and work to offer... But when it all comes down to it... It is false! This is my career..(direct from his Facebook page). Cage Kafig then, for the next month, talked about "other opportunities" and added himself to a "new modeling agency." Apparently, at Broke Straight Boys, he was asked to take a severe pay cut and it was brought up that he had a criminal history. From here, it went downhill quickly; he seemed to have problems with his girlfriend, who I think he married and Broke Straight Boys He started to post very negative things about Broke Straight Boys on his Facebook. He also tried, at this time, to win back his wife by singing songs and sharing his feelings on YouTube. After about a month of that, he dropped off Facebook and YouTube. As of May 23, he started posting on Facebook the quote that started this thread. That's what I know...

Thanks for that Beth. He doesn't need Broke Straight Boys or FB, he needs help.

 

[Beth]

Thanks for that Beth. He doesn't need Broke Straight Boys or FB, he needs help.

Oh hell Jon, we all need help...that's why we are not alone. As I stated above, I just hope things worked out with his wife and child.

 

[joninliverton]

Oh hell Jon, we all need help...that's why we are not alone. As I stated above, I just hope things worked out with his wife and child.

Gurl.. and lover... I don't believe a guy with a wife and child should be here on this site. In fact I dont believe they should be on any gay or str8 porn site. Imagine in a few years time when lil Kafig searches the internet to find his dad fucking guys and getting involved in all this shit. IMHO I think it's time to call Cage Kafig's days at Blu Media to a close.

 

[florida101]

Cage Kafig posted the following on Facebook:

Feels Great to actually open my Facebook after a few months and know there are people that still support me even after what the social media has said about me! i have privately apologized to the Broke Straight Boys management and hope to be in Colorado soon! sorry for all the mess that i caused and thank you for the support!! i love you all

Cage Kafig you are the man all ways loved you your the same as me i fuck up some times to

 

[bigchris.]

Cage Kafig posted the following on Facebook:

Feels Great to actually open my Facebook after a few months and know there are people that still support me even after what the social media has said about me! i have privately apologized to the Broke Straight Boys management and hope to be in Colorado soon! sorry for all the mess that i caused and thank you for the support!! i love you all

i love you Cage Kafig i was with there a day one and will be with you to the end life is hell but have fun till then

 

[Ambivalent]

Well Jon, it's all out there in "public" view, so I'll tell you as much as I know. If you follow Cage Kafig on Facebook and have seen him on YouTube, you could get it in his own words; anyway...

Cage Kafig was a big hit on Broke Straight Boys and everything was going great, then he "celebrated" a bit too much with the guys (and girls) and went home to his girlfriend, and mother of his child, with his tail between his legs. They were working things out, but he said moneywise, " people have so much money and work to offer... But when it all comes down to it... It is false! This is my career..(direct from his Facebook page). Cage Kafig then, for the next month, talked about "other opportunities" and added himself to a "new modeling agency." Apparently, at Broke Straight Boys, he was asked to take a severe pay cut and it was brought up that he had a criminal history. From here, it went downhill quickly; he seemed to have problems with his girlfriend, who I think he married and Broke Straight Boys He started to post very negative things about Broke Straight Boys on his Facebook. He also tried, at this time, to win back his wife by singing songs and sharing his feelings on YouTube. After about a month of that, he dropped off Facebook and YouTube. As of May 23, he started posting on Facebook the quote that started this thread. That's what I know...

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Thanks for the back-story, Beth. I was totally clueless as to what this was all about.

I kind of agree with Jon, to some extent. . . Cage Kafig is goodlooking, and I enjoyed his performances. He would certainly not be the first gay, straight, or bisexual erotic video star with a wife and kids. . . two of my favourites of all time, Chad Knight and Drew Andrews, were both bisexual guys, with wives and children. (I think Drew ultimately was divorced from his wife, but the last I heard, Chad wasn't.) And both, by all accounts, have been loving and caring Dads. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chad_Knight

Drew gave an interview, which I recall, in which he recounted explaining to his teenaged daughter (in very gentle and vague terms) what he had done for a living, and she said, "Well, Dad, I don't care about that - - - I just wish you'd quit smoking!!!" And Chad gave an interview in which he talked at some length (his children were much smaller) about how he would be ending his career in video, so as not to cause his children any worries.(Those interviews both were published in gay print magazines in the '90's, and if I can find them online, I will, for sure, add them to this thread.)

I am keenly sensitive to Jon's point in all this. . . but, I do hope that we might one day get to the point where, having been an erotic video-or Internet-star, is no longer considered some kind of horrible embarrassment, but rather. . . just a part of life. Maybe that requires that we all think a little more like Swedes, or Frenchmen, but. . . I think that wouldn't be altogether a BAD thing. (And, I think we are perhaps slowly getting there.) Just because you were an erotic-video star, back in the day. . . it doesn't mean you can't be a good parent, corporate executive, or even a U.S. Senator, or Member of Parliament. (Senator Scott Brown was a famous naked pin-up model, back in the day ;-) http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scott_Brown

However, I do think Jon is spot-on, in this regard: it seems like poor Cage Kafig has been kind of conflicted about this whole experience, and things have been rather rough, for him. IF you are a straight guy (married, with kids); and you want to do gay erotic video. . . well, then, it requires a lot of careful deliberation, and consensus and support, from one's spouse. It seems like Cage Kafig perhaps didn't have that, and maybe wasn't sure, in his OWN mind, what he wanted to do. . . hence, the ensuing difficulties.

I hope Cage Kafig gets it all worked out. I would love to see him back, if it is right for him. But if it isn't, I hope he is able to get on with life, and loving his family, and just BE HAPPY.

"A" XOXOXOXOXOXOXO

P.S. If it works, I'll post a couple of "DADS" who did great work in gay video, back in the gay '90's ;-)

 

[elyot1]

Cage Kafig I would love to see you back if you want to be. Listen to your instincts and know that whatever you decide you still have people who care about you and support your decisions.

 

[Terry]

I don't know what happened, but you are trying to make it right. Come back home to your fans and do what we like. Sorry, but I would really like yo see you bottom again. Love you man.

 

[mtfrc81]

I did follow the drama of Cage Kafig and all the posts from the past. I do think Cage Kafig could have handle the situation very differently. But we have all had our own times when we have not always handled situations the best we could. Those are the life experiences that teach us and hopefully grow into better people. I'm twice his age and still to this day I make many mistakes! If Broke Straight Boys management thinks Cage Kafig has grown up and there's place for him I'd be happy to have him back.